That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do you chat on the phone after? I've noticed more and more that the ladies are asking to chat on the phone prior to meet. I have less flakes that way, but it seems a waste of time from my standpoint. I know AMS says to do that, but that's a lot of nonsense calling.
This is funny, she doesn't get the point of a meetup. It's to meet up and talk... None of that texting bs.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Welcome to my life. LOL.
I have had a few women pull this move on me. They require a phone call before meeting. Sometimes I give them a buzz, talk for about ten min, ask them out. Other times I tell them, what better way to know someone than meeting in person. These women are difficult from the start and will continue being difficult and usually have a chip on their shoulder. Most are just AW’s. Next.