"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I will stop playing computer games today
- Thread starter sosousage
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serenity
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I started going out, looking for parties and at daytime it could be as simple as going for a walk to get fresh air. Pretty fast this started feeling good, better than playing games actually.
When you rule out certain options and the frustration becomes high enough your mind will make you do almost anything to escape that frustration. This was also how nofap worked for me, I needed sexual gratification, but denied myself masturbation. So that translated to massive motivation to get sex, I stopped playing it safe (in the social sense) because I was at that point willing to take risks to get what I wanted. Which did score me some pvssy relatively quickly. Didn't give a fvck about rejection, I just made attempts until I got what I wanted. That also felt really good.
It's all about finding better ways to escape boredom and frustration. Fapping and playing games is the easy way, going out, doing things in the real world and getting the real thing is the hard way. Anyone can do it, but far from everyone has the motivation and determination to see it through without falling back.
That said, I still play video games, but nowhere near as much as I did. Those experiences changed me. I still get satisfaction from games, but only up to a point after which it brings my mood down and I stop playing.
Good luck and resist the urge, no excuse, it's worth it.
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Enjoy more real world reality with your new free time…
Identify the root causes.
Then tackle it head on or post it down here to get some feedback to assist you.
You have plenty going for you, high social EQ - use that to ur advantage.
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LOOL world of tanks pay2win game from **** company
Buying rust was bad decision, unoptimized boring crap
i bought addicting game 2 weeks ago and played a lot, could play more but i know the more time i spend on game the bigger my regret will be
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Serenity
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The most interesting single player games aren't the super challenging ones, it's the story driven ones. A good single player game is like a good movie, but a lot more interactive.
Don't forget married men. That's the thing all my married guy friends love to do. Play games online with each other.
any* men