“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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soo most girls are passive and boring right

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tbh most my gfs or sex encounters were passive and boring as f.

some were really really really boring,

other were just "average" and therefore boring.

And ive found one interesting and not passive chick - she was more active than most males - but she was not male, and she was not manly, she just was active and interesting
(she also didnt have Low qualtiy traits like "fat/ugly/poor/dumb")

and honestly whenever i text meet or talk with new chick,i constantly compare her to that one ive met, and none is even close to interesting.


girls often are either boring types or club dancing types (and thats usually the most interesting thing about them unfortunately).

no idea why but i meet only boring types? that can also be seen on dates. on my last date i was rejected honestly but I felt more pleasure from the stuff I say and do than from interaction with her.

On my other past dates regardless if I was rejected or if I ****ed her or kissed at least - they also were quite boring LOL. usually im the one supposed to make date work, and its ok NP with that, but i think women are on all fields of life like that.

no idea why that one particular girl ive meet was different, but she was, like totally different stuff. like alien
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Once in a while you meet a funny cool chick, most women are not funny. There is the exception at work one chick is hilarious fun to work with
 

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tbh most my gfs or sex encounters were passive and boring as f.

some were really really really boring,

other were just "average" and therefore boring.

And ive found one interesting and not passive chick - she was more active than most males - but she was not male, and she was not manly, she just was active and interesting
(she also didnt have Low qualtiy traits like "fat/ugly/poor/dumb")

and honestly whenever i text meet or talk with new chick,i constantly compare her to that one ive met, and none is even close to interesting.


girls often are either boring types or club dancing types (and thats usually the most interesting thing about them unfortunately).

no idea why but i meet only boring types? that can also be seen on dates. on my last date i was rejected honestly but I felt more pleasure from the stuff I say and do than from interaction with her.

On my other past dates regardless if I was rejected or if I ****ed her or kissed at least - they also were quite boring LOL. usually im the one supposed to make date work, and its ok NP with that, but i think women are on all fields of life like that.

no idea why that one particular girl ive meet was different, but she was, like totally different stuff. like alien
Majority of them are. You know why? Because guys don't make them work for it to get laid. They don't need a great personality to meet a guy. They just need to dress cute and go out.
 

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So are most guys. Whats the point?
 

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there's a trade off to everything, most women are passive and boring and the ones who aren't have their own sets of problems.

girls who like video games, anime, etc. tend to be either chubby 6's or locked down hardcore.

girls who like to party tend to be untrustworthy slvts

etc.

so it'll be hard to find a girl who isn't dry and boring without some other kind of baggage you need to deal with.
 

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there's a trade off to everything, most women are passive and boring and the ones who aren't have their own sets of problems.

girls who like video games, anime, etc. tend to be either chubby 6's or locked down hardcore.

girls who like to party tend to be untrustworthy slvts

etc.

so it'll be hard to find a girl who isn't dry and boring without some other kind of baggage you need to deal with.
If you got some good sex you can activate the "boring" girls body and sexuality. She will give you her very best. With a slvt you know she's going to be looking around and trying to get over. See if you can turn a "good" girl out and make her your sex toy.
 

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If you got some good sex you can activate the "boring" girls body and sexuality. She will give you her very best. With a slvt you know she's going to be looking around and trying to get over. See if you can turn a "good" girl out and make her your sex toy.
I've always heard that theory, but I've never seen it in practice. feels far too close to a male fantasy rather than reality. like the male version of taming and fixing the bad boy, revealing his heart of gold but only for you
 

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I've always heard that theory, but I've never seen it in practice. feels far too close to a male fantasy rather than reality. like the male version of taming and fixing the bad boy, revealing his heart of gold but only for you
I've done it
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Still looking for a decent looking girl whos hobbies are not related to socializing with random people in public places.
I know girls who love anime and video games.
 

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They're usually, gay, taken, or attention wh*res. There's bad apples in every group nowadays.
The only girls/women I see attending male oriented hobbies are either so desperate cause of ugliness that they replice desperate guys behaviours toward women or simply average looking girls looking for the "diva treatment" that they cant get in clubs cause hotties steal the spot.
 

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are they decent looking?
The ones who are have had boyfriends for a year lol. Although there's lots of attractive female twitch streamers and youtubers that play games, they all seem like attention wh0res whether they're single or not though

The ones you actually get to meet personally are usually a low 7 if you're lucky and a hard 5 if you're particularly unlucky
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Most people are incompatible with 99% of other people, male or female, on a long term basis. That's very different to one species being passive and boring.

I was once told that by the age of about 30 or maybe 40, you can count the number of really good friends you have on the fingers of one hand. I'm lucky that I maybe have 10-15. The more women that I experience, the more I realise that the same principal applies. I've probably been with, slept with, dated, kissed probably 500 women. But it must be said, I've only really been in love with two or maybe three at the most.
 
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Most people are incompatible with 99% of other people, male or female, on a long term basis. That's very different to one species being passive and boring.

I was once told that by the age of about 30 or maybe 40, you can count the number of really good friends you have on the fingers of one hand. I'm lucky that I maybe have 10-15. The more women that I experience, the more I realise that the same principal applies. I've probably been with, slept with, dated, kissed probably 500 women. But it must be said, I've only really been in love with two or maybe three at the most.
Why were you in love with those and not others?
 

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Why were you in love with those and not others?
Dunno really. Hindsight is a beautiful thing I suppose. It takes time (and as a consequence, a developed sense of maturity) to really, accurately to evaluate a situation that happened.

It's probably the same for every man (and woman for that matter). Like Desidinova's High Score theory. There are 2, 3 maybe 4 women in my life that I compare all others to. Call it genuine 'chemistry' or connection of some kind. Guess on an objective level, it is someone you can remain with for 6+ months and not get bored/indifferent about.
 

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Dunno really. Hindsight is a beautiful thing I suppose. It takes time (and as a consequence, a developed sense of maturity) to really, accurately to evaluate a situation that happened.

It's probably the same for every man (and woman for that matter). Like Desidinova's High Score theory. There are 2, 3 maybe 4 women in my life that I compare all others to. Call it genuine 'chemistry' or connection of some kind. Guess on an objective level, it is someone you can remain with for 6+ months and not get bored/indifferent about.
So like in my bad relationships it's hard to see what I loved other than raw animal attraction at that time. In my good relationships I can nail down several qualities that I loved about them. And I was attracted ontop of it. Attraction is not love.
 

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So like in my bad relationships it's hard to see what I loved other than raw animal attraction at that time. In my good relationships I can nail down several qualities that I loved about them. And I was attracted ontop of it. Attraction is not love.
Yeah. Exactly.

I've smashed the better part of 100 women, out of sheer animal lust. That sh!t is easy. Finding real companionship is 10 times harder than finding sex. And when you do, sex is 10 times better.

Most guys on here, even many of those who are successful with women, completely confuse their need for sex and their need for companionship. In fact it seems to be generally an inverse indication; some (most) have no problem with companionship but have problems escalating sexually. The others who are sexually successful do actually crave real companionship, and that is what they are failing at.

It has to be said, there is a lot to be said, and say what you will for having a sexual relationship with your best friend.
 
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