"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think the stereotypes about beautiful women (or men for that matter) are mostly all bullsh*t

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My sister is a legit 9/10. She's an awesome person - super nice, loyal, would do anything for her friends and family. I've hung out with my sister and my brother in law many many times. I've never seen her behave in an irrational way - I would say my bro in law is way more often the douchebag.

My cousin in Russia is also a legit 8.5 to 9/10. She's also a fantastic person

My best friend's GF is a 8/10 dentist who makes 250K a year. She goes to third world countries and fixes teeth for free. My friend said she is incredibly loyal and loving and low maintenance


IMO, good and bad people exist in all demographics. Whether you look good or not doesn't change that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My sister is a legit 9/10. She's an awesome person - super nice, loyal, would do anything for her friends and family. I've hung out with my sister and my brother in law many many times. I've never seen her behave in an irrational way - I would say my bro in law is way more often the douchebag.

My cousin in Russia is also a legit 8.5 to 9/10. She's also a fantastic person

My best friend's GF is a 8/10 dentist who makes 250K a year. She goes to third world countries and fixes teeth for free. My friend said she is incredibly loyal and loving and low maintenance


IMO, good and bad people exist in all demographics. Whether you look good or not doesn't change that.
It depends upon the culture.
 

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It is scientifically proven that good looking people are invariably bad, so, one should avoid dating good looking people and getting into relationships with good looking people. In short, good looking people, males and females, are nothing but trouble.

Btw, post the pictures of the said 8s, 8.5s, and 9s in your OP. Then we can talk.
 

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It is scientifically proven that good looking people are invariably bad, so, one should avoid dating good looking people and getting into relationships with good looking people. In short, good looking people, males and females, are nothing but trouble.

Btw, post the pictures of the said 8s, 8.5s, and 9s in your OP. Then we can talk.
I've posted pics of them all before, they're all quite beautiful
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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As much as Dave keeps talking about how stunning his relatives are, it makes one ponder about his incestual thoughts!
 

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Beautiful women are as varied as any other group of women
 

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You are full of stereotypes, my dave.

We don't judge you for your cover but what's inside your book
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dave all jokes aside, you're the main one always stereotyping people. Every time you talk about Hispanic or black women you make it a point to say "that speaks proper English" or "is well educated". .... as if there aren't any dumbass Armenian women in this world
 
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It is scientifically proven that good looking people are invariably bad, so, one should avoid dating good looking people and getting into relationships with good looking people. In short, good looking people, males and females, are nothing but trouble.

Btw, post the pictures of the said 8s, 8.5s, and 9s in your OP. Then we can talk.
incel spotted.


invariably its quite the opposite. cute that you believe that science can prove something like attractive people are "bad".....what does that even mean? by what measurement are they bad? there is no objectively attractive person anyway, and even if there was, how could science make such an absolute judgement on something that's clearly in the realm of philosophy in the first place
 

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Your personal experiences are anecdotal. In my experience hot girls are entitled and good looking guys cheat on their women because they slay pvssy quite easily. The generalizations made by looking at the lives of exceptionally good looking people come from what they experience.

In general, exceptionally good looking people are treated better, are more likely to receive promotions, have little to no trouble finding partners, and are often told they are good looking. It makes sense that they would be impacted by how they are treated in life.
 
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Beautiful women are only entitled to those who they feel are beneath them. Has little to do with her looks and more to do with her perceived value relative to yours.

Stigma broken.

Keep this in mind next time a women gives you the cold shoulder.
 
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Your personal experiences are anecdotal. In my experience hot girls are entitled and good looking guys cheat on their women because they slay pvssy quite easily. The generalizations made by looking at the lives of exceptionally good looking people come from what they experience.

In general, exceptionally good looking people are treated better, are more likely to receive promotions, have little to no trouble finding partners, and are often told they are good looking. It makes sense that they would be impacted by how they are treated in life.
clearly this has more to do with the mental state that you project upon yourself than actual reality. just because you knew some good looking people cheat doesn't mean that its a reality. ugly guys then must cheat mentally (think jesus and lusting toward a woman) they just never act on it, according to your logic this must be true. youre assuming that all people are pathological internally. youre projecting. not all people are corrupt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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clearly this has more to do with the mental state that you project upon yourself than actual reality. just because you knew some good looking people cheat doesn't mean that its a reality. ugly guys then must cheat mentally (think jesus and lusting toward a woman) they just never act on it, according to your logic this must be true. youre assuming that all people are pathological internally. youre projecting. not all people are corrupt.
I'm generalizing based on the people I have known. However, the individual can still clearly be either moral, corrupt, or some gray in between. My point is that their exceptional attractiveness predisposes them to a different life than those who are average or in particular unattractive. These differences can certainly influence behavior.
 
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I'm generalizing based on the people I have known. However, the individual can still clearly be either moral, corrupt, or some gray in between. My point is that their exceptional attractiveness predisposes them to a different life than those who are average or in particular unattractive. These differences can certainly influence behavior.
i posit that attractiveness and "good looks" are more utility than they are genetic/objective. a person appears attractive because of their worth. sure some good looking people will cheat, but some bad looking people will also (trump anybody?). in my experience, more often than not, good looking people are good looking because of their good heart, their internal persistence, their ability to succeed, etc. everyone fails at times. the winners look beautiful because they always believe in themselves. beauty isn't in the eye of the beholder. beauty is in thy heart...
 

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Your personal experiences are anecdotal. In my experience hot girls are entitled and good looking guys cheat on their women because they slay pvssy quite easily.
Variations of the former have the all-important vain and shallow genes lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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