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When the ex-wife and ex-gf unite!

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So my oneitis ex-gf has been keeping in touch with my daughter, which I didn't mind since they always got along really well. Although my daughter has been kind of sneaky about it, deleting txts from my ex-gf so I don't see them (I check her phone randomly- that was the deal when I got her the phone). Anyway, I just found out that my ex-gf and my ex-wife are now talking, I gues so my daughter and my ex-gf can hang out.

It shouldn't bother me, and it's not really bothering me but it's bothering me that I'm not bothered by it...and perhaps I should be? LOL

I guess I wonder what they talk about?
ex-wife: he's an @sshole
ex-gf: I know!

hahaha

I am planning to talk to my daughter about hiding texts though, nothing specific but I'll tell her that trust is the most important thing between family, relationships etc and if you have a reason to hide something then the situation is probably not a good one to be in or bring it up and see so you don't have to hide things which is basically lying. I think she'll get the hint.
 
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this is some weird situation lol. idkman ignore, who cares about them, and stop checking your kids phone, my dad did the same and to today i still see him as acreep xD
 
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this is some weird situation lol. idkman ignore, who cares about them, and stop checking your kids phone, my dad did the same and to today i still see him as acreep xD
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Yeah, I'm ignoring it.
But no way I'm not going to keep an eye on her phone though. Far too young to let her be on social media through her phone without supervision, it's similar to handing a kid a loaded weapon...believe me, you'll understand once you have your own kids ;)
 
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Your exgf sounds like a loser. I'm sure shes a great person, but there has to be something wrong with her if she cant make her own friends and keeps in touch with the exes family. Probably has attachment issues and is incapable of making new friends...
 
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So my oneitis ex-gf has been keeping in touch with my daughter, which I didn't mind since they always got along really well. Although my daughter has been kind of sneaky about it, deleting txts from my ex-gf so I don't see them (I check her phone randomly- that was the deal when I got her the phone). Anyway, I just found out that my ex-gf and my ex-wife are now talking, I gues so my daughter and my ex-gf can hang out.

It shouldn't bother me, and it's not really bothering me but it's bothering me that I'm not bothered by it...and perhaps I should be? LOL

I guess I wonder what they talk about?
ex-wife: he's an @sshole
ex-gf: I know!

hahaha

I am planning to talk to my daughter about hiding texts though, nothing specific but I'll tell her that trust is the most important thing between family, relationships etc and if you have a reason to hide something then the situation is probably not a good one to be in or bring it up and see so you don't have to hide things which is basically lying. I think she'll get the hint.
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Oh wow that’s interesting lol.
Good call re talking to your daughter. If they are trash talking you around her that would be very low behaviour from both of them and bad parenting from your ex wife.
 

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Haha yeah totally.

My ex-wife won't give me a sip of water if I was dying of thirst but at least I know that she won't trash talk me in front of my daughter.

The ex-gf she just wants to be the goody 2 shoes and wants the entire world to love her, deep down she's very insecure. She's especially been talking more and more with my daughter ever since I dumped her probably in the hopes that I'll see her as a good person after-all.

My daughter loves me, if I don't respond to her texts within 30 mins she starts calling me to make sure I'm ok lol but she's always trying to be the peace maker (in general with her friends etc too). I don't mind her keeping in touch with my ex-gf because my ex-gf literally treated her like her own kid. She was a great gf in just about every way, until she turned.
 
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Unless your daughter is like 17, and your ex wife and ex gf are like 22, so they start smashing your daughter

Or they manipulate her and turn her against you as a revenge scheme

You've got nothing to worry about so who cares lol
 
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