"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What the fvck is up with Chad???

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It seems Chad has become the default term when talking about the so called alpha male/bad boy who all the girls want to fvck. But I don't think I heard this term being used 6 months or so ago, whereas nowadays EVERYONE is using it.
So who came up with this and how did it become so popular? Is it something that developed on SoSuave or does it find its roots outside this forum?
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It seems Chad has become the default term when talking about the so called alpha male/bad boy who all the girls want to fvck. But I don't think I heard this term being used 6 months or so ago, whereas nowadays EVERYONE is using it.
So who came up with this and how did it become so popular? Is it something that developed on SoSuave or does it find its roots outside this forum?
I think there was an internet meme about Chad Thunderc*ck. It had a tall blonde good looking college football player guy as the pic.

Then incel circles (I guess) started using the name Chad generically for any good looking (8+) guy.

Anyway, I’m not totally sure of the exact origin, but it definitely comes from outside SS.

I can’t wait to use this term on women in real life. “That’s fine you want to be my friend (or want me to buy you a drink), but what if I was Chad?” Lol
 
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I'm going to have my name legally changed to Chad Thunderc0ck. I wonder how an OLD profile would do with that name?
 

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Anybody check out videos from this channel? Face and LMS. The early videos were super entertaining and addictive. Lately, he's turned to interviews/chats which are quite dull. Here's an example of one of the early vids:

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm going to have my name legally changed to Chad Thunderc0ck. I wonder how an OLD profile would do with that name?
The name "Captain Kirk" will ALWAYS be the most alpha.
 

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It seems Chad has become the default term when talking about the so called alpha male/bad boy who all the girls want to fvck. But I don't think I heard this term being used 6 months or so ago, whereas nowadays EVERYONE is using it.
So who came up with this and how did it become so popular? Is it something that developed on SoSuave or does it find its roots outside this forum?
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/chad-thundercock
 

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Anybody check out videos from this channel? Face and LMS. The early videos were super entertaining and addictive. Lately, he's turned to interviews/chats which are quite dull. Here's an example of one of the early vids:

The author goes into incredible physical detail about facial structure, and mixes in lots of video clips that further prove his thesis. I learned from his video that one good feature I have is "hunter eyes", LOL. AFAIAC, his presentations are required viewing. As for his chats, I find them useful to play in the background, as yes, there are a lot of dull stretches, but there are also some great insights at times. I guess I am used to listening to True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca's chats while I work on my hobbies.
 

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I think there was an internet meme about Chad Thunderc*ck. It had a tall blonde good looking college football player guy as the pic.

Then incel circles (I guess) started using the name Chad generically for any good looking (8+) guy.

Anyway, I’m not totally sure of the exact origin, but it definitely comes from outside SS.

I can’t wait to use this term on women in real life. “That’s fine you want to be my friend (or want me to buy you a drink), but what if I was Chad?” Lol
This would be the equivalent to stamping "I AM A BIG LOSER" on your forehead.
 

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It seems Chad has become the default term when talking about the so called alpha male/bad boy who all the girls want to fvck. But I don't think I heard this term being used 6 months or so ago, whereas nowadays EVERYONE is using it.
So who came up with this and how did it become so popular? Is it something that developed on SoSuave or does it find its roots outside this forum?
There was a mass killing in the city of Toronto (where I am). My city has the one of the worst city in the world reputations as far as meeting women are concerned. The killer said something like The Incel Rebellion has begun. Stacies and Chads are to blame for my murderous rampage. You can google the whole thing. This is how Chad came into my vocabulary. If it's the past 6 months or so then it matches the timeline of that incident since it occurred around that time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There was a mass killing in the city of Toronto (where I am). My city has the one of the worst city in the world reputations as far as meeting women are concerned. The killer said something like The Incel Rebellion has begun. Stacies and Chads are to blame for my murderous rampage. You can google the whole thing. This is how Chad came into my vocabulary. If it's the past 6 months or so then it matches the timeline of that incident since it occurred around that time.
The incels have been using this term for a while.
 

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It seems Chad has become the default term when talking about the so called alpha male/bad boy who all the girls want to fvck. But I don't think I heard this term being used 6 months or so ago, whereas nowadays EVERYONE is using it.
So who came up with this and how did it become so popular? Is it something that developed on SoSuave or does it find its roots outside this forum?
I think it started on 4chan
 

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I started using it because I find it amusing.
The name Chad just somehow makes me think of a d*uchey guy with a rich Dad, who spends all his time working out, taking coke and inviting supermodels onto his Dad's yacht.
 

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It's not to be taking literally, it's a word to describe a good looking guy who pulls women, I don't understand why it's such a hard concept for you guys to accept, it's not like it's false, if your good looking you will get girls, the word Chad is just a play on words to describe that type of guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just read a thread full of grown men talking about "chad" and uploading shirtless pics of other men where they discussed how attractive or not they were ffs. Who the hell has male shirtless pics of other guys ready to go? Absolutely mental.
Bigdave is the only poster acting up like that. Don't make generalizations based on one crazy poster.
 

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Because it's f@ggotry. That's why.

Comes with a sh1tload of other concepts and behaviours, equally as gay or worthless at best.

If you care to state it's case, then give what possible value this mindset has.

I just read a thread full of grown men talking about "chad" and uploading shirtless pics of other men where they discussed how attractive or not they were ffs. Who the hell has male shirtless pics of other guys ready to go? Absolutely mental.
Yeah that **** gay and I don't participate in that, but my point is, Chad is a word to describe a good looking guy, point blank period.

It's know different then calling a girl "bad" AKA very attractive, it's a play on words.
 
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