"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being a beta chump that pays for things for women just got dangerous...

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Former Playboy model charged in older Psychiatrist's murder...apparently her Mom told them they had been "friends for a long time" and that he pays her rent...sounds like a beta chump who gets used and probably never even got so much as a kiss from her. And now he is dead after he stopped paying rent and giving her and her Mom 2-4K a week in cash...

What are guys thinking with this type of stuff??

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/for...ested-murder-california-doctor-230441312.html
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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marmel75 said:
Former Playboy model charged in older Psychiatrist's murder...apparently her Mom told them they had been "friends for a long time" and that he pays her rent...sounds like a beta chump who gets used and probably never even got so much as a kiss from her. And now he is dead after he stopped paying rent and giving her and her Mom 2-4K a week in cash...

What are guys thinking with this type of stuff??

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/for...ested-murder-california-doctor-230441312.html
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Those guys are always in danger or at risk of hurting someone else.
 
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I didn’t need to read anything in the article past the guys age. 71, yep. Those older generation men are too deeply programmed to be white knight beta which involves doing crap like this in hopes of getting mud for the duck. There is no saving them. But look out society younger MGTOW men and men who are wiser to female nature are coming. Guys like me who will be 71 in 27 years ain’t gonna play by the same programming code as the 71 year old guys now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75 said:
Former Playboy model charged in older Psychiatrist's murder...apparently her Mom told them they had been "friends for a long time" and that he pays her rent...sounds like a beta chump who gets used and probably never even got so much as a kiss from her. And now he is dead after he stopped paying rent and giving her and her Mom 2-4K a week in cash...

What are guys thinking with this type of stuff??

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/for...ested-murder-california-doctor-230441312.html
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This is still the norm dude. Many ladies, educated or not, believe in this type of setup. Just look at the rise of sugar daddies and sugar babies. What is the difference between sugar babies and hookers? At 3k a month, hookers would be cheaper.
 
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