Online dating experts, I need your help

[devilkingx2]

she just gave it to me

just all seems to be way too good to be true
Very beautiful girl who is exactly my type who seems very interested in me. I'm sure she will end up being a catfish

the older pics where she was a thinner is my 10/10

she's probably the demon barber of fleet street

 

[devilkingx2]

im talking to this middle eastern chick and she seems to be a very nice person who is also super cute but conversation just doesn't seem to flow

why you think this is?

possibilities:

1. one or both of you is awkward/shy around new people
2. lack of common ground/incompatibility
3. one or both of you sucks at holding a conversation

 

[bigdave17]

possibilities:

1. one or both of you is awkward/shy around new people
2. lack of common ground/incompatibility
3. one or both of you sucks at holding a conversation

so why am I having great convo with the Italian chick?

I have a lot in common with the middle eastern chick. We're from similar region, are big into family values, same age, etc...

 

[spinich]

Any takers on betting Dave will either totally screw the pooch with this woman or find an excuse not to make this happen? I am giving odds!!

 

[lamath]

He made some progress but still mindset is at bottom 5%

Seems like his insecurities are killing his game.

I think some professional help to deal with those would help greatly.
Seems like he cant enjoy the present and always looking for some future problem, he need to be a hell of alot more spontaneous.


Dave the way you think im afraid you will end up getting a oneitis and because of it screw up the chance to have a real good relationship.

Oneitis is not good my friend, it make a man act needy in a way that almost always repell woman

 

[bigdave17]

Any takers on betting Dave will either totally screw the pooch with this woman or find an excuse not to make this happen? I am giving odds!!

she will love me

my "presentation" on dates is excellent and i can make women feel very comfortable around me

 

[mrgoodstuff]

she just gave it to me

just all seems to be way too good to be true
Very beautiful girl who is exactly my type who seems very interested in me. I'm sure she will end up being a catfish

the older pics where she was a thinner is my 10/10

stop worrying about that. You need to be laid and not interviewing for a relationship. Thatll come later.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

He made some progress but still mindset is at bottom 5%

Seems like his insecurities are killing his game.

I think some professional help to deal with those would help greatly.
Seems like he cant enjoy the present and always looking for some future problem, he need to be a hell of alot more spontaneous.


Dave the way you think im afraid you will end up getting a oneitis and because of it screw up the chance to have a real good relationship.

Oneitis is not good my friend, it make a man act needy in a way that almost always repell woman

Oneitis means your not the prize and it eff up the rest of your life.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Only if you meet her.

She might be attracted but he wint hook her without hitting it a few times. That should be the goal.

 

[spinich]

Still have complete confidence in you Dave....to sabotage your own success and come here to whine about why she didnt deserve to be the mother of your perfect offspring. Time will tell.....

 

[mrgoodstuff]

In many cases I would agree.

However, I'm not here to determine Dave's goals. I can care less if he fvcks her or spits in her face.

All I am trying to do is help the man take one solid step towards whatever goal he has. That in and of itself would be a great victory for him.

My opinion that his relationship goal isnt going to be met without taking this intermediate step. He wont even know his choices or respect himself enough until he gets in the game.

"Go get laid by 5 women and see if you look at it differently"

 

[lamath]

My opinion that his relationship goal isnt going to be met without taking this intermediate step. He wont even know his choices or respect himself enough until he gets in the game.

"Go get laid by 5 women and see if you look at it differently"

Lots of people just dont get into the game.
Jump from ltr to ltr, and thats not good because the learning curve is much slower that way.

Harder for them to spot red flags because of it.
Ik i was that kind of guy,i hope i have learned enough now

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lots of people just dont get into the game.
Jump from ltr to ltr, and thats not good because the learning curve is much slower that way.

Harder for them to spot red flags because of it.
Ik i was that kind of guy,i hope i have learned enough now

You know PEOPLE. The game is life. When we know people we can respind in just and we know what works and what doesnt work for us.

 

[17 shots]

He sells cars so he has no long game. He's used to closing deals in one day. He thinks women work the same way

 

[sazc]

I posted pics on previous page, that's probably how it's going to look in real life

I want a woman with a hot fit body.

Then dump her and move on. Don't waste her time if you are not interested.

Enjoy being lonely and wondering why you are a victim in life

 

[17 shots]

Then dump her and move on. Don't waste her time if you are not interested.

Enjoy being lonely and wondering why you are a victim in life

lol he tries to pretend he wants a loving wife and happy family, but really he just wants a woman with a porn star/stripper/prostitute body to have sex with

 

[bigdave17]

Then dump her and move on. Don't waste her time if you are not interested.

Enjoy being lonely and wondering why you are a victim in life

what if she is gorgeous and can easily get a very hot body with 5 months in gym? especially knowing that she used to be in shape. Am I wasting my time still?

 

[sazc]

what if she is gorgeous and can easily get a very hot body with 5 months in gym? especially knowing that she used to be in shape. Am I wasting my time still?

you swirl in an anxiety ruled world of "what if's"

that must suck

 

[mrgoodstuff]

what if she is gorgeous and can easily get a very hot body with 5 months in gym? especially knowing that she used to be in shape. Am I wasting my time still?

Who cares. Liking her on potential effs things up. Maybe she doesnt want to be in shape.

 

[sazc]

@bigdave17

my last boss called it "analysis paralysis"

ur so busy analyzing EVERYTHING you are doing nothing

ridiculous, man the fvck up