SpeedDemon
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 29, 2019
- Messages
- 53
- Reaction score
- 27
- Age
- 44
Several years ago I was working in the city and had enough of the city life... At 29. So, stupidly, I purchased a home in the rural part of the state about 45 minutes away from the city. While I enjoy the peace and quiet, after a decade or so I am thinking it's just a bit too quiet. Since I moved here, my social life has collapsed. Friends and family rarely visit, and once a woman learns where I live, they say I live too far away. Now, I'd go drive to them, family or friends, but that gets old and we just drift apart. For a while I thought I was just plan ugly, so I took a few days off as I am self-employed, and spent some time in the city. I used bumble, match and tinder, never had a problem setting up dates. But, as soon as I told them I am not from the city and I live in so in so 45 minutes away, they either ghosted or said this is not going to work. Yea, I can get single mommas around here to give me their time, but I am really not wanting to go down that path again. I did, out of loneliness a year or two ago and it was pretty much hell dealing with her.
So the question is, do I list my house and move? I actually love my house, as I made it to my liking, but who needs a 4000 sq ft house with 4 bedrooms when it's just me? I didn't buy it to impress anyone, I just was tired of living in an apt and around people all the time. I can get around what I paid for it, maybe a small loss, so no substantial loss since the mortgage was paid off at year 10. I am torn as I like the house, but the area, I have no love loss.
So the question is, do I list my house and move? I actually love my house, as I made it to my liking, but who needs a 4000 sq ft house with 4 bedrooms when it's just me? I didn't buy it to impress anyone, I just was tired of living in an apt and around people all the time. I can get around what I paid for it, maybe a small loss, so no substantial loss since the mortgage was paid off at year 10. I am torn as I like the house, but the area, I have no love loss.