"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Damn death is scary

sosousage

Banned
Joined
Aug 22, 2017
Messages
3,547
Reaction score
1,219
Age
36
Lets be honest we all r just some short living organisms that are fragile mentally and a bit more aware than animals.

We luckily got born from bacteria in water that later kept evolving till finally reached some monkeys
type bodyform that were first humans or prehumans

Were same as our ancestors, these who forced to go on war or went there naively in WW2 or in medieval age and died there. Or even if they didnt go on war, they still lived their lives how they could till their time was over

How much some knights and villagemen from medieval age matter to you? NOTHING maybe youre from royal bloodline? You will never know

Time passess we will also mean nothing in 100 years. Only our kids will care a bit, but our grandsons wont even spend a thought on us after we die
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,576
Reaction score
6,359
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
In the US at least, if you are old and have a surgery, they send you to what they call "rehab." That actually means a nursing home, full of people sh!tting themselves, crazy people, etc. Facility acquired pneumonia would likely be the leading cause of death if the stats were accurate. Once you are in one of those places, it is only a matter of time before you get pneumonia, staph, mrsa, or some other infection that may well kill you. Don't fall for that "rehab" bs. Healthcare certainly saves a lot of people, but it also kills a lot of people too. Don't spin that wheel of chance if you can avoid it.
 

Sunnypoo

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2019
Messages
128
Reaction score
79
Age
53
Receiving anesthesia for a surgery is pretty much what death is like....a black void of nothingness....now that's some scary ****, I'd prefer Valhalla.
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
Receiving anesthesia for a surgery is pretty much what death is like....a black void of nothingness....now that's some scary ****, I'd prefer Valhalla.
Really? I was under the laser for 6 hours Summer 2014. There was more damage they found and had to extend the anesthesia/surgery longer and cut more of my guts out of me. It was: in the operating room with doctors around me, then VERY QUICK I'm gone/out, then next thing I know I'm awake to lights above and rolling down the hallway to my room. In there 10 days. $88K. I've also been out for Endoscope last year in September and for dentist work (the least knockout).
 

Sunnypoo

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2019
Messages
128
Reaction score
79
Age
53
Really? I was under the laser for 6 hours Summer 2014. There was more damage they found and had to extend the anesthesia/surgery longer and cut more of my guts out of me. It was: in the operating room with doctors around me, then VERY QUICK I'm gone/out, then next thing I know I'm awake to lights above and rolling down the hallway to my room. In there 10 days. $88K. I've also been out for Endoscope last year in September and for dentist work (the least knockout).
Yes really. Do you recollect your time under the knife? My recollection was of a black void of nothingness. No recollection, no dreaming, nothing, until I came to.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,559
Reaction score
11,568
Death has never scared me...and I was 3 feet from it at 100mph in a bad motorcycle wreck. That experience is something I have thought about every single day for the last 10years. Some days I cry when I think about it as I am right now.

Experiences like that make you a believer and give you a greater appreciation for life. Although it slowed me down a tiny bit, I still refuse to live my life in fear of what might happen. When it my time its my time so until then I'm gonna keep standing on the gas.

The brave do not live forever, and the cautious never live at all.
 

Xenom0rph

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2017
Messages
1,907
Reaction score
2,437
I've been in a motorcycle accident as well- hitting some gravel, lowside the front wheel, almost flew off a side of a mountain....I never saw my life flashing before my eyes. All I remember was getting away from the edge of the mountain. Then a strong urge to sleep overcame me and I wanted to lay down but a voice in my head litterally screamed at me not close my eyes - maybe my gaurdian angel was warning me if i fall asleep I'll slip to coma...

Anyways, picked up the bike and rode home.
 
Last edited:

backseatjuan

Banned
Joined
Nov 2, 2011
Messages
4,441
Reaction score
1,651
Age
45
Location
Россия
Can you mother fvcker just imagine what it feels like for an old guy after stroke waiting for it. He has wife two kids, one died my good friend, murdered over drugs. He says fvck it all. But he bites and is afraid waiting for it. He fell 2 meters down this summer called me. I called neighbors and rode with him to hospital in ambulance. His wife took care of him.

To all you red pillers, I don’t give a fvckers out there. It is something to think about now. Make a right choice with a correct woman. Think ahead.
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
Yes really. Do you recollect your time under the knife? My recollection was of a black void of nothingness. No recollection, no dreaming, nothing, until I came to.
I don't remember anything. I remember being on fentynol (sp?) and morphine which only jaded me and I couldn't sleep well, THEN I started feeling pain in my chest and shoulder making me unable to sleep, so they put me on a very strong tylenol and then the pain subsided. Took me a month to walk well again.
 
R

Ranger

Guest
Yes really. Do you recollect your time under the knife? My recollection was of a black void of nothingness. No recollection, no dreaming, nothing, until I came to.
I woke up during surgery on my nose. They had to rebreak it and I came right out of it.
After that, I was out but could still hear things going on.
It has nothing to do with death. My uncle drowned as a kid and he told me the story.
Even when he was being resuscitated, he was aware. He said it was peaceful. He was dead technically. He didnt feel fear or pain until he started breathing again. Strange.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

PeasantPlayer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2013
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
946
I've been obsessed with the concept for years, but am making peace with it. I see it as a transition
 

spikez

New Member
Joined
Jan 17, 2019
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
Age
36
The fear of death persists as a vestige of religious views that proclaim that life on earth is just a fragment of the existence of an eternal soul.
 

ShadowFenix

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 2, 2018
Messages
27
Reaction score
15
I'm ok with death, but I want to leave a legacy behind. I want my name to be one they teach about or reference for years after I die. I want my own Wikipedia page.
 

R.U.G.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2018
Messages
1,797
Reaction score
1,218
@sosousage. were you trippin' on acid or something when you wrote this thread?

Death isn't that scary. I've been brought back from death after I flatlined, there was no white light, no Jesus, it just stops. I was also @ 9/11 @ WTC, it was a void and I was numb. I thought we were all going to die as it seemed we were under attack as a nation. I and most survived. I also went skydiving once and the primary chute failed. I felt for sure I was done then. Nope, survived that too. Point being, when it's your time, it's your time..
 

Xenom0rph

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 12, 2017
Messages
1,907
Reaction score
2,437
Has anyone crossed to the other side and came back? What's it like? Was it all black and nothingness or is there something? Does our consciousness still exist in some way?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

nicksaiz65

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 27, 2017
Messages
4,100
Reaction score
1,744
Age
29
Has anyone crossed to the other side and came back? What's it like? Was it all black and nothingness or is there something? Does our consciousness still exist in some way?
I’d like to know myself too honestly
 
Top