"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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When they say “not looking for a hookup”

devilkingx2

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Your desires are powerful. If facts logical and reasoning are winning out over your desires, then you don't have much desires.

If she can resist the urge to fvck you, it's not very strong. If she really wanted to fvck you, she'd fvck you on the table at the library and get you both kicked out.

It's not really a bad thing if y'all just met unless you know for a fact lots of other guys don't follow that same rule with her. (Although on tinder it's extremely unlikely she doesn't hookup with guys she likes, so go ghost if she wants 3 fancy dinners first)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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It's indicative of epiphany phase and having been a booty call for far too long she must make it a point she has little SMV left to be that anymore.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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No hookups, means nothing other than I have done it before and got used. BUT I would still do it again if I liked the guy enough! Thats how conditional women are in all of their decision making. They are driven by their emotions. And in this day in age when we have no societal controls over them, they make for bad long term investments.
It's like, if she guesses your SMV is 10x to hers, she is dtf.

I am so swifter off from what women say. I watch what they do and that's being slave to their biology. Free thinking women is a rarity to the point of nonexistent. Pravelency in victimhood, trump is bad, pro choice, and sloot is gonna sloot.

There's no way to see female nature, be red pulled, and truly march to the beat of your own drum but cater to the feminine biological strategy, play house and marry unless cuck status.

Much of a woman's biological strategy is polar contradiction to being LTR worthy. Toni lahren is a classic example of a trad thot pedaling her nonsense. Beta thirst will pedal to her and she'll marry some rich simp and cuck him. Russel Wilson is a a cuck.
 

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It's like, if she guesses your SMV is 10x to hers, she is dtf.

I am so swifter off from what women say. I watch what they do and that's being slave to their biology. Free thinking women is a rarity to the point of nonexistent. Pravelency in victimhood, trump is bad, pro choice, and sloot is gonna sloot.

There's no way to see female nature, be red pulled, and truly march to the beat of your own drum but cater to the feminine biological strategy, play house and marry unless cuck status.

Much of a woman's biological strategy is polar contradiction to being LTR worthy. Toni lahren is a classic example of a trad thot pedaling her nonsense. Beta thirst will pedal to her and she'll marry some rich simp and cuck him. Russel Wilson is a a cuck.
My man got cvcked. How can u not assume Ciara isnt getting better dyck from Russell?
 

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Not looking for hookups means she's looking for hookups......
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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