lamath
Master Don Juan
Idk anything about online dating
I barely know what getting catfish means
But yeah that body pic is not telling you much
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I barely know what getting catfish means
But yeah that body pic is not telling you much
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
she can't be horribly overweight. Her face looks good. I don't think you can be more than 20-30 lbs overweight without it affecting the face
catfish = you expect a girl in decent shape and she's 50 lbs overweight
lamath
Master Don Juan
I dont think so
She has a very beautiful face and her arms look slim usualy its a good indicator
she already admitted to me that she stopped working out and gained some weight but she said she really wants to get back into it. I'm very good at training people
This is like the house that you can get cheap where the structure is phenomenal but just needs some moderate work to make it perfect
she has probably the best looking face, for my taste, of any girl I've seen on online dating. Such beautiful eyes, smile, etc...
yea she seems very interested in me. I'll ask her out this week
but I am frustrated that I'm not getting better results overall. I think my reply rate is like 10%. I need to hire a professional photographer
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
so I figured it out
the first pic is her when she was thinner - you can see her face looks lean. Second pic is after the weight gain
She keeps responding to me instantly, seems very interested, so I'll take her out. Hopefully it's not as bad as I'm fearing
the first pic is her when she was thinner - you can see her face looks lean. Second pic is after the weight gain
She keeps responding to me instantly, seems very interested, so I'll take her out. Hopefully it's not as bad as I'm fearing
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what happens if I like her but she's 25 lbs overweight?
lamath
Master Don Juan
You should not be thinking of that right now.
But got to tell you a few lbs overweight is not the end of the word especialy if the two of you are connecting very well.
yes we're connecting very well
Looking at her pics, she seems like a very nice person. Has a very nice smile and expression in her eyes. I'm not surprised we're getting along so well
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Leave it for the meetup. Your goal should be to have a good time and to verify attraction. Please do not worry about having an LTR until your a successful dater.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I met her on plenty of fish
what are the odds of that? POF is mostly garbage, bots, hoodrats and what not
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
If she weighs 400 pounds but looks good, you keep dating her
If she weighs 100 pounds but looks bad, you dump her
Doesn't matter if she's 1 pound overweight or 20. What matters is how it looks.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Baby step
#1 date
#2 kiss
#3 bang
#4 bang
#5 bang
Until she brings up ltr then you can decide.
You dont bring ltr she does
Also id try dating morein the mean time
I posted pics on previous page, that's probably how it's going to look in real life
I want a woman with a hot fit body.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Then it doesn't matter if she steps on the scale and it says 357.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Meet her in person before you disqualify her. I swear you Seinfeld every girl you meet. Next we'll hear how her second toe is a smidge longer than her big toe.
I'll get her number tonight
lamath
Master Don Juan
I got about 5 girls that I'm talking to now, all of them are really attractive in the face, but finding one who is both attractive in the face and has a hot body to reply back to me seems to be so hard
I do seem to be having much better reply rate going after Latinas, Italians and Middle eastern chicks. This is probably good for me to know for the future to aggressively pursue darker skinned women in real life. They seem to like me way more than white girls do
I do seem to be having much better reply rate going after Latinas, Italians and Middle eastern chicks. This is probably good for me to know for the future to aggressively pursue darker skinned women in real life. They seem to like me way more than white girls do
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
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