You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your expected return on that $2 is about $.50, maybe less. The lottery isn’t even odds. They literally take your money. In a casino it would be the worst odds in the whole building.Pshht I donated my $2 an hour ago. It's worth the chance
At this level of odds, it's not like the "law of averages" applies, LOL.Lottery is for suckers. The house edge is over 50% on the front end, then you get taxed on the winnings if you even win.
Conclusion: only play games you can win. Gambling is for chumps.
I'm cool with thatYour expected return on that $2 is about $.50, maybe less. The lottery isn’t even odds. They literally take your money. In a casino it would be the worst odds in the whole building.
To clarif, out of the $1.6 billion prize, your odds are a lot longer than 1:1.6 billion. It’s more like 1:4 billion.
So how fat are you exactly? I think it's fair for all if us to know because this matters. A fat feminists opinion is going to be different than a fit pretty (or even fit and average face) girl. You can take a photo of your body and blur you face so that you wont be doxxed.I'm cool with that
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lol, I'm not fat at all and I am considered attractiveSo how fat are you exactly? I think it's fair for all if us to know because this matters. A fat feminists opinion is going to be different than a fit pretty (or even fit and average face) girl. You can take a photo of your body and blur you face so that you wont be doxxed.
Ugly girls opinions on mens dating is irrelevant. Why not stop lying by omission, which is what you're doing if you're a fat @ss and or ugly.
#FakeNews prove it. Post body picLol, I'm not fat at all and I am considered attractive
@sazc *braaaaap* you dirty galAlright @Soflobro#3 I totally don't engage you because you're personality isn't reliable. I see nothing has changed. I'm not interested in going back and forth with you. Have a nice day
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
But how much do you weigh?Alright @Soflobro#3 I totally don't engage you because you're personality isn't reliable. I see nothing has changed. I'm not interested in going back and forth with you. Have a nice day
I'm convinced the less you know about me the better of I will beBut how much do you weigh?
I demand!I'm convinced the less you know about me the better of I will be