"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's better?

1. Single mom, she's a 7, has had 7 boyfriends and one husband. She's 34 years old. Her shortest relationship was 6 months. She has a good job making $80k/yr but one kid.

2. Never married never LTR girl. She's 31. Had sex 500 times. Never gets hung up on a guy. So most are one night standers. Several hit 5 or so times. 200 guys. She's a 9 for appearance but makes $35k/yr.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My personal opinion is neither. At the same time, there isn't enough information for me to make a decision.
If I wanted a GF the single mom would be better. She's proven she can stay with a guy and has more $ so she doesn't need mines.

If I wanted a plate or someone who wouldn't be hanging on me the around the way girl would be better.
 

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What's better?

1. Single mom, she's a 7, has had 7 boyfriends and one husband. She's 34 years old. Her shortest relationship was 6 months. She has a good job making $80k/yr but one kid.

2. Never married never LTR girl. She's 31. Had sex 500 times. Never gets hung up on a guy. So most are one night standers. Several hit 5 or so times. 200 guys. She's a 9 for appearance but makes $35k/yr.

It seems like the first profile is hard to find. Like a needle in a hay stack. When it comes to the first sixty days you'll probably never see her again. No matter what you do.

On the second like something out of the movie Die hard where it's the bad guy interested. You could say she's an expert. How does the original die hard end??
 

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It seems like the first profile is hard to find. Like a needle in a hay stack. When it comes to the first sixty days you'll probably never see her again. No matter what you do.

On the second like something out of the movie Die hard where it's the bad guy interested. You could say she's an expert. How does the original die hard end??
What if #1 had more sex?

Ie: she fvcked her husband 1000 times over a 5 years period.

And she fvcked her 7 boyfriend's about 100 times a year, each over a one year period. She was always only with one guy.

So 1,700 fvcks in 7 guys versus the 550 fvcks on 215 guys?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Both are damaged garbage. Fvck n' toss material.
Someone with basically 8 long term boyfriend's over a 12 year period of time is trash? I don't agree.

With #2 you can guarantee she'll be looking around and possibly hopping on other sticks.

#1 has a history of being with one guy at a time and putting out.
 

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Lol do guys actually think about this? Personally my only issue is that I don't date women with kids and since I'm more emotionally unavailable than most women, I wouldn't go near either. Gun to my head though I'd choose the second girl, it sounds like you could have some fun with her.
 

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What if #1 had more sex?

Ie: she fvcked her husband 1000 times over a 5 years period.

And she fvcked her 7 boyfriend's about 100 times a year, each over a one year period. She was always only with one guy.

So 1,700 fvcks in 7 guys versus the 550 fvcks on 215 guys?

Look man you're either a politician from greece named Hera. Which is the only record of here. Or a random Hittite group of girls that were trying to kill a bodybuilder in history who would train with a cow that he would pick up every day. Giving him reputation of a God. Currently if you can manage second is better...
 

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Look man you're either a politician from greece named Hera. Which is the only record of here. Or a random Hittite group of girls that were trying to kill a bodybuilder in history who would train with a cow that he would pick up every day. Giving him reputation of a God. Currently if you can manage second is better...
I think first is better. I like to "connect" in sex and don't like it to be transactional and impersonal.

#2 has over two hundred guys in her. Very non discriminatory. A history of riding the carousel, being able to control her feelings not get involved. It makes for shallower less feeling sex and alot more games if you try to get close.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think first is better. I like to "connect" in sex and don't like it to be transactional and impersonal.

#2 has over two hundred guys in her. Very non discriminatory. A history of riding the carousel, being able to control her feelings not get involved. It makes for shallower less feeling sex and alot more games if you try to get close.



When I was younger would agree. Going with the girl that has kids. There is an art. Bottom line as I've gotten older it's a question of time. If you look at the movie die hard. That type of free spirited girl is nice feel. Have you seen recent divorcee married to Johnny Depp. She was a real nice girl when growing up. Now she's into all the wrong things and no kids.
 

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When I was younger would agree. Going with the girl that has kids. There is an art. Bottom line as I've gotten older it's a question of time. If you look at the movie die hard. That type of free spirited girl is nice feel. Have you seen recent divorcee married to Johnny Depp. She was a real nice girl when growing up. Now she's into all the wrong things and no kids.
They get like porcupines. Better and better at keeping distance.
 
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