Are Your Friends Too P.C. To Acknowledge Social Hierarchies?

[meldiamond]

At some point in the distant past, everyone acknowledged social hierarchies. The rich kids, good looking kids, the top athletes, the cheerleaders, were all at the top of the social hierarchy. The stoners, poor kids, nerdy and ugly kids were at the bottom. Then there was the majority, neither exceptionally pretty or rich, nor as socially incompetent as those at the bottom.

But then you got to college and are taught all of these hierarchies are forms of discrimination, and prejudice and forms of hate and cruelty which need to be abolished.

So, after college, we all wind up confused. Every instinct tells us we want to be one of, and with, the coolest people, who just by coincidence, are richer, more beautiful, and more athletic. But we've been taught by all the "smart people" that this is wrong, we are prejudiced, discriminating, and evil for wanting what is only natural.

This leads to all sorts of contradictory behavior. For example:

1. guys invite me out regularly initially when they first meet me. If or when I decline, they become enraged and engage in rumor mongering about me. Or, they hate me initially because they're jealous.

2. women are strongly attracted but in social circles often try to fight their attraction. Again, if they work up the courage to show interest or ask me out and I decline, they become enraged and vindictive. Usually, they forgive me but then start the enthusiasm to rage cycle all over again.

It becomes a constant roller cycle ride. I can't say I enjoy watching adults in their 20's and 30's acting like middle and high schoolers but I suppose this is the price I pay for trying to live a mainstream life with a long term relationship as the goal.

tl, dr: society is thrown into complete and total chaos without social hierarchies. Throwing everyone together and treating them like equals never works out.

 

[Murk]

This leads to all sorts of contradictory behavior. For example:

1. guys invite me out regularly initially when they first meet me. If or when I decline, they become enraged and engage in rumor mongering about me. Or, they hate me initially because they're jealous.

2. women are strongly attracted but in social circles often try to fight their attraction. Again, if they work up the courage to show interest or ask me out and I decline, they become enraged and vindictive. Usually, they forgive me but then start the enthusiasm to rage cycle all over again.

It becomes a constant roller cycle ride. I can't say I enjoy watching adults in their 20's and 30's acting like middle and high schoolers but I suppose this is the price I pay for trying to live a mainstream life with a long term relationship as the goal.

tl, dr: society is thrown into complete and total chaos without social hierarchies. Throwing everyone together and treating them like equals never works out.

Bro nobody is getting enraged that you're not coming out to play and spreading rumours because of it.

Women are not becoming enraged because they pluck up the courage to show interest in you but you decline

You're a garbage poster and I'm giving you a pity reply.

 

[Mike32ct]

I’m the farthest thing from a mainstream PC guy. But I don’t think (or suggest) that the point is to eliminate cliques. It is to eliminate bullying or mistreating others in a different group.

Of course people of similar looks, interests, financial means, etc. will naturally want to be together. Nothing wrong with that. But it’s never right to shyte on people of a different group that have done nothing to you.

 

[sosousage]

wtf PC means? like personal computer?

but ye i think they fail to acknowledge in majority at least until they get old.

 

[Mike32ct]

P olitucally Korrect

Using super sensitive watered down language so as not to offend anyone.

 

[Soflobro#3]

There are so many different social hierarchys. You could easily be at the top of one and the bottom of another. For example men who make pretty good money tend to suck with women,. Partially because men who have good incomes did the right thing their wholes lives and are boring.

 

[Alvafe]

At some point in the distant past, everyone acknowledged social hierarchies. The rich kids, good looking kids, the top athletes, the cheerleaders, were all at the top of the social hierarchy. The stoners, poor kids, nerdy and ugly kids were at the bottom. Then there was the majority, neither exceptionally pretty or rich, nor as socially incompetent as those at the bottom.

But then you got to college and are taught all of these hierarchies are forms of discrimination, and prejudice and forms of hate and cruelty which need to be abolished.

So, after college, we all wind up confused. Every instinct tells us we want to be one of, and with, the coolest people, who just by coincidence, are richer, more beautiful, and more athletic. But we've been taught by all the "smart people" that this is wrong, we are prejudiced, discriminating, and evil for wanting what is only natural.

