"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Desdinova
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Desdinova
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My views on women, life, money, human nature, etc are pretty controversial.
Watch what happens when I say what I REALLY feel when I don't have to waste 3/4 of my time trying to defend my position against people who aren't nearly as smart as I am.
Bwahahahahahaha.......
That was a joke, BTW. Well, kind of.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
KontrollerX
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What'd be really awesome is if this forum gave us the ability to lock our own topics as other forums have.
Then we could say what we really want to say without having to deal with the morality brigade trying to pull us into an epic 9 page morality debate with some bullsh!t about what we are saying is not fair to women or someother time wasting argument they may want to have with us about an individual point that must be debated into the ground for some reason by them to feel they've done their job for Jesus, Aristotle or the scales of truth and justice, etc.
Who gives a flying fvck about all that?
We're here to learn how to get the best deal possible for ourselves as men.
Not worry about things women don't worry about either.
The amount you make per ad really depends on the market, but ranges from about 3-60 cents per click, and about 5-50 cents per every few thousand page impressions, so you better have a lot of traffic!
And BTW, I would recommend going with WordPress for your blogging platform. Much better than Blogger and pretty much everything else out there.
Also, instead of adsense or PPC advertising as revenue, consider affiliate marketing. If your blog is on a popular topic, such as fitness or weight loss, you can use your blog to promote other people's products (via product reviews, email marketing, etc.) and take a 75% commission on every purchase made from your affiliate link. If your site gets a decent amount of traffic, you could be making more money in a month than most people make in a year!
A couple of days ago I set up Wordpress on a site that I already own SUPER easy since I have godaddy as hosting. It was just a couple of clicks and I was done!
I am essentially a pioneer in a new "thing" that has the potential to help out a lot of people. It isn't as mainstream as weightloss or sexual enhancement, but it's a ground floor business that has super high profit potential and I should be able to get a pretty good audience once it takes off. I am essentially cementing my status as the forerunner and expert in this field as we speak....
Since on this particular site I will be selling my own products, I don't want to junk it up with ads, so the affiliate thing is of great interest to me. Where can I get more information?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Agree, Wordpress offers the best perspectives for bloggers. It has user friendly CMS, more than 50k awesome plugins, it is responsive and is an open source software. Moreover, WP does a good job of promoting best practices of SEO (I just order some links at https://linklifting.com/ and that's all).
Bible_Belt
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Yes, I use it too.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
you realize the OP was nearly 10 years ago, when starting a blog was actually a decent business plan...
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Judging by this thread, the spambot biz is the future.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Maybe the spambot has a time machine and is really fcking with us. Then it's not only the future but the past as well. We're surrounded.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Posts 11, 12, 13, and 15 are by bots. Ten years ago, bots were obvious. Ten years from now, most online conversations will be fake, just bots replying to each other.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I've often wondered what the future of AI will be. I'm hoping for a realistic AI lady who'll trade stocks for me with one hand and give me a handjob with the other while I look at porn.
(and not talk...)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.