Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Problem is most men think with their dlcks, and for women, physical attraction is just but one component.
That's certainly possible, especially if those women have a history of dating dirtbags.
That's what PUA Bro Theory says, but it's not really what I observe. Where I'm from, girls (and especially the hottest girls) tend to get married fairly young. It's the old "The best valued items get taken off the market first". Now whether or not those marriages last is another question, but that's the way things work here, which is a more conservative, suburban/rural area.
This is brilliant... I have also noticed this... If you do much for them, they somehow see this was weakness... As mrgoodstuff said... Refuse to do things for them from time to time..
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Help her if shes your woman. That means your fvcking and she has your back. Other than that you have to charge people $ for your areas of expertise. The only exception is someone who shares with you.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I don't think it's so much a matter of options as it is a more old fashioned mindset. There are plenty of options for hooking up, and a lot of people go that route. But where I live, it's like there are two separate groups, the "plate spinners" and the people who are more focused on relationships or family.
Yep! My ex asked me if I’d help her move out of one house to another across town. What was funny is I was the only guy she knew that had a truck and trailer and I couldn’t think of a reason to say no at the time. Of course I’m sure that just re-affirmed her perceived weakness in me that I was willing to help and haul her heavy ass furniture by myself with the help of a friend. So weak but yet I could move a big ass dresser. I’m so beta.lol
Now you KNOW dont do that for someone like her! We never go wrong getting the puzzy up front. Ditch babes who arent putting out.
What’s funny is the ones that don’t give you sex are the hardest to get rid of. They keep coming back like a bad rash.
Cause they got your deep attention and didnt have to open their legs.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What’s a kick to the ego is they’ve opened their legs for everyone else, but all of a sudden they practice celibacy around me
They are playing you. It cannot be EVERYBODY....
Why can’t a guy be both masculine AND be decent not only towards women but towards everyone? Who’s to say a decent guy doesn’t have confidence in other aspects of his life but maybe not so much women because he sees them as a lot of trouble? I know PLENTY of women who are dating or are married to guys I wouldn’t call masculine AT ALL. Yeah I know it’s her call but other guys look at the guy and instantly can sense he’s weak or he puts on an act of toughness but it’s just that, an act.
Sounds like you need to re-read my comment.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So how are men supposed to meet these classy women? Day game?
Yes, I would not have kicked that action out of my bed.
I've always had great luck through friends, school, work, classes, etc. But I hear you and understand. Just be guarded meeting at bars, all sorts of trash mixed in with good.So how are men supposed to meet these classy women? Day game?