This leads to all sorts of contradictory behavior. For example:

1. guys invite me out regularly initially when they first meet me. If or when I decline, they become enraged and engage in rumor mongering about me. Or, they hate me initially because they're jealous.

2. women are strongly attracted but in social circles often try to fight their attraction. Again, if they work up the courage to show interest or ask me out and I decline, they become enraged and vindictive. Usually, they forgive me but then start the enthusiasm to rage cycle all over again.

It becomes a constant roller cycle ride. I can't say I enjoy watching adults in their 20's and 30's acting like middle and high schoolers but I suppose this is the price I pay for trying to live a mainstream life with a long term relationship as the goal.

tl, dr: society is thrown into complete and total chaos without social hierarchies. Throwing everyone together and treating them like equals never works out.

what really don't work out is a prick thinking he is a hot shot when no one cares about him.

you know who cares about social hierarchies? idiots who think they are on the top of such thing, and they are useless they bring nothing to the table, so want someone in a lower place to carry him, that is who cares about such thing, normal people don't care about anything other then thenselfs, smart people look after himself and know others have always something to offer who can make his life easier or something he needs, and don't have a prejudice about then whatever is they work, or place in life


now how about you stop complaining like a little spoiled b!tch, and try to improve yourself, start by reading more and saying less

 

[mrgoodstuff]

what really don't work out is a prick thinking he is a hot shot when no one cares about him.

you know who cares about social hierarchies? idiots who think they are on the top of such thing, and they are useless they bring nothing to the table, so want someone in a lower place to carry him, that is who cares about such thing, normal people don't care about anything other then thenselfs, smart people look after himself and know others have always something to offer who can make his life easier or something he needs, and don't have a prejudice about then whatever is they work, or place in life


now how about you stop complaining like a little spoiled b!tch, and try to improve yourself, start by reading more and saying less

Its nothing to brag about. Especially after college but many folks do maintain those hierarchies and friends so be aware. You mightve had a problem with a clique the entire time and was unaware.

2pac said the world is full of gangs, the fbi the cia the police, frats, gang bangers, cliques etc.

 

[Mike32ct]

Even at work, some coworkers might have a house party or go out for drinks after work. If you aren’t invited (or even told about the event lol), you simply aren’t in their clique.

It can seem cruel at times, but that’s the way it is. They pick who they prefer to have around.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Even at work, some coworkers might have a house party or go out for drinks after work. If you aren’t invited (or even told about the event lol), you simply aren’t in their clique.

It can seem cruel at times, but that’s the way it is. They pick who they prefer to have around.

But do you really need to be in every group?

 

[Mike32ct]

But do you really need to be in every group?

Agreed. No, I don’t.

Honestly, going to an event full of people you don’t click with isn’t fun either.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Agreed. No, I don’t.

Honestly, going to an event full of people you don’t click with isn’t fun either.

Right. I've had some groups not put me in there, but individually I talked with some of them. They just liked being together and was a bit too goofy for me but that's them, didn't hurt my feelings.

 

[Soflobro#3]

what really don't work out is a prick thinking he is a hot shot when no one cares about him.

you know who cares about social hierarchies? idiots who think they are on the top of such thing, and they are useless they bring nothing to the table, so want someone in a lower place to carry him, that is who cares about such thing, normal people don't care about anything other then thenselfs, smart people look after himself and know others have always something to offer who can make his life easier or something he needs, and don't have a prejudice about then whatever is they work, or place in life


now how about you stop complaining like a little spoiled b!tch, and try to improve yourself, start by reading more and saying less

Yup. I noticed 20 year old, naive children who suck Jordan Peterson's d1ck are always talking about it. They don't even understand the world or life. Ignorant.

 

[Alvafe]

Even at work, some coworkers might have a house party or go out for drinks after work. If you aren’t invited (or even told about the event lol), you simply aren’t in their clique.

