"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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After being friends with this girl all through high school...

hoangnganvy1993

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Alright, I'm a senior in high school and I've been friends with this girl since middle school. Recently, she's been IMing me whenever I sign on and most the time asks questions but she won't follow up on them. For example, I went to a football game the other day and as I was leaving she asked what time will I be back. I told her and asked why and she would reply with just wondering.

Now, I talked to her on the phone for the better part of two hours one afternoon this weekend. It was mostly small talk but two things really stuck out in my mind. 1, she told me she had a crush on me in 8th grade and 2, she kept saying that we should hang out sometime.

I took the hint and we decided to go to the park today and we walked on the different trails for an hour and a half talking about different things. It was kind of cold and I think she convienently forgot her jacket so I let her use mine about half way into the walk. I got some kino in and we had a lot of eye contact and I had her laughing a bit. Only she never used any kino back to me not touching me for no reason or anything like that. Altough she is really shy and quiet that might have had something to do with it.

I don't know what my next move should be. I mean we both had fun going out today but I am not sure wether she's really into me or just bored from the long break from school and just wanted to do something. Any advice on this situation would be helpful.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TBG

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Now, I talked to her on the phone for the better part of two hours one afternoon this weekend. It was mostly small talk
You don't have small talk for two hours.

Sounds like you've been well and truly friend zoned
 
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