Why they let go so easy

[logicallefty]

If you really feel that way and want to put me on a time out, that's your call

 

[Music_czar]

I don't know, and neither do you.

Her post breakup actions prove how much she really “loved”

 

[sazc]

Her post breakup actions prove how much she really “loved”

Her post break up actions are healthy. She's moving on. Everyone wants to be chased but healthy ppl realize when their time and investment are not valued, and they move on.

 

[sazc]

Sacz were her professions of love authentic or not?

Remember.... What were her actions DURING the relationship? That's what you're supposed to watch, right? Seems to me she was totally into him. So by her actions, her professions of love were authentic.

Just because she chose to move on when he kicked HER to the curb does not mean her actions were inauthentic. It means she's not interested in wasting anymore time on someone who is not meeting her at her investment level.

Comprehension
Reading comprehension
Critical thinking skills

 

[sazc]

False, sample size is too short. By that logic every sociopath is authentic.

I'm just going by what you guys espouse on this board. "Actions speak louder than words" she was totally available to him during their courtship and, from what he said, she supplicated, she did not create problems. Her ACTIONS were conducive to being emotionally invested.

You guys always say "look towards her actions" So actions are not a correctly measurable litmus of investment? Or you say that now because you don't want to be #wrong?

 

[Music_czar]

Her post break up actions are healthy. She's moving on. Everyone wants to be chased but healthy ppl realize when their time and investment are not valued, and they move on.

Still proves she didn’t love him, and that her actions during the relationship were all an act.

For women this is “healthy” behavior, because it allows them to jump right back on the c0ck carousel. Which is fine, everyone’s just looking out for themselves.

 

[sazc]

Still proves she didn’t love him, and that her actions during the relationship were all an act.

For women this is “healthy” behavior, because it allows them to him right back on the c0ck carousel. Which is fine, everyone’s just looking out for themselves.

What proves she didn't love him? Because she didn't fall apart after they broke up?

No one knows what she was thinking or how she was feeling after he told her he didn't want to see her. Just because she moved on doesn't mean she wasn't invested, and it doesn't mean she wasn't crushed about the breakup.

Such a double standard, wow

 

[sazc]

Everything's confusing to you because you have zero experience dating women

No, my reading comprehension is fine. I follow exactly what you guys espouse on these boards. What's good for the goose is not good for the gander? You just don't like they fact that you are wrong

 

[Music_czar]

What proves she didn't love him? Because she didn't fall apart after they broke up?

No one knows what she was thinking or how she was feeling after he told her he didn't want to see her. Just because she moved on doesn't mean she wasn't invested.

Such a double standard, wow

We do know what she really felt because her actions speak volumes.

It’s no big deal, guys are used to girls faking their feelings and enthusiasm so they can get what they want. If more guys were like this, we wouldn’t have a need for SoSuave.

 

[sazc]

We do know what she really felt because her actions speak volumes.

EXACTLY!! and her actions during the relationship showed that she was supplicating to him, which means a very high investment and that she meant what she was saying.

 

[Music_czar]

EXACTLY!! and her actions during the relationship showed that she was supplicating to him, which means a very high investment and that she meant what she was saying.

No, her actions post breakup show it was all a facade.

 

[guru1000]

We do know what she really felt because her actions speak volumes.

It’s no big deal, guys are used to girls faking their feelings and enthusiasm so they can get what they want. If more guys were like this, we wouldn’t have a need for SoSuave.

Question I ponder: why aren’t more guys like this?

 

[guru1000]

Because they aren't sociopathic and don't get narcissistic supply from compromising others emotionally.

Neither is a prerequisite (just associated) for such acts.

 

[guru1000]

There's no sufficient motive to do it unless you want these things.

Sufficient motive is not posting about women burning you on Sosuave—and—more importantly, not being a victim.

 

[Music_czar]

Question I ponder: why aren’t more guys like this?

Lack of options.

These days it’s simply much easier for women to get a man than the other way around. When men fall for a woman they pour everything into her, whereas a woman always keeps plenty of social supports open.. friends, family, and new prospects for fwb’s and bf’s. Especially with this new generation of young women in their 20s who have been taught by their girlfriends that it’s now ok to slvt it up as long as it’s on the downlow.

No matter how hard a guy tries he will never be able to duplicate a woman’s ability to find a quick replacement.

Women are the best natural seducers, what we try teach men here about dating and seduction is something that comes naturally to women from an early age because it simply falls in their lap.

Men have to work harder for it, and a lot of men get tired of working for things that aren’t that valuable in the first place.

 

[TBG]

No, her actions post breakup show it was all a facade.

How exactly? Is she expected to sit around crying her eyes out for months? Is she expected to continue to chase after being told she's not wanted?

She's doing what we'd advise guys on here do and that's move on. It doesn't mean she doesn't feel upset over it or it was all a facade.

 

[guru1000]

Lack of options.

These days it’s simply much easier for women to get a man than the other way around. When men fall for a woman they pour everything into her, whereas a woman always keeps plenty of social supports open.. friends, family, and new prospects for fwb’s and bf’s.

No matter how hard a guy tries he will never be able to duplicate a woman’s ability to find a quick replacement.

Women are the best natural seducers, what we try teach men here about dating and seduction is something that comes naturally to women from an early age because it simply falls in their lap.

Men have to work harder for it, and a lot of men get tired of working for things that aren’t that valuable in the first place.

Supply and demand exacerbates the problem, sure. But we also know many women whom have great demand and fall hard. We also see men with very few options, who don’t.

It ultimately boils down to the strength of one’s inner frame.

 

[sazc]

No, her actions post breakup show it was all a facade.

No, not at all. But if you can't evaluate her behavior objectively, if you need to evaluate it only thru your own emotional filter, that's on you

 

[guru1000]

Yes for a narcissist those things must be avoided at literally all costs to protect the trauma ego

It should be avoided by all. Never choose to be a victim.

 

[sazc]

It ultimately boils down to the strength of one’s inner frame.

It really does