"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting girl without SMV

Pajeet Singh

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Is is realistically possible to get girl(6+) without having faked or real SMV?
It is so tiring, one has to keep his SMV value either by earning more money, getting in shape, being confident and winning
every day meeting etc.
This one girl is expecting more and more from me. Want me to drive expensive car and take her to lunch. I like her. I am kinda of stuck, in one side I don't show off but on the other side this girl wants me to show off. If I don't have money to buy toys, she wants me to earn it. These are all her behavioral instincts.
I am pressuring myself to work more because I don't want to lose her. What is my best option?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrgoodstuff

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Is is realistically possible to get girl(6+) without having faked or real SMV?
It is so tiring, one has to keep his SMV value either by earning more money, getting in shape, being confident and winning
every day meeting etc.
This one girl is expecting more and more from me. Want me to drive expensive car and take her to lunch. I like her. I am kinda of stuck, in one side I don't show off but on the other side this girl wants me to show off. If I don't have money to buy toys, she wants me to earn it. These are all her behavioral instincts.
I am pressuring myself to work more because I don't want to lose her. What is my best option?
Body game can make significant improvements in 2-3 months. Your confidence will rise. Talking to other females who like you will raise your confidence. If you need more money add on a part time job. Game is the nuclear bomb. Game is aware of psychology and the various positions and scenarios. Definately never try to "win" or prove your worth to a woman. Women choose. Do it for yourself.
 

YourGreatestFear

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Is is realistically possible to get girl(6+) without having faked or real SMV?
It is so tiring, one has to keep his SMV value either by earning more money, getting in shape, being confident and winning
every day meeting etc.
This one girl is expecting more and more from me. Want me to drive expensive car and take her to lunch. I like her. I am kinda of stuck, in one side I don't show off but on the other side this girl wants me to show off. If I don't have money to buy toys, she wants me to earn it. These are all her behavioral instincts.
I am pressuring myself to work more because I don't want to lose her. What is my best option?
Lol, your girl is just mercantile and calculating woman. Your finances have nothing to do with your sexual attractiveness to women, they attracted to money rationally, not emotionally. Same like a lot of guys (count me in, lol) would be glad to have a gf with millions in her bank. Emotionally women attracted to dominance and your popularity with other women, even if those qualities are demonstrated by your behaviour and looks alone. Your problem is much more fundamental - your neediness. You trying to find ways to be liked by her and afraid of losing her - what it tells us (and her) about you? What you are changing your actions based on her whims (i.e. you are weak, not dominant), what you aren't popular among other women (or else you wouldn't be afraid to lose her, there are many others). So she isn't attracted to you, she just pursuing her rational objectives. Instead of asking us how to get this one "special" girl you'd better to learn how to become a Don Juan who is desired by women, after all this is main idea behind this forum, not how to impress women and meet all their expectations.
 

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What is she offering? Girls automatically pay half with me, the ones that act entitled and want to get spoilt get shut down ASAP. Why put up with it? Get options.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PeasantPlayer

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Is is realistically possible to get girl(6+) without having faked or real SMV?
It is so tiring, one has to keep his SMV value either by earning more money, getting in shape, being confident and winning
every day meeting etc.
This one girl is expecting more and more from me. Want me to drive expensive car and take her to lunch. I like her. I am kinda of stuck, in one side I don't show off but on the other side this girl wants me to show off. If I don't have money to buy toys, she wants me to earn it. These are all her behavioral instincts.
I am pressuring myself to work more because I don't want to lose her. What is my best option?
Expect more from her, tell her she's getting fat. Tell her she's getting boring start initiating
 

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Is is realistically possible to get girl(6+) without having faked or real SMV?
It is so tiring, one has to keep his SMV value either by earning more money, getting in shape, being confident and winning
every day meeting etc.
This one girl is expecting more and more from me. Want me to drive expensive car and take her to lunch. I like her. I am kinda of stuck, in one side I don't show off but on the other side this girl wants me to show off. If I don't have money to buy toys, she wants me to earn it. These are all her behavioral instincts.
I am pressuring myself to work more because I don't want to lose her. What is my best option?
0/10 for me.
You find the models at coachella 0/10. What's a 6 out 10? Miss Universe? Yet another SS troll thread.
 

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Lol, your girl is just mercantile and calculating woman. Your finances have nothing to do with your sexual attractiveness to women, they attracted to money rationally, not emotionally. Same like a lot of guys (count me in, lol) would be glad to have a gf with millions in her bank. Emotionally women attracted to dominance and your popularity with other women, even if those qualities are demonstrated by your behaviour and looks alone. Your problem is much more fundamental - your neediness. You trying to find ways to be liked by her and afraid of losing her - what it tells us (and her) about you? What you are changing your actions based on her whims (i.e. you are weak, not dominant), what you aren't popular among other women (or else you wouldn't be afraid to lose her, there are many others). So she isn't attracted to you, she just pursuing her rational objectives. Instead of asking us how to get this one "special" girl you'd better to learn how to become a Don Juan who is desired by women, after all this is main idea behind this forum, not how to impress women and meet all their expectations.
Thanks L. Let me change my mindset and separate out money from dominance.
 

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Is she a Sikh?I'm guessing that's what you are, by your name

You guys love your bling and showing off

I think this is a cultural issue
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Newbee2

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Greedy-ness never stops.. different foks different strokes.

Fancy car, only do this for yourself.. her dopamin shopping rush goes down shortly after. If you like it and have the money okay, but it only attracts women because you seem more happy. Anything short of a supercar doesn't get attention, and the only thing you attract is gold diggers. - Hypergamy

If you come on superbike in full leathers, then you see other ones, will pay attention. Aka. Who like bad boys

I suggest find a hippi, if you don't like gasolin..

Don't buy things to impress her, buy things you love and enjoy.. the more happy / satisfied you are the more you attract women with the same vibe / interests

Hypergamy is greedy-ness it's never enough.. after she monkey branches anyway
 
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