You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They are hard to pick up but only a small number of them is necessary to say that you dated "tons" of girls.sleep with fat girlz
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
They still neg high LMS guys who arent active in the game.The system is to have an higher LMS or if you are fine for short term only to find ways to fake it...which is basically what "game" is.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes, the decade +/- of chain gunning cold approach and swipe right + takin my **** out should be gifted with all lessons to a lazy slob.Now who ever picks up the most women on this forum should post there system for picking up women, then we can field test it and see what results we get ?
for me it is... but everyone isn't handsome like me, so I hear youNo, not in my opinion. Not that simple.
This happens to be my tactic as well. And it works wonders for meMy system is to fvck the system. I tried routines and doing X, Y and Z to pick up women, none of it with any overwhelming effect. What did work was dropping all of that nonsense, not giving a fvck, not trying and taste the freedom in it. Then all of a sudden they come at you all over the place. Like cats, if you try petting them they ignore you and walk away, when you don't bother then those fvckers jump onto your lap wanting you to pet them.
Turn the tables, have them try pick you up instead. Apparently it intrigues them when a guy isn't so eager, they want what they can't easily get.
You're missing part of the story here. You have the right attitude, but unless you are some kind of Chad, you don't just stop trying and suddenly have a bunch of girls trying to pick you up. You are either still cold approaching, and maybe even getting numbers, but not pursuing (in which case you have already expressed interest). Or you are putting yourself in situations where there are a lot of women around to interact with (either by happenstance or intentionally).My system is to fvck the system. I tried routines and doing X, Y and Z to pick up women, none of it with any overwhelming effect. What did work was dropping all of that nonsense, not giving a fvck, not trying and taste the freedom in it. Then all of a sudden they come at you all over the place. Like cats, if you try petting them they ignore you and walk away, when you don't bother then those fvckers jump onto your lap wanting you to pet them.
Turn the tables, have them try pick you up instead. Apparently it intrigues them when a guy isn't so eager, they want what they can't easily get.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think you owe me 6 pictures. Scared?Mostly but not exclusively from either one of these;
1. For women age 18-24, from university or college seminars/talks.
2. For women age 24 and above from other public engagements.
3. Just plain cold approaches.
The last time we "showed" pictures of women, you took samples of pictures from a hookers site.I think you owe me 6 pictures. Scared?
What are you talking about? I just showed you a picture of an attractive girl from Bumble that wanted to go out with me that I didn't feel like going out with.The last time we "showed" pictures of women, you took samples of pictures from a hookers site.
And those dark fat ugly chicks were just plain revolting.
Scared ? Hardly, more like once bitten, twice shy syndrome.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.