RickTheToad
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Cute video. Posted by NBC news. Look at the downvotes. This, is what men have to select from in New York City (and the surrounding area). 99% garbage.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Millennial Women Reveal All In Quest For Passion, Love And Money | Better | NBC News
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is what women have always thought, it was never this in your face. Between third wave feminism, the courts, white knights, we have all been conditioned to allow this. John Wayne, he'd have never put up with this sh*t, nor would many in his generation. Someone would have been put over the knee and spanked into submission and put in their place.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Yes, but many men do not know this.
Do you honestly think it would matter to those men even if they did. Those women could be laughing in their f*cking faces and they'd probably laugh right along with them. But don't take it from me, I'm pretty jaded towards women and relationships anymore, so maybe I'm not a good barometer.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Just have to view the ladies with a red pill lens. When it's over, it's over. Can't develop feelings for them, as they sure as well will not develop the same types of feelings for you. Men and ladies love differently. Men are the romantics, ladies are the how can you improve my life and family.
It's just how it is. The important thing to remember, not go in w/o a jimmy hat. Don't marry and don't procreate. You can wine and dine them, but don't buy them gifts either. So many men do the later. It's pathetic. If it's their birthday or Christmas, and you've been seeing her for a minute, 20 buck gift and a card. Ladies are their own person. They like to have fun, but in terms of life, they do not know what they truly want until much later in life. It's just your turn at the wheel. Know when to hit the road and move on.
Words to live by.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Too late for me friend, now it's trying to figure out how to make due with a less than optimal marriage. Many options in my brain, trying to figure out which is the best path for me.
RickTheToad
Moderator
It's never too late. I've been in relationships where the lady either wanted to leave or just do the FWB thing. I never ran after her and just shown her the door for the first option. As for the second option, that didn't work for me, so I left. You'd be surprised how surprised when I just said bye. I guess that doesn't happen often.
IIRC, you are married. Have you considered to put together a slush fund? Use your marital monies and buy gold and silver on the credit card. Perhaps, visit a casino every now and then. Reason being, a family court would be more lenient on you IF they see you have a gambling and drinking problem. Of course you'd have go to GA and AA, but you'd win out better than most men in the end. You can also explore an open marriage if you need/want/desire sex. Technically speaking, no sex from a spouse for over a year is considered abandonment. I know my boss went through a divorce and he did okay. Divorce on fault divorce due to abandonment and hired a PI to catch his b!tch cheating on him. Which, lead him to "drink" and "gamble". He started going to GA and AA and six months later filed for divorce with all this proof. She had no idea what hit her. The court took pity on him and he got to keep a lot with 50/50 unsupervised custody, no alimony, he kept his retirement, pension and SS, she kept the house and some other trinkets.
It's possible.
logicallefty
Moderator
Yep agreed. Women are dangerous to men in general, but white knight men are particularly dangerous to us seasoned red pill guys. We understand women and can navigate their rivers of sh|t pretty efficiently now and overcome their obsticles, tactics, etc. But the white knight men who protect them are probably more dangerous to us when you really stop and think about it. All of our red pill knowledge doesn't necessarily help us with them.