"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Keeping a woman Emotional

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What do you guys think about this..?

I've been in very little relationships in my life maybe 6 at most I've always liked to fvck around and have fun with different chicks I've kept SOME girls in my rotation for as long as a 6 months and completely failed with others.

Recently saw a video on youtube from AMS.

He said you have to be unpredictable and always make a woman chase your validation ,disappear every once n a while that way you keep her emotional and she doesnt know where she stands with you. This is of course after you've fvcked her and want to keep her as one of your plates.

Looking back at past experiences I can see how this can work because I'd do it but without knowing I was doing it if that makes sense.

What do you guys think about this? Legit or nah?
Just wanted to hear some of your thoughts.. thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jaymbrs

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Ahahahah. She's on to you :p good stuff man
Lol and her interest level remains at an all time high. Sometimes dangerously high, meaning she gets emotional and it starts to backfire. I gotta calm her down here and there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well you don’t want to create crazy. I think it’s simply about being spontaneous (fun dates out) while limiting your time and attention when your not with her. Don’t be needy or pour on the compliments. Give the gift of missing
 

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Well you don’t want to create crazy. I think it’s simply about being spontaneous (fun dates out) while limiting your time and attention when your not with her. Don’t be needy or pour on the compliments. Give the gift of missing
Im sure it wasn't all planned and he is truly into his life his self and hes enjoying it all.
 

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He said you have to be unpredictable and always make a woman chase your validation ,disappear every once n a while that way you keep her emotional and she doesnt know where she stands with you.
Dumb games.

Don’t do it because you are trying to raise interest level, do it because you have to. Do it because you are seeing other girls, you have a business to run, you have a movie to star in, you are meeting the President.

To disappear when she wants to talk to you is ridiculous.

- What did you do last night?
- Nothing. The hot girl called me but I didn’t answer.
- Why?
- I had to pretend I wasn’t available.
- Why?
- To raise her interest level.
- So you stayed at home alone on Saturday instead of going out with this hot chick who kind of likes you?
- Yep. How else can I get thinking about me?
- You did the right thing bro!

Give me a break.
 

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Dumb games.

Don’t do it because you are trying to raise interest level, do it because you have to. Do it because you are seeing other girls, you have a business to run, you have a movie to star in, you are meeting the President.

To disappear when she wants to talk to you is ridiculous.

- What did you do last night?
- Nothing. The hot girl called me but I didn’t answer.
- Why?
- I had to pretend I wasn’t available.
- Why?
- To raise her interest level.
- So you stayed at home alone on Saturday instead of going out with this hot chick who kind of likes you?
- Yep. How else can I get thinking about me?
- You did the right thing bro!


Give me a break.
100% agree. Games are for women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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