I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
humble brag?
no, poor areas are high in crime. you should be saying to wall off all the poor people and leave them to die
I really mean just areas heavily affected by black American culture (regardless of race). Like camps, let them work out their own issues.
1. This isn't relevant to the thread at all?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
you just make up random reasons why they don't count, like how a seinfeld character makes up random reasons why they're not happy with their latest date.
No whites didn't create gangsta culture at all. That each BLACK people 100%. You're no better than a modern woman if you believe any different. I have no sympathy for those jack a$#es.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Shut up roastie and don't you EVER like one of my posts againSMFH...
Lol, sorry, you don't dictate my behavior. That is also out of your control.
Obey
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I never ever said they were trash as humans. Lots of them were good people
lots of black people are like that, and lots of black people couldn't care less about race warring, and just want to enjoy life. you know, like 99% of the ones you'll actually meet or interact with.
Not going to reply to that in depth because it's nonsense mate. You can believe whatever you want if it makes you happy, but that's a ridiculous thing to assert.
If black people are the most hateful demographic, why are you as a white man (presumably?) posting all this vile racist sh*t about black people, then? Including huge inaccurate and derogatory generalisations about all black people?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
