"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Noob plate-spinner question.

Dong_Juan

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According to Rollo Tomassi, you should not be explicit about being noncommittal, but should imply as much.

What are some ways that you have successfully done this?

If a plate straight up asks you if you are seeing other women, do you just reply honestly and hope for the best?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spaz

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I'd smile at her and say - may the best women win.

Works just fine for me and keeps her in a competitive mood.
 

zekko

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According to Rollo Tomassi, you should not be explicit about being noncommittal, but should imply as much.
That's great if you can do it, but it doesn't always work out that way.

If a girl really wants to know, she's not going to settle for a cute, evasive answer. She will ask you point blank until you either lie to her or tell her the truth. Even Spaz' answer above is basically an admission. Sometimes you have to do whatever you do, and let the chips fall where they may.
 

fanatic22

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According to Rollo Tomassi, you should not be explicit about being noncommittal, but should imply as much.

What are some ways that you have successfully done this?

If a plate straight up asks you if you are seeing other women, do you just reply honestly and hope for the best?
I say "yeah and I expect you to be seeing other men." I do care about people and if my plate finds a guy who is willing to commit, I'm happy to see her go.
 
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