Dating problem , i need some suggestions

[CrazyDude93]

Hi guys
I went out on a date with this girl and really like her , we had a great date . But a friend of mine ( pretty much of a close friend ) like her so badly . I sticked to the bro code , then after a few days since the first date , i sent her a message , said that i liked her , i really enjoyed our date , but i didn't want the situation get tougher . She answer yes and sent me good night . Then i decided to take a step back , went no contact
After a few weeks of chasing without getting the desired result , he was rejected directly , and gave up already . I started blaming on myself for not going for what i wanted .
I want to meet her in person again then we can go out and talk . I don't have any ideas how to text her then arrange a meetup , i have to test the water first before showing my intent
I need some suggestions from you . Any help is appreciated
Thanks for reading

 

[lamath]

Just be direct with no hesitation
Tell your friend about it first

 

[CrazyDude93]

Just be direct with no hesitation
Tell your friend about it first

I did tell him about it . We are cool for now . I think i need to attract her some more before talking about relationships

 

[lamath]

Always let the women bring up the relationship talk.

 

[CrazyDude93]

Always let the women bring up the relationship talk.

Thanks for the advice . I need a scenario to make things go naturally