Maybe now I have seen it all from women

[sazc]

She made the mess and she can clean it up. I dont have the time.

The only thing I need to determine at this point is if this fb profile is real and I should still meet up with the person tomorrow evening for a drink when I am in the area. I guess at worst case the plate shows up and we have a drink and I laugh at her for thinking I would fall for it to begin with.

And I was incorrect earlier...the presumably fake fb account as over 700 friends. Not 200. I messaged a few of the mutual friends that I actually know to see if they really knew her and all have said that they do not, she randomly added them.

your very own pina colada song ... tho I'm thinking that the outcome wont be as nice as the songs was.

I would go! Even if it is a total waste of your time, go find out who shows up.

Has plate denied the account is hers? Hvae you even got a firm denial on that? Or is she avoiding the question and, hence, avoiding being accountable for it in any way?

 

[sazc]

I dont completely agree with this

A little jealousy is not bad imo make her see you as a higher SMV, make her think you can do better

When it goes too far and someone cant control their actions like a fake FB account it does indicate some serious issue and it will likely turn into drama

idk, I've never had a good outcome with partner jealousy. Mind you, my experience is with jealous men I m in relationships with. My experience is that, when a man feels even the smallest twinge of jealousy, the hamster of insecurity seems to take over and the spiral down occurs. And, by the tine I realize what's going on (because they never talk about it) it's too late, there's no saving it.

 

[lamath]

idk, I've never had a good outcome with partner jealousy. Mind you, my experience is with jealous men I m in relationships with. My experience is that, when a man feels even the smallest twinge of jealousy, the hamster of insecurity seems to take over and the spiral down occurs. And, by the tine I realize what's going on (because they never talk about it) it's too late, there's no saving it.

I agree its not the same for men as for a women, very had for me to get jealous but i did a few times when i was younger it did make me go the needy beta-cuck way.

A little bit of it is good, but too much can make some otherwise mentally stable person do crazy ****

 

[Glassguy]

idk, I've never had a good outcome with partner jealousy. Mind you, my experience is with jealous men I m in relationships with. My experience is that, when a man feels even the smallest twinge of jealousy, the hamster of insecurity seems to take over and the spiral down occurs. And, by the tine I realize what's going on (because they never talk about it) it's too late, there's no saving it.

She just sent me a rampage text last night about how I lied about pursuing other women, not going to use her, dont ever fvcking call me again, yada yada.

I responded back with "Did think I didnt know what was going on? I can spot a fake account from a mile away bc several things made it obvious. I am not mad because I figured you would drop the gig by now."

She then said "What fb fake profile? No clue what you're talking about but you can tell me tomorrow. I dont know what to say right now bc I am too tired to think. I told you that being dishonest would make me crazy".

I didnt respond to that last night. This morning she called on my way to work. 5 minute call and nothing was mentioned about it at all.

 

[sazc]

She just sent me a rampage text last night about how I lied about pursuing other women, not going to use her, dont ever fvcking call me again, yada yada.

I responded back with "Did think I didnt know what was going on? I can spot a fake account from a mile away bc several things made it obvious. I am not mad because I figured you would drop the gig by now."

She then said "What fb fake profile? No clue what you're talking about but you can tell me tomorrow. I dont know what to say right now bc I am too tired to think. I told you that being dishonest would make me crazy".

I didnt respond to that last night. This morning she called on my way to work. 5 minute call and nothing was mentioned about it at all.

OMG I love how shes actually trying to blame you for all of this....

"I told you that being dishonest would make me crazy"

that's such bullsh1t

im still amazed she's a psychologist. Is she actually practicing? A psychologist that cant own their own sh1z.... there's a university to avoid

 

[zekko]

This woman is a psychologist?

Keep her at plate status, she's nuts

I've never met a psychologist who wasn't.

 

[Glassguy]

I've never met a psychologist who wasn't.

They say the person that needs a shrink the most is..........a shrink.

 

[lamath]

I've never met a psychologist who wasn't.

Ex had 4 sisters 2 psychologist and 1 psychiatrist, what i have notice is that they cant apply what they know to themselves.

I remember 1 of her sisters having an anxiety attack, im like wtf you tell your client how to handle it and you cant do those things yourself.

Irony...

 

[zekko]

They say the person that needs a shrink the most is..........a shrink.

Seriously, I've known quite a few psychologists, and they were all crazier than loons.
I don't mean to insult your plate, but she was trying to catfish you. That's not exactly normal.

 

[Glassguy]

OMG I love how shes actually trying to blame you for all of this....

"I told you that being dishonest would make me crazy"

that's such bullsh1t

im still amazed she's a psychologist. Is she actually practicing? A psychologist that cant own their own sh1z.... there's a university to avoid

I think I will give the potentially fake fb profile the rest of today to reply and ask if we are still meeting or not. At that point I will say "I am looking forward to seeing who you are and will be there with bells on at 7pm. This should be a lot of fun meeting you "

 

[Glassguy]

Seriously, I've known quite a few psychologists, and they were all crazier than loons.
I don't mean to insult your plate, but she was trying to catfish you. That's not exactly normal.

No worries. She already insulted herself. And no it is not normal thinking or actions on her part.

 

[guru1000]

Seriously, I've known quite a few psychologists, and they were all crazier than loons.
I don't mean to insult your plate, but she was trying to catfish you. That's not exactly normal.

You’d be surprised what is normal when a girl’s IL is too much for her to handle—and yours isn’t there to reciprocate.

I get similar crap like this quite often unfortunately. Hence, why I try to lower IL in some women.

Any man with enough soil in the game will see this.

 

[jaymbrs]

Yikes.

 

[sazc]

Another thing, the women that seem EXTREMELY empathetic and understanding (empaths) often are just mimicking/copycat their dozens of lifetime therapists and hundreds of sessions. They can articulate empathy but it's just rote memorization, not authentic.

