lamath
Master Don Juan
Not going to college strait away after high school was a great choice imo, i wish i would have done the same.I would put my vote into the SMV > Age camp. Solidly.
People tend to forget, or never even realize in many cases, that SMV is not some government attributed number that you are stamped with and everyone else must abide by. It is a perception that is afforded to you by the will of other people. That perception is molded by the very individuals who will attribute value to it.
In essence, once you understand WHY a person can attribute a high SMV to an older person, many claims, as fantastic and fabricated as they might be perceived, tend to make far more sense.
Case in point:
I did not go straight to college after high school. I decided to travel for a few years. In fact, I didn't enroll into college until I was 23 years old.
In my first semester I met 3 extremely attractive, very feminine, freshman/sophomore women who were self-proclaimed "lesbians". I watched as countless men their same age tried and tried to hook up with them to no avail. BY the end of my 2nd semester I had slept with all 3 of them.
Now, right away I am pretty sure a few guys are going to read that and think I'm just some bragging motherfvcker making an outlandish claim.
But here is the reason why it worked for me:
These women had enough sexual experience to know what they liked and what they didn't like. They knew they received far more sexual gratification from other women than they did from 2 minute pump and roll over college boys their own age. However, they were still not old enough and experienced enough to have tasted it all; to have quenched all curiosities, one of which was what a man of older experience might be able to offer them.
Put simply, it was my "older" status that persuaded them to attribute a higher SMV to me than to other guys around campus. It was because of my age, not in spite of it.
So when a 40 year old man makes claim to bed 23 year old women, it doesn't seem so outlandish to me. I can see some very rational reasons behind why that can be done: SMV can often be attributed in ways that others assume would work against a man, or a woman for that matter.
Would have help me chose the right field of study instead of the one i chose.
good explanation SMV/age can not be seen as 2 different factors, they go together

