"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is there a difference?

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Now you're trying to put words in my mouth and I already knew your feminist response would be "rape is RAPE". No chit rape is rape.

My point is that isn't it Less bad if the girl is a slvt anyways? I never said I condoned it, but nice try. Rape is objectively wrong and immoral. But a slvt has less value in terms of a serious and meaningful relationship and her sexuality has less value because she gives it away so easily anyways. How often does she trade sex for some sort of material or even financial gain? So what's the difference? In one case she trades it for goods or services, in another case she does not get anything in return. I mean why do you think a slvt or a woman who trades sex, or the implication of possible sex, deserves to be treated with the same amount of respect as a woman who actually respects her self and seeks a meaningful whole relationship with a decent guy?

Also most likely I bet that women who are more promiscuous probably make up the majority of rape victims. I wonder why that is. They should seriously do a study on that. It would make a lot of sense.

I think it's worse crime for a non slvt to be raped than slvt. Obviously it's wrong either way.
what are you babbling about? I never attributed any of my words to you or inferring that you said *this*

why the fvck would RAPE be "less bad" if someone had a high partner count? Because some people are more deserving of being assaulted? That's like me saying "if yer sitting in a run down motel room, or under an overpass, smoking crack with other druggies, you deserved to be beat and robbed and anally raped. You ASKED for it by your choice in lifestyle"

Dont be ignorant boy
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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@Soflobro#3 we shouldn't support women hate here. The site is here to help men raise themselves up not push women down. Twice in my life I've had a woman change her mind after I put it in. Whatever their stupidity or life choices they still get to say no.
 

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Is it less worse if a slvt is raped than if a woman who doesn't put out as easily is raped?

There is a difference. Even legally in court, guy gets less time for raping a slvt, vs raping a virgin, even in America.

Just picture Sasha Gray being raped, or your neighbors virgin daughter. Guy can say Sasha wanted it or he can say that virgin girl wanted it. Police and courts would probably believe him if he raped Sasha, but not if he raped that virgin neighbor of yours.
 

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what are you babbling about? I never attributed any of my words to you or inferring that you said *this*

why the fvck would RAPE be "less bad" if someone had a high partner count? Because some people are more deserving of being assaulted? That's like me saying "if yer sitting in a run down motel room, or under an overpass, smoking crack with other druggies, you deserved to be beat and robbed and anally raped. You ASKED for it by your choice in lifestyle"

Dont be ignorant boy
Because if she's a slvt anyways I think it's not as big of a deal. I don't see why this is such a horrible perception to have. It's not like I'm saying I would. Of course it's less bad if she's a slvt, but it's still wrong and objectively illegal.
 

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There is a difference. Even legally in court, guy gets less time for raping a slvt, vs raping a virgin, even in America.

Just picture Sasha Gray being raped, or your neighbors virgin daughter. Guy can say Sasha wanted it or he can say that virgin girl wanted it. Police and courts would probably believe him if he raped Sasha, but not if he raped that virgin neighbor of yours.
Thank you. Finally someone who's reasonable and not all emotional.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what are you babbling about? I never attributed any of my words to you or inferring that you said *this*

why the fvck would RAPE be "less bad" if someone had a high partner count? Because some people are more deserving of being assaulted? That's like me saying "if yer sitting in a run down motel room, or under an overpass, smoking crack with other druggies, you deserved to be beat and robbed and anally raped. You ASKED for it by your choice in lifestyle"

Dont be ignorant boy
Why don't you be a good little brap hog and just answer the question?
 

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Why don't you be a good little brap hog and just answer the question?
I did. You are rejecting my answer because it doesn't fit the belief system you have created for yourself.

Your whole point, the point of this thread, is to confirmation of your belief that females with higher partner count are less valuable as human beings and, therefore, if they are raped, they deserve it.

You need help in a lot of ways
 

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I did. You are rejecting my answer because it doesn't fit the belief system you have created for yourself.

Your whole point, the point of this thread, is to confirmation of your belief that females with higher partner count are less valuable as human beings and, therefore, if they are raped, they deserve it.

You need help in a lot of ways
All I hear is *bbbrrraaappp*
 

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I did. You are rejecting my answer because it doesn't fit the belief system you have created for yourself.

Your whole point, the point of this thread, is to confirmation of your belief that females with higher partner count are less valuable as human beings and, therefore, if they are raped, they deserve it.

You need help in a lot of ways
But by your logic, you think that a middle aged hooker being raped is just as bad as a 12 year old child being raped. All rape is equal huh?
 

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But by your logic, you think that a middle aged hooker being raped is just as bad as a 12 year old child being raped. All rape is equal huh?
My logic has more dimensions than you will ever think in.

Go smoke
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All rape is equal huh?
Rape is an offensive criminal act. All crimes should be legally treated as equal regardless of who the victim is…
That’s reality
 
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My logic has more dimensions than you will ever think in.

Go smoke
I think hes saying one of the type of ladies has likely caused pain, devistation, loss and pain. Hence he believes deserving of negative kharma.
 

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I think hes saying one of the type of ladies has likely caused pain, devistation, loss and pain. Hence he believes deserving of negative kharma.
Yeah in a way that's what I mean. But she isn't smart enough to understand it. Her emotions are immediately taking over and she is assuming I'm somehow rationalizing Rape in some cases.

To be honest a girl who gets drunk, takes drugs and passes out at a frat party is basically asking for it. It is still wrong but you can't expect to be safe all the time..

All rape is wrong but not all rape is equal.
 

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Yeah in a way that's what I mean. But she isn't smart enough to understand it. Her emotions are immediately taking over and she is assuming I'm somehow rationalizing Rape in some cases.

To be honest a girl who gets drunk, takes drugs and passes out at a frat party is basically asking for it. It is still wrong but you can't expect to be safe all the time..

All rape is wrong but not all rape is equal.
Some of them are so impressionable and so stupid they may be okay with that scenario. As long as it was the frat. Smh.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some of them are so impressionable and so stupid they may be okay with that scenario. As long as it was the frat. Smh.
Yeah I get that, but if they're not responsible enough to make decisions to keep themselves safe maybe they shouldn't be allowed to make their own choices. Not victim blaming But they put themselves in the position that leads to it happening.

It's illegal to steal but people still lock their cars a houses. I just watched how Bill Cosby got locked up. If he did something wrong than of course he deserves it, however why would those women choose to spend time with him alone and consuming drugs/ alcohol? Just to have a drunken / drugged evening of platonic friendship? Those women were not naive and I'm sure thy benefited financially down the road at some point (excluding money taken from Bill and given to them).
 

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Yeah I get that, but if they're not responsible enough to make decisions to keep themselves safe maybe they shouldn't be allowed to make their own choices. Not victim blaming But they put themselves in the position that leads to it happening.

It's illegal to steal but people still lock their cars a houses. I just watched how Bill Cosby got locked up. If he did something wrong than of course he deserves it, however why would those women choose to spend time with him alone and consuming drugs/ alcohol? Just to have a drunken / drugged evening of platonic friendship? Those women were not naive and I'm sure thy benefited financially down the road at some point (excluding money taken from Bill and given to them).
of course. He had a great wife. Shouldve left hoez alone. Theyve been the downfall of man thousands of years before christ. Its in the bible.
 
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