lamath
Master Don Juan
only good thing in this thread so far
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
only good thing in this thread so far
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Finally, somebody sees the red pill version of this. One single person, right there^. The rest of You guys are like a pack of female hyenas chasing the male wildebeest. But in this case the Wildebeest is still grazing and doing his thing. And seems to be pretty unscathed.If you don't like his post feel free to press the ignore button.
Why don't you guys do it ?
Seems some guys just enjoys getting off some perverse high from bashing him and trolling all his threads.
Then u r also part of the problem.
Ok make that two people who get it.You don't even have to hit the ignore button. If you don't want to read his posts, then just don't read them.
It's really easy, honest.
BigDave's overall intentions of finding the right woman to marry and settle down with and have a family is fine.You're on this forum, and BigDave is the guy you decide to reproach about this?
Its the other way around, it's guys like you and a few others who continue to give him attention and offering advice over and over and over and over and over and over again just to get the same results.If you don't like his post feel free to press the ignore button.
Why don't you guys do it ?
Seems some guys just enjoys getting off some perverse high from bashing him and trolling all his threads.
Then u r also part of the problem.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You and others like you have posted on his threads more then I actually did.Its the other way around, it's guys like you and a few others who continue to give him attention and offering advice over and over and over and over and over and over again just to get the same results.
Doing the same thing expecting different results is insanity.
He comes back for more because you guys are enabling him, like a parent to a spoiled child. This is why he will never be more than what he is, everyone needs tough love sometimes.
Going by ur own quote above, that seems to suggest that you and the others here are actually insane.Doing the same thing expecting different results is insanity.
any shrink with any sense will get frustrated after listening to dave's excuses and give him xanax just to shut him up.Go to a psychologist
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Really?Repent of your fornication. You should be married before having sex.
True confidence is being able to approach God with a clear conscience and be forgiven of your sins. Are you confident towards God? His opinion is more important than a woman's opinion because He created women. He said it wasn't good that Adam was created by himself and decided to create women out of one of his ribs in his rib-cage. So be right with God and stop this fornication thing and stop posting crazy threads on here.