"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to Increase Your Sexual Market Value (SMV)

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Last tinder statistics show that 80/70% of women are looking to date 20% of men which is around 7pts on 10 on an appearance scale. It is commonaly known that womens only date up which means you have to be hotter than her. It appeals to their imperative which is to find the best partner possible. By reaching 7+/10, you open yourself to more women and increase your chances of having a relationship with a bigger majority of women.


#1 The eternal and timeless: Hit the Gym.
Your goal is not just get fit. Your goal is to reach 10% body fat and get a flat stomach.
A flat stomach is the most physically seductive part you can get to attract women and it's also a sign of a healthy body.
Once you reach 10% body fat, your skin is more light and your jaw structure is a lot more visible.
No matter how ugly you are, If you manage to get a yourself a muscular body with 10% bf and a flat stomach, you become an automatic 6/10. Simply because over 80% of men aren't fit.

Once you reached this goals, do all girls a favor and fackin wear skinny clothes so they can see your results.


#2 If you have brown eyes, change them for blue or green eyes.

This one is a little extreme you may ask. Absolutly not. Let's remember the women imperative : "Find the best looking partner possible".
Do you know what men are the most wanted by women ? Blonde men with blue/green eyes and Second are brown haired men with blue/green eyes.
Why do you think amercian mens have such good results in countries like thailand or japan ? Because men with these eye colors are rare. Only 2% of the world population have green eyes and 8-10% have blue eyes.

Changing your eye color isn't as expensive as it may seem. Where I live it costs around 2000 to 3000 EUR both eyes for life.


#3 Get Good Looking Clothes and Add Accessories to Your Style.

You need to attract attention at all cost, especially If you have no strategy and If you're not willing to chase women to get pu$$y.
Summer is coming go get good polarized sun glasses (amazon) , get simple and yet effective bracelets (amazon). Buy yourself a fake golden watch (amazon).
Find the hair cut that fits you best (pinterest).

Most of us game in night clubs and bars, If you're not able to attract attention in these places, it will take a lot more effort to get laid since you will have to do all the pursuing.

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If you manage to do all I said above, you're a 7/10 almost guaranteed, unless you're extremely ugly.
The only points that will limit you from reaching 8, 9 or 10 is your height and face/jaw structure.

Point #2 is of course very controversial, life changing and should require a lot of thinking before processing a eye surgery.


Feel free to add more things that can increase a men's SMV.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The fvck if I’m changing my eye color for a woman. My eyes change from hazel to green depending what I wear.
 

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The fvck if I’m changing my eye color for a woman. My eyes change from hazel to green depending what I wear.
It's not just for women. Generally speaking, people tend to give more attention to men with green/blue eyes.

Have at least one woman your fvcking consistently. Women give additional value to preselected men.
Indeed, good one. Will edit later.
 

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just.. stop, first you shouldn't use tinder, tinder is a meat market and you are as good as your best pic, also lets get real here, tinder tend to get woman who want validation, and any guy who use it are giving then such

what you culd do to raise your smv? yes getting better clothes, hitting the gym to improve yourself, is all good and nice, but where is the mental training most need to do? these are teh basic and easier things to do, the mental effort you need to train your mind and undertand how a woman work is the real effort you can do to raise your SMV, teh basic one will help on the first date or 2nd after that you need more
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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just.. stop, first you shouldn't use tinder, tinder is a meat market and you are as good as your best pic, also lets get real here, tinder tend to get woman who want validation, and any guy who use it are giving then such

what you culd do to raise your smv? yes getting better clothes, hitting the gym to improve yourself, is all good and nice, but where is the mental training most need to do? these are teh basic and easier things to do, the mental effort you need to train your mind and undertand how a woman work is the real effort you can do to raise your SMV, teh basic one will help on the first date or 2nd after that you need more
This thread is not targeting tinder.

Understanding women doesn't necessarly get you laid.
 

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no, but it will keep you sane and raise your chances.
Your looks raise your chances, not your knowledge about women that's the basic concept of a "chad".
 
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Looking at these dating sites, it's not hard to be better than the tattooed, pierced and spray painted land whales I see on them.
 

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Looking at these dating sites, it's not hard to be better than the tattooed, pierced and spray painted land whales I see on them.
Yeah but in real life YOU hold the power, online THEY hold all the power.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Last tinder statistics show that 80/70% of women are looking to date 20% of men which is around 7pts on 10 on an appearance scale. It is commonaly known that womens only date up which means you have to be hotter than her. It appeals to their imperative which is to find the best partner possible. By reaching 7+/10, you open yourself to more women and increase your chances of having a relationship with a bigger majority of women.


#1 The eternal and timeless: Hit the Gym.
Your goal is not just get fit. Your goal is to reach 10% body fat and get a flat stomach.
A flat stomach is the most physically seductive part you can get to attract women and it's also a sign of a healthy body.
Once you reach 10% body fat, your skin is more light and your jaw structure is a lot more visible.
No matter how ugly you are, If you manage to get a yourself a muscular body with 10% bf and a flat stomach, you become an automatic 6/10. Simply because over 80% of men aren't fit.

Once you reached this goals, do all girls a favor and fackin wear skinny clothes so they can see your results.


#2 If you have brown eyes, change them for blue or green eyes.

This one is a little extreme you may ask. Absolutly not. Let's remember the women imperative : "Find the best looking partner possible".
Do you know what men are the most wanted by women ? Blonde men with blue/green eyes and Second are brown haired men with blue/green eyes.
Why do you think amercian mens have such good results in countries like thailand or japan ? Because men with these eye colors are rare. Only 2% of the world population have green eyes and 8-10% have blue eyes.

