Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Nietzsche: the best self help

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Matthew 5:39-41 says: "But I tell you not to resist an evil person. If someone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also; if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well; and if someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two...."

This is perfect advice on how to get walked all over and be a pathetic loser.

These are the bible verses my dad used to rationalize being both literally and metaphorically ball-busted by a BPD woman for years without ever leaving. And he's proud of this. It would be laughable to be proud of following such pathetic advice if it weren't so sad. I'm not advocating violence. I'm advocating for standing up for oneself and not just "taking abuse" which is what the New Testament advocates. Try reading Nietzsche. It might do ya some good.
Didn't I repeatedly say I'm not a religious man?

I see strength from plenty of man, even those that has no religions nor even bothered to read Nietzsche.

These are men that has a backbone.

Now its you bringing up bible verses, BPD, ur dad and Nietzsche in a single post.

You repeatedly mentioned meekness, being walked over, doormat, pathetic and I'm sure you'll post more on it.

The thing is, posting these weaknesses is not going to make it magically negate what's been manifesting within you for a long time.

Why don't you talk about what's troubling you and the forum can pitch in ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Didn't I repeatedly say I'm not a religious man?

I see strength from plenty of man, even those that has no religions nor even bothered to read Nietzsche.

These are men that has a backbone.

Now its you bringing up bible verses, BPD, ur dad and Nietzsche in a single post.

You repeatedly mentioned meekness, being walked over, doormat, pathetic and I'm sure you'll post more on it.

The thing is, posting these weaknesses is not going to make it magically negate what's been manifesting within you for a long time.

Why don't you talk about what's troubling you and the forum can pitch in ?
LMAO. You don't even know me and yet you think "weakness" has been manifesting within me for a long time?
 
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And yet Christians have conquered the entire planet and made it better everywhere we've gone.

Savages of Inca and Maya were sacrificing tens of thousands of their own people every single day to serpent gods and we stopped that.

We stopped the endless bloodletting between Indian savages and made North America the greatest power the world has ever seen.

We brought schools, roads, technology, hospitals, law, morality and civilization in general to sub-saharan africa. These 'people' had never even invented a wheel and had the curious habit of eating one another and sacrificing animals as witchcraft.

Meanwhile, what have the followers of Nietzsche ever accomplished? Let's see. There's Michel Foucault. He went mad and died of AIDS after homosexual gangbangs in San Francisco bathhouses. Before him there was Max Weber. He got married but died a virgin.

And then there's you. A whining emo on a pua board who has to read sh1tty pseudo-philosophical poetry to get through the day without killing yourself. Yeah, what a legacy lol.
I see you've conveniently left out the Spanish Inquisitions where Christians literally burned people alive.

And me, a "whining emo?" That one made me laugh my ass off. Since you don't have the intellectual capacity to grasp Nietzsche, you resort to personal attacks on those who do. A sure sign of a loser lol
 

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You'll learn, kid. Well, probably not, but I don't give a sh1t.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nietzsche is a good read.

He was trying to make people think, deconstruct set societal morals in his time that shackled much of society.

His thoughts on women is mostly accurate.

The problem is some men turn fanatical after digesting his works.
 
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Nietzsche is a good read.

He was trying to make people think, deconstruct set societal morals in his time that shackled much of society.

His thoughts on women is mostly accurate.

The problem is some men turn fanatical after digesting his works.
So you finally admit Nietzsche is a good read. At least we can agree on that
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I see you've conveniently left out the Spanish Inquisitions where Christians literally burned people alive.

And me, a "whining emo?" That one made me laugh my ass off. Since you don't have the intellectual capacity to grasp Nietzsche, you resort to personal attacks on those who do. A sure sign of a loser lol
Alpha af. :)
 

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I didn't say you're meek and a doormat. But following the New Testament IS a recipe for becoming meek and a doormat. In any case, you say Nietzsche contradicts himself, but I'm betting you haven't even read one of Nietzsche's books from cover to cover.
Your take is interesting. I'm a bible-believing and bible-following man and my faith is the very thing that enabled me to become strong, stable and successful.
 

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I see you've conveniently left out the Spanish Inquisitions where Christians literally burned people alive.
Christians didn't burn people alive. People who called themselves Christians burned people alive.
 

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The muslims got what they deserved. The spaniards were much too kind, actually.
 

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Fair enough, we can agree to disagree
Careful now.

When a man has trouble with his equilibrium then reading up Nietzsche will turn him into some fanatical follower.

Read up the Bible, there's plenty of strength to be gained and most importantly some sense of peace then read up Nietzsche for a more balance outlook on how he perceived things during his era.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Careful now.

When a man has trouble with his equilibrium then reading up Nietzsche will turn him into some fanatical follower.

Read up the Bible, there's plenty of strength to be gained and most importantly some sense of peace then read up Nietzsche for a more balance outlook on how he perceived things during his era.
LOL. I've already read the entire New Testament. There is no "strength to be gained" from reading it. It is a manual on how to be a complete doormat. "Turn the other cheek", "If anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well", "blessed are the meek." Yeah, right. No thanks. Christianity has weakened and emasculated men more than any other religion.
 

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LOL. I've already read the entire New Testament. There is no "strength to be gained" from reading it. It is a manual on how to be a complete doormat. "Turn the other cheek", "If anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well", "blessed are the meek." Yeah, right. No thanks.
You're not thinking on a high enough level. That describes an ideal spiritual state. If everyone had this same giving attitude, there would be no war, and earth would be close to being a paradise. But since people don't accept God's word, and think they know better themselves, they destroy the ideal situation.

This is the opposite of the radical Muslim view, where the they want to kill everybody who they doesn't meet their standard. Which is better? Unfortunately, people want to set themselves up as alpha males, so that they can serve themselves, and live from a completely selfish standpoint. In the current world, not too mamy people can live on this high a spiritual level.

Turning the other cheek requires greater strength than most people have, it's not for the faint of heart.
 
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You're not thinking on a high enough level. That describes an ideal spiritual state. If everyone had this same giving attitude, there would be no war, and earth would be close to being a paradise. But since people don't accept God's word, and think they know better themselves, they destroy the ideal situation.

This is the opposite of the radical Muslim view, where the they want to kill everybody who they doesn't meet their standard. Which is better? Unfortunately, people want to set themselves up as alpha males, so that they can serve themselves, and live from a completely selfish standpoint. In the current world, not too mamy people can live on this high a spiritual level.

Turning the other cheek requires greater strength than most people have, it's not for the faint of heart.
Do you think we beat Hitler and the Nazis by turning the other cheek? Get a clue dude.
 

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Do you think we beat Hitler and the Nazis by turning the other cheek? Get a clue dude.
That's not the same thing. That was fighting to protect our families, friends, and neighbors, not to mention all the people behind the lines that the Nazis were slaughtering.

Besides, the Nazis were not exactly following God's words either, were they? Christ's teachings set the highest spiritual standard and ideal. If everyone followed them, we would be in a sort of utopia. But they also show that man falls short of God's standard, and that is why everyone is in need of redemption, which is the point.
 

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We need to be very careful to discern whom Jesus was talking to when he made his statements. Many times we assume he was speaking globally when in fact he was specifically addressing his disciples as they were sent out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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