"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Things Gold Diggers / Users say / Do?

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They suggest doing things that are costly or restaurant suggestions even though they never pay.

Last time this girl suggested we go watch the leafs game, hockey is minimum 200$ in this town per ticket.
I said too pricey. She's like gotta splurge once in a while. lol too old for these tricks from 20s girl.

Three times, girls have said my mom would really like you. (I think this is a scam, they think that men think a woman is falling for them if they say this).
Especially when they say this too early in a relationship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If all she cares about is money, it'll make itself clear one way or another to anyone with half a brain pretty quickly. Unless she's learned to hide it extremely well. But even then
 

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Firstly she shouldn't be suggesting events or date ideas. She might say I don't drink (so can't take her to a bar), but it's ok to downgrade it for a coffee, so long as there is not an automatic upgrade for a dinner. Then if it goes far enough and you want to go to an event, ask her if she buys tickets. She should say I would buy a ticket for herself only, that's normal. But if there is something like man should provide, just check her right then and there, tell her you're not my wife and we aren't doing fcking dirty enough for this to happen.
 

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Three times, girls have said my mom would really like you. (I think this is a scam, they think that men think a woman is falling for them if they say this).
Would you rather they say my mom hates you?

Firstly she shouldn't be suggesting events or date ideas. She might say I don't drink (so can't take her to a bar), but it's ok to downgrade it for a coffee, so long as there is not an automatic upgrade for a dinner. Then if it goes far enough and you want to go to an event, ask her if she buys tickets. She should say I would buy a ticket for herself only, that's normal. But if there is something like man should provide, just check her right then and there, tell her you're not my wife and we aren't doing fcking dirty enough for this to happen.
That’s harsh.

At a certain age you can’t mind spending a little bit for a girl for a hockey game or dinner. You are going to be happier that you are $10,000 richer 5 years down the road because you saved your money and didn’t spend on her?

Picked a stock 10 years ago that was recommend by the government and Prince William. Lost half a mil.

I’ll buck for a dinner sometimes.
 
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Gold digger won't hide they express themselves well you should know if you have experience..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They suggest doing things that are costly or restaurant suggestions even though they never pay.

Last time this girl suggested we go watch the leafs game, hockey is minimum 200$ in this town per ticket.
I said too pricey. She's like gotta splurge once in a while. lol too old for these tricks from 20s girl.

Three times, girls have said my mom would really like you. (I think this is a scam, they think that men think a woman is falling for them if they say this).
Especially when they say this too early in a relationship.
she did didn't she? so why you didn't say, "you get the tickets?"

also if a girl says her mom would like you, you are a nice guy, let that sink
 

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If she's suggesting a place then she should be the one paying.
 

bob2007

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Would you rather they say my mom hates you?



That’s harsh.

At a certain age you can’t mind spending a little bit for a girl for a hockey game or dinner. You are going to be happier that you are $10,000 richer 5 years down the road because you saved your money and didn’t spend on her?

Picked a stock 10 years ago that was recommend by the government and Prince William. Lost half a mil.

I’ll buck for a dinner sometimes.
Not a fan of what you said haha. Why would I spend 500 bucks on a date? Esp when we never had sex.
If you're into stocks we should chat.
My family members have lost half a million not listening to me haha and I worked on wall street.
 

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she did didn't she? so why you didn't say, "you get the tickets?"

also if a girl says her mom would like you, you are a nice guy, let that sink
That's just being argumentative. I rather just ignore it and put her in the bang only zone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's just being argumentative. I rather just ignore it and put her in the bang only zone.
at that moment she would already be nexted, I was just getting fun out of her just to piss her off

Maybe means shes really immature.
all woman are immature, means little, unless she is a stay at home girl, around 18 and a really family oriented girl and even so that is hardly a compliment, that means more like you are a safe bet, parents would like you to take they little girl, aka now you are the sucker who will pay her bills, is far better if she don't know if her parents will like you or not.

also from what I know from parents liking the other person the kid choose, the ones who did go right in relationship was the ones who parents didn't like, her side preferential, the ones who liked the dude things did really go south
 

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They suggest doing things that are costly or restaurant suggestions even though they never pay.

Last time this girl suggested we go watch the leafs game, hockey is minimum 200$ in this town per ticket.
I said too pricey. She's like gotta splurge once in a while. lol too old for these tricks from 20s girl.

Three times, girls have said my mom would really like you. (I think this is a scam, they think that men think a woman is falling for them if they say this).
Especially when they say this too early in a relationship.
There's a certain level of ****ery that accompanied top form SMV 18-23. The same is said of epiphany phase and cratered SMV only lacking in the SMP and SMV. Maturity of a 17yr old. Always going to be a thing.


She says, single, a doctor, etc what a woman wants in a man. Lololol

This herein lies why you pursue top form SMV 18-23 over old ladies.


Women use the power of the ***** to test the SMP in full blown auction to the highest bidder. Its hypergamy on steroids.

I am into sports so, I wouldn't mind going. I don't suggest paying for. I would error on the side of caution when going out to games. Baseball is much cheaper.

I usualy do coffee. I portray **** boy. Not play house. Even still, top form SMV will test your resolve.

Female nature is hardwired to extract resources by any means necessary be it ***** power or running to the state.

I cannot stress it enough to get money right. Lifestyle is key to game. I practice minimalism. Drinks, coffee, tea, etc is my go to favorite.

Respect @ Op. If this was or is a steady plate, say 6 months to a year, top form SMV 18-23, a chick you pull her hawttt friends and other girls with, and you choose the game as a 1 off, special occasion, and you support said team. Preferably with it being a one off, you got hooked up woth free or deal on tickets , and chick earned her place. Most guys fo it to impress.
 

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at that moment she would already be nexted, I was just getting fun out of her just to piss her off



all woman are immature, means little, unless she is a stay at home girl, around 18 and a really family oriented girl and even so that is hardly a compliment, that means more like you are a safe bet, parents would like you to take they little girl, aka now you are the sucker who will pay her bills, is far better if she don't know if her parents will like you or not.

also from what I know from parents liking the other person the kid choose, the ones who did go right in relationship was the ones who parents didn't like, her side preferential, the ones who liked the dude things did really go south
I had two LTRS of over 5 yrs where parents liked me. I got sex on demand, low drama and cooked for. So im not sure.

If the dude is a real "bad" dude where there no reedeeming quality the parents wont like that. Of course "girl" will eff with that one behind their back.
 

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I had two LTRS of over 5 yrs where parents liked me. I got sex on demand, low drama and cooked for. So im not sure.

If the dude is a real "bad" dude where there no reedeeming quality the parents wont like that. Of course "girl" will eff with that one behind their back.
then why it ended?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bob2007

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I was a cheater then. My fault. In retrospect i had good puzzy at home. The datimg game and hoez never fvcked me as well
Your situation is diff cause it was an LTR. Parents are relevant and irrelevant at that point.
 
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