So how do you discern between an empathetic woman, as you have described, and a submissive female that wants you to be happy and, therefore, caters to you?

 

[sazc]

See if you can get information about their mental health history.

Extreme "empathy" and sometimes a self proscribed "empath" should raise awareness.

okay, so yea, I was thinking - if she seems to empathetic, start to gently inquire about therapy, etc.

 

[sazc]

See if you can get information about their mental health history.

Extreme "empathy" and sometimes a self proscribed "empath" should raise awareness.

man, all these coupled up ppl, how do they find each other? are they just ignoring red flags?

lol, I say that and am reminded of a conversation I had last night with a fried who mentioned that his married friend, whom is married to a diagnosed dissociative order woman, just got her pregnant! they must just choose to ignore the flags

 

[Trump]

That is “seeing it all?”

That is standard standard behaviour. I don’t want get into my personal stuff but I’ve experienced some crazy stuff. What you experienced is called “fun”.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Last message I sent the fb account was "ok lol" and it was left unread. That was last night.

I checked fb messages this morning (had a couple in my inbox) and noticed that the plate was last on 52 minutes ago and the fb profile was last on 50 minutes ago lol.

I am thinking of something to send the fb account just in case it isnt a fake bc she is hott lol.

I might say something like "where did you go? I thought we were going to get together" with a bunch of laughing faces to see if there is a response. Hell she could have busted me on a number of chicks that I have been messaging on fb recently but I think this possible fake account says it all. The timing of everything just makes sense.

I am not exclusive, have had no exclusive talks with the plate and I owe her no explanations.

You said the possible fake FB account has 10-12 pictures on it. Do they look like the plate you're banging? I would think this alone would solve the mystery.

 

[Glassguy]

You said the possible fake FB account has 10-12 pictures on it. Do they look like the plate you're banging? I would think this alone would solve the mystery.

No. Current plate is brunette. FB profile is blonde. Totally different people.

 

[lizardking82]

Current plate (1 of 3): Petite body, nice rack, very cute, psychologist. Very much financially stable. Very feminine in terms of being submissive, always wanting to rub my back, head, etc. Sex is mediocre but it does the job. Super tight but the BJs are mediocre and she isnt really freaky at all but it does the job.

I was smashing this chick for a short period last summer. She reached back out a little over a month or so ago and we started seeing each other again.

Last Friday I got a FB friend request from a very attractive chick. Shortly after accepting it she was messaging me. I noticed the profile looked a little off in terms of her total friends (only 200) and the amount of pics (maybe 10-12) on her profile. I chatted with her for a very short time and she was all about finding out when we could hang out. She was actually very pushy about it which is another red flag. Sending me very lengthy messages, red flag.....

So I brushed it off. Shortly afterwards, I get a text from my plate along the lines of "I just want to see if we are dating exclusively. If we are not, I have other date options and I dont want to feel like I am cheating on you". To which I replied "If there is someone else that you want to date, do not let me stop you. However, I do expect that if you sleep with someone you'll let me know". I was totally un-phased. She told me that she would at least like to have a discussion about it when I came over the next day (Saturday) since she was fixing me dinner and that she didnt want to date anyone else. I told her that was fine, we could talk then.

Saturday was more fb messages from this FB friend request and more pushy messages along the lines of "are you seeing anyone else?", "are you scared of commitment?", "why are you single?" etc etc. I totally blew them off. At that point I was starting to get the idea that it was my plate who has had this fake FB account for situations just like this.

Dinner and smashing at my plate's place Saturday night. Yesterday I get more messages from the new FB friend. I noticed that I didnt get ANY during the time I was hanging out with my plate Saturday night.

I played along all day yesterday with the FB friend's messages. She asked me 4 or 5 times if we could meet up Tuesday night when I was going to be in her area. Finally, just to see where this was going to go and if I did in fact have it figured out as my plate, I said "Yeah I will meet you at such and such place at 7".

Literally one minute later I get a call from my plate and sent it to VM. 5 minutes later I get this long text from her saying that I was being dishonest by pursuing other women, not to call her again, blah blah. I responded with "You need to work on your fake FB profile skills. I smelled that one out from a mile away and the only reason that I agreed to "meet" was because I was tired of playing along. I was just playing your little game of dishonesty, so do as you will".

On my drive to my business this morning, she calls me. She mentioned nothing about the situation last night, nor did I. But I did simply tell her that now she should realize that I have been in the dating game for a while and I know all the tricks. I told her that if she wanted to keep seeing me, she should probably not do things like like that as it will surely hurt when it backfires on her.

The sad thing is she was my top plate in terms of LTR potential.

I didnt start this thread to ask for advise on how to handle that because I already know how I am going to handle it. I already knew how I was going to handle it when I sent that message of "Yeah I will meet you at 7". She just got demoted to standard plate material for now and I will more than likely phase her out unless she really does something to remedy her situation.

The main point here being this: For you guys that have a rotation, you need to be on your toes. These fake OLD and FB accounts these women use to see if they can lure you in are getting very common. When you are spinning a rotation the women know that you are talking to other women. Although I have heard of this happening its the first time a fake profile has been used on me (at least to my knowledge).

Be on your toes and be cautious. If you do get in a situation like this (or one of any drama) its best to always have a plan in place to put the blame solely back on the woman and be willing to walk away.

I am going to start another post momentarily that is closely related to this but a different trap that women are trying to put us rotation spinners in nowadays.

Deuces.

Sorry to hear she was your top LTR candidate. But testing this way is just...not really grown up and I can promise you she wouldn't make a good fit for a relationship. It's much harder for DJs to get a relationship compared to normal, beta cucks