oldmanofthesea
Master Don Juan
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- Mar 23, 2018
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Let me get this straight. You think you need to tell a person why flaking is rude or bad? They really don't know cancelling plans on someone is not a wonderful awesome thing??? You don't think they learned not to cancel plans with their platonic girlfriends during childhood and teens?Maybe the word "chasing" is wrong. The better word for it would be "caring". Caring for her by telling her what she did wrong makes her feel that she's not just a toy to you and are willing to make things work if she obeys and this makes HER want YOU. I mean, why would she want someone who doesn't even care to tell why he's ignoring her? How could she build her attraction to someone who's not there? And in this situation the girl is just a 18 yr old, I bet she doesn't even recognize what she did wrong.
This is an honest thought which I've been struggling to figure out, because I've seen so many situations where the guy hasn't given up so easily and that has worked out well. Remembering that a man who fights for his woman is not an AFC, if he doesn't do it desperately and is willing to walk away at anytime. And believe you me, I'm not the type of guy(anymore) to cry for a girl, because I very well know that there's loads of fish in the ocean.
You are entering into a place of self-delusion. This is quite common, and I don't mean it as an insult. We've all been there. There is something you want to believe to be true so you start making up reasons as to why it is. Here are yours:
1. I'm not chasing, I'm caring
2. She doesn't know cancelling plans on someone repeatedly is wrong
3. She's only 18
4. A man should fight for his woman
I would love to hear of all your stories where a guy didn't give up so easily and ended up getting the girl and living happily ever after. Also, there is a difference between giving up easily and playing the game.