Changing your eye color isn't as expensive as it may seem. Where I live it costs around 2000 to 3000 EUR both eyes for life.


#3 Get Good Looking Clothes and Add Accessories to Your Style.
You need to attract attention at all cost, especially If you have no strategy and If you're not willing to chase women to get pu$$y.
Summer is coming go get good polarized sun glasses (amazon) , get simple and yet effective bracelets (amazon). Buy yourself a fake golden watch (amazon).
Find the hair cut that fits you best (pinterest).

Most of us game in night clubs and bars, If you're not able to attract attention in these places, it will take a lot more effort to get laid since you will have to do all the pursuing.

-----------------------------

If you manage to do all I said above, you're a 7/10 almost guaranteed, unless you're extremely ugly.
The only points that will limit you from reaching 8, 9 or 10 is your height and face/jaw structure.

Point #2 is of course very controversial, life changing and should require a lot of thinking before processing a eye surgery.


Feel free to add more things that can increase a men's SMV.
Not sure wtf the problem is?

No better times than now to be a bachelor.
 

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You forgot about good hair and personal hygiene. My eyes are green and I can personally attest that women love them.
 

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SMV can only be truly increased by real life interactions.

Increase ur sphere of influence with both sexes and ur SMV will increase in tandem.
That's a bit controversial I would say.
When we see people, we inconsciently attribute them value according to their looks, even in male vs male interactions.
There's having Value (career, money, ressources) and having Sexual Market Value which is being able to attract women with your looks.

Let's say a men has money and a lot of ressources, he is a 4/10 and has 0 redpill knowledge. In my opinion he has a more chances to become a beta provider since women look for good genetics first, then a safe place to rest.
 
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#1 The eternal and timeless: Hit the Gym.
Your goal is not just get fit. Your goal is to reach 10% body fat and get a flat stomach.
A flat stomach is the most physically seductive part you can get to attract women and it's also a sign of a healthy body.
Once you reach 10% body fat, your skin is more light and your jaw structure is a lot more visible.
No matter how ugly you are, If you manage to get a yourself a muscular body with 10% bf and a flat stomach, you become an automatic 6/10. Simply because over 80% of men aren't fit.

Once you reached this goals, do all girls a favor and fackin wear skinny clothes so they can see your results.


#2 If you have brown eyes, change them for blue or green eyes.

This one is a little extreme you may ask. Absolutly not. Let's remember the women imperative : "Find the best looking partner possible".
Do you know what men are the most wanted by women ? Blonde men with blue/green eyes and Second are brown haired men with blue/green eyes.
Why do you think amercian mens have such good results in countries like thailand or japan ? Because men with these eye colors are rare. Only 2% of the world population have green eyes and 8-10% have blue eyes.

Changing your eye color isn't as expensive as it may seem. Where I live it costs around 2000 to 3000 EUR both eyes for life.


#3 Get Good Looking Clothes and Add Accessories to Your Style.
You need to attract attention at all cost, especially If you have no strategy and If you're not willing to chase women to get pu$$y.
Summer is coming go get good polarized sun glasses (amazon) , get simple and yet effective bracelets (amazon). Buy yourself a fake golden watch (amazon).
Find the hair cut that fits you best (pinterest).

Most of us game in night clubs and bars, If you're not able to attract attention in these places, it will take a lot more effort to get laid since you will have to do all the pursuing.
Most ridiculous advice ever.

You don’t need the gym, you don’t need clothes. All you need is your brain. You need to think critically and wisely. And before saying anything or doing anything, ask yourself “is this good for me?” ‘Is this going to help me and make me a better person?”
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You put a lot of stress on eye color yet no mention of hairline?

Agree on being in shape, its visually more pleasable plus it gives better vibes overall, it makes people think that you are also mentally better than what you would be considered by being fat or skinnyfat.

I would say anyway that unless you live in a very warm country where you wear tshirts everyday, it pays more to be a little less tight but more muscular.

Social skills and inner peace are clearly importat as well as long as you pass the looks first check.
 

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Most ridiculous advice ever.

You don’t need the gym, you don’t need clothes. All you need is your brain. You need to think critically and wisely. And before saying anything or doing anything, ask yourself “is this good for me?” ‘Is this going to help me and make me a better person?”
Most women don't care about your thinking or how critical and wise you are. Just as, in reality, we don't care about their feelings and thoughts. All we want is be admired and have sex. Most men here just want to hook up and sleep with as much as women possible.
And you're pretty delusional to think that looks don't matter.
 

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You put a lot of stress on eye color yet no mention of hairline?

Agree on being in shape, its visually more pleasable plus it gives better vibes overall, it makes people think that you are also mentally better than what you would be considered by being fat or skinnyfat.

I would say anyway that unless you live in a very warm country where you wear tshirts everyday, it pays more to be a little less tight but more muscular.

Social skills and inner peace are clearly importat as well as long as you pass the looks first check.
I mentioned getting a good haircut in point #3.
 

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When we see people, we inconsciently attribute them value according to their looks, even in male vs male interactions.
There's having Value (career, money, ressources) and having Sexual Market Value which is being able to attract women with your looks.
I do not follow this rule.

Never have and never will.

I sense people out and then I test them.

Everyone, more so with women, puts on a fake persona for the world to see.

And women are the undisputed champions at sniffing out a fake man.

Again, I repeat, increase ur sphere of influence with both sexes and ur smv will increase in tandem - it's inevitable.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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