It can seem cruel at times, but that’s the way it is. They pick who they prefer to have around.

not cruel, its how it is, and I don't know about you, but i'm the one who make the choosing, hell once I worked in a place most then half had they little happy hour, they never invited me, and it was a good thing, I would have to turn then down, not a good bunch to be around, plus right after work I had college, funny enough I was being invited by people from another section, with I talked a little bit with then and helped a little with they computer problem

in the end you choose to gather with people who is alike and can add to your life in a way, any other is bussines and money trading, understanding this, and working with it is a great way to deal with people

 

[meldiamond]

what really don't work out is a prick thinking he is a hot shot when no one cares about him.

you know who cares about social hierarchies? idiots who think they are on the top of such thing, and they are useless they bring nothing to the table, so want someone in a lower place to carry him, that is who cares about such thing, normal people don't care about anything other then thenselfs, smart people look after himself and know others have always something to offer who can make his life easier or something he needs, and don't have a prejudice about then whatever is they work, or place in life


now how about you stop complaining like a little spoiled b!tch, and try to improve yourself, start by reading more and saying less

LMAO! Looks like I've triggered someone at the bottom of the social hierarchy. Take it easy man. I doubt you'll have any problem taking care of thenselfs in any event lol

 

[meldiamond]

Social hierarchies are real. There are some people who are more beautiful, wealthier, more socially skilled and more talented than others. Pretending otherwise is just delusion.

For example, fat acceptance and gender equality. Look how destructive these two social movements have been. Predicated on completely false notions. The health problems caused by obesity are thoroughly documented as are the biological differences and inequality between men and women. Pretending otherwise gets us nowhere.

 

[Alvafe]

Social hierarchies are real. There are some people who are more beautiful, wealthier, more socially skilled and more talented than others. Pretending otherwise is just delusion.

For example, fat acceptance and gender equality. Look how destructive these two social movements have been. Predicated on completely false notions. The health problems caused by obesity are thoroughly documented as are the biological differences and inequality between men and women. Pretending otherwise gets us nowhere.

I don't pretend its just don't influence who i'm and what I want to do, I don't ****ing care, and fat acceptance and gender equality have nothing to do with social hierarchies.

 

[meldiamond]

I don't pretend its just don't influence who i'm and what I want to do, I don't ****ing care, and fat acceptance and gender equality have nothing to do with social hierarchies.

This is straight up delusional. Fat acceptance is all about normalizing fatness and brainwashing us to believe that fat people are just as healthy and attractive as fit, thin people which is total bullsh#t.

Feminism or "gender equality" is also horsesh#t. Men are superior to women in strength, intelligence, creativity, composure and in every way that matters in building and maintaining civilizations.

Men are superior to women, thin, fit people are superior to fat, ugly people. Social hierarchies exist and they make all the difference in the world.

I can't speak for anyone who chases fat ugly lesbian feminists with green hair. More power to you if that's your thing and it appears that it is.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Instead of social hiearchy, use the word status instead. Status does indeed exist. But where does this status come from? A sense of certainty. Thus status is relative but has the same principle that creates it. Say I am absolute certain that the best way of living is to smoke weed, play video games, and work at mcdonalds. I am so certain that I think everyone else who doesn't live the way I do is and idiot and I am above them. I will have the status no matter where I go. People will eventually fall into my frame if they hang around me long enough. Now say I am absolute certain that the best way of living is to be jacked, rich, and drive a lambo. People will feel my certainty and be sucked in.

Coolness is relative. I can make listening to telletubies cool. Trust me. I really, really, really like logic. People who don't like logic, when I talk about it, begin to like logic. It is the craziest thing. But that is the power of frame and certainty.

So a status in this clique is the same status in another clique?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I enjoy working out, reading books, longboarding, and entrepreneurship. I hang around hippies, straight edge students, and drug dealers (not anymore). Everytime, though I am not in their "clique" they hang on my every word and value what I have to say because of my certainty and my unapologeticness (is that a word?). Status in humans comes from certainty. In a world filled with chaos, the person with the most certainty is the light that people flock to for security. Think about it. A man who has a strong sense of reality will always dominate an environment.

They listen cause you know your shyt. Your not saying whatever to fit in the hierarchies.