mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I offfered to let him hang with my uncle.Dave, you need some serious interventions. Get help soon.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I offfered to let him hang with my uncle.Dave, you need some serious interventions. Get help soon.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
again, you're dealing with men, who are infinitely easier than womenOK Dave. Look at the criteria about me that you listed. All true, however one thing stands head and shoulders above the other things. One thing makes me stand out (and leap frogs me OVER better looking, younger women who are interested in the same men as myself). Know what that one thing is? The magic ingredient?
Confidence. Genuine unadulterated confidence. My name is BE and I am BAD ASS (said with a sly smile). That is what my attitude would tell you without me saying much at all. People find an attitude like that intriguing. In a man or a woman. Whether I'm decked out to the 9s or wearing no makeup at all. It's everything.
You lack entirely confidence in dealing with women.
Your ego is amazing.. You need to chop down your standards a bit and grow from there. Women can sense pvssy on a man, or if he's in a drought. Need to jump into the pvssy ocean and get your tongue and penis wet already....huh?
I'm about a 7-7.5/10 in the face but with a very good physique. I just want a woman in about the same league. When did I say I'm superior?
there are guys on dating sites who are legit 10/10 in the face who crush it. I will never be like that
I usually attach my head-phones to a Tablet. It helps if you are actually watching something.Sit in any Starbucks here for longer than 10 minutes and you will want to put your headphones on to drown out the pretentious talk of the Starbucks regulars.
Also, the mainstream vibe is very left wing and feminist. So he’s kind of right, actually.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Welcome to Toronto.The friend gave kind of a lame answer - "I'm shy". Something like that, which just leads me to believe either she's not interested in meeting anybody or she doesn't find me attractive.
she's Armenian though. Armenian people tend to keep their homeland valuesWelcome to Toronto.
Not in Toronto my friend. People tend to change in this city.she's Armenian though. Armenian people tend to keep their homeland values
She is prolly just not attracted to me. I saw some pictures of her next to some Russian dudes so maybe that's her taste now
Then why would your cousin give you her number if she's too closed off and sour to meet new people?how do I answer when she says it's so creepy weird that I'm messaging her even though I've never met her?
Tell her you need advice then ask her if you should grow a fu manchuIt's my female cousin from Russia.
I asked her to ask her friend if she would be open or interested in meeting me. The friend gave kind of a lame answer - "I'm shy". Something like that, which just leads me to believe either she's not interested in meeting anybody or she doesn't find me attractive.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
the blonde is my cousin, brunette is the friend. Both are spectacularly gorgeousWTF is wrong with all of us? As I suspected this was another one of his bait posts. There's no Larissa or friend of her's in Toronto, it's all made up crap to hook us in.
I've said it before mods, please take away his ability to create new threads, if he's got something worthwhile to post he can do it in ONE thread that's it.
Same sh*t different day.
Meh. First I think they're ok, sure good looking but nothing spectacular.the blonde is my cousin, brunette is the friend. Both are spectacularly gorgeous
goddamn it I wish I still lived in Armenia. Armenian women destroy Americans in terms of quality
Meh. First I think they're ok, sure good looking but nothing spectacular.
Second, some random pic swiped from the Internet isn't very convincing. Text her what BE suggested above and post a screenshot of your phone, maybe then I'll believe that you're not not trolling us daily with the same ole barf material. I can guarantee that she won't find it creepy. Even if she says no it's better to hear that than regret it. When will you find a woman like her again given your 30+ requirements?
Seriously man, for once act like a man by going for what you want regardless of the consequence.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lol she will ignore it or give some bull**** response like she's not looking to meet anybodyOK whatever man, now let's see that screenshot you big wuss.
why buy porn when it's so freely available online?@bigdave17 don't do anything. You've nailed it (at least in your own mind) and she's already rejected you. Just go buy some more porn instead
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.