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Master Don Juan
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You need some cedar trees for your shoes bro. They will last for years if you treat them right.I'll go no show so that I don't stink up the shoes.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You need some cedar trees for your shoes bro. They will last for years if you treat them right.I'll go no show so that I don't stink up the shoes.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Square toes are ugly and there is a lot of revulsion against them in the fashion world.Reason?
Absolutely. I like how you put it, a man that holds himself to a high standard....your clothes are an extension of yourself. If you want to be perceived as a confident, high value type of person, you not only act/behave that way, but you must also dress the part. You have to dress/groom yourself in a way where it shows that you spent some time and take pride in your appearance.Fashion is important, but you dont need to be excessive. I believe a man that holds himself to high standards will cause his woman to mirror that behavior. I rarely leave the house looking like a slob, and 8f I do, its usually gym clothes. If I am going somewhere afterwards, I will bring a change of clothes.
I noticed this has a profound impact on women as well. They want to be the better looking person and they should be. By holding myself to a certain level, they will mirror my behavior and get themselves ready. And I'm not talking like this takes a lot of effort or time, it is merely the choices you make for clothing and bathing.
When I first started dating my girl, she would roll out in gym clothes or floppy pants and a tshirt. She sees me and is like... "your dressed so nice " in other words, not a slob. Now, she always takes the time to look good for me because she sees that I like to present myself well.
It doesn't take much effort to look sharp, so just take a couple extra minutes to distinguish yourself from everyone else.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Never heard of him until you mentioned him. I checked out his channel and saw a little of one video - seems like he does give pretty good suggestions for guys out there.If you are anywhere from 20 to 35 you should definitely watch Alex costa on YouTube. Best fashion channel out there