Think of it as a chance to score younger women and with impunity.
Biologically you could help whelp a litter babies right up your 80's...exciting times ahead for you !
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The rise and fall of a once great man: the tale of my parents
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Biologically you could help whelp a litter babies right up your 80's...exciting times ahead for you !
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
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That was 14 years ago., but yes, they have been exciting times.
What do you do if you want kids? Prenup and maintain frame?
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The desire to have children changes everything. Understand that in one way or another it forever ties you to the woman you had children with. For example, I have no desire to be around my ex-wife, but if I want to be there Christmas morning to see my grandson open his presents, then I will be around my ex-wife.
If you do desire to get married, definitely get a prenup. However, I’ve heard that prenups sometimes do not stand up in court. So do your best to make sure that your wife always works and makes around the same amount of money as you do. If you don’t, you run the risk of getting alimony raped at the end of a long-term marriage.
And yes, always maintain Frame. That, and vetting the h*ll out of the woman that you decide to have children with is probably the best insurance that you have to prevent having to deal with the emotional and financial fall out of divorce.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lamath
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Great!!
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Unfortunately I’ve seen very high end female wage earners completely do down hill when it came to a man.
I remember one who had over ten years of 401K investment, pull 90% of it out in a loan to help a man she was attracted to. Only to have him dump her and go back to his ex and remarry her.
So your notion does not trump biology. Biology trumps everything.
I remember one who had over ten years of 401K investment, pull 90% of it out in a loan to help a man she was attracted to. Only to have him dump her and go back to his ex and remarry her.
So your notion does not trump biology. Biology trumps everything.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mr. Inferno was a hit with ladies, could have any Sharon Stone look alike he wanted, knew Eric Clapton and had over 200 people at his 40th birthday party. Yet he decides to COMMIT LEGALLY to Mrs. Inferno?
Once you say "Mr. Inferno decided it was time to COMMIT LEGALLY to Mrs. Inferno, ANYTHING after that, I don't want to hear as it doesn't surprise me. She HAS him now. She can do ANYTHING SHE WANTS, and because he COMMITTED LEGALLY, he can't do anything.
Men, remember, once you decide to COMMIT LEGALLY, to SIGN a CONTRACT with a WOMAN, and the STATE GOVERNMENT, it won't matter if you are the top actor in the world and had a net worth of $400,000,000, she LEGALLY has you. Whether you know Eric Clapton or the Beatles, the Law is the Law.
So I won't read the rest because it doesn't matter.
Now if you said: "Mr and Mrs Inferno were boyfriend girlfriend who loved each other but were not married and living separately , THEN it would be a fantastic story. But again, once you say "Mr. Inferno COMMITTED LEGALLY to Mrs Inferno, I don't care if he owns Shanghai, she has him.
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