"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's with all these married couples: man hating feminist + spineless man?

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When you meet a woman and some of the very first words out of her mouth are something like 'women have been oppressed for all of history', you know there is something wrong with her right? I mean why would she feel the need to lecture near-strangers over dogma?

But the most bizarre thing is, these ladies are married or at least cohabitating! They lead their boy around, literally shoving him into the face of more masculine men who try to approach her. I have had this happen, a woman has actually shoved some short weirdo at me and said: "look, this one is mine".

What kind of man puts up with this?

I know couples where the man literally announced to his friends that he loves the great work Gillette is doing with their new advert, and the woman he is with looks at other guys as if she is the terminator about to knife them in the gut. Probably the coldest person I have met in my entire life.

I'm starting to think the end days are approaching, you know what I mean?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who Dares Win

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The more you push people against the wall the harder they will fight back, let them keep pushing because apparently they didnt do enough.
 

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The more you push people against the wall the harder they will fight back, let them keep pushing because apparently they didnt do enough.
But these guys don't fight, they think fighting is bad.

If you go to dance with the latin community, it will be full of men leading the women around.
If you go to dance in a mainstream multicultural venue its the women leading the guys around.

The difference is striking and disgusting. And I'm a lot closer to being the second type of guy because I grew up in the weak multicultural man-hating society rather than the normal human societies that some of my latin friends still seem to enjoy. But at least I understand that the ideal is to lead the woman. At least I don't feel good when the woman is leading me.

That said, the thing that got those latin people, is they all fell for the Amway cult. They don't grasp the full evil of the world.
 

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When you meet a woman and some of the very first words out of her mouth are something like 'women have been oppressed for all of history', you know there is something wrong with her right? I mean why would she feel the need to lecture near-strangers over dogma?

But the most bizarre thing is, these ladies are married or at least cohabitating! They lead their boy around, literally shoving him into the face of more masculine men who try to approach her. I have had this happen, a woman has actually shoved some short weirdo at me and said: "look, this one is mine".

What kind of man puts up with this?

I know couples where the man literally announced to his friends that he loves the great work Gillette is doing with their new advert, and the woman he is with looks at other guys as if she is the terminator about to knife them in the gut. Probably the coldest person I have met in my entire life.

I'm starting to think the end days are approaching, you know what I mean?
Weak males. Raised by single moms or no/weak father figure. Doing it for the access to sex. Perhaps trapped by the lady due to kids like some of the posters here on So Suave. Walking down the street, you can see the difference between men and males around here. I am sure that's true in any big city. Men have a backbone and will stand up for themselves. Males will try to appease their lady any way possible. There can only be one leader in a relationship. When the lady is the one wearing the pants and makes all decisions, the male is just there for the kids and security. She'll be cheating on him during the course of the marriage. This used to be a felony in the US, not any longer.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...ks-wife-cheating-man-calmly-asks-divorce.html

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/...fathers-unknowingly-raise-another-mans-child/

https://www.foxnews.com/world/u-k-b...th-and-sons-from-21-year-marriage-are-not-his

These dudes handled it better than me. I wouldn't had been so civil.
 
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