"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My friend is just a little worried. WARNING this maybe a little uncomfortable for some

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Week 1:
So, he had sex with think older woman in her 40s. They were both drunk, she claims she couldn't remember what happened that night but she saw condom on the hotel floor and she was naked when she woke up that morning.

Week 2: later, they went on a date and had sex

Week 3: later, they facked again

Week 4: later, they facked again..

Weeks 5 thru 10, she is blowing up his phone how she misses him, etc.

NOW, the real question is, can she file charges against him the first time they had drunk sex? even though they had sex 3 to 4 times after that?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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So, he had sex with think older woman in her 40s. They were both drunk, she claims she couldn't remember what happened that night but she saw condom on the hotel floor and she was naked when she woke up that morning.

Fast forward 1 week later, they went on a date and had sex

Fast forward 2 weeks later, they facked again

3 weeks later, they facked again..

NOW, the real question is, can she file charges against him the first time they had drunk sex? even though they had sex 3 to 4 times after that?
Wtf, ASK a lawyer? Why are you posting this? And in Holland it would be nonsense... shes old enough to be responsible for her OWN actions or she has to proof that it was against her will
 

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Uncomfortable ?.... It's entertaining...

All those "lets fack"... "how much I miss you" texts should keep you in the clear.

Unless you're some sort of catch or have money why would she even bother.....
 

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Yeah, she can file whatever charges she wants. Whether or not it goes anywhere is another story.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, she can file whatever charges she wants. Whether or not it goes anywhere is another story.
I mean, if you were one of the a juries, would you find the guy guilty? Would this even make sense to the judge?
 

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I mean, everything is in good terms between them 2, he just worried that happened for the first time with him. Because his other friend said "DUDE, you didn't need to drink to fack her, you couldve facked her without alcohol". They were both drunk at that time.
 

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She’s a fully grown adult responsible for her alcohol intake. They both had loosened inhibitions resulting in having sex afterward. It would be laughed out of court, Case closed.
 
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he feels that he has to be "nice to her" and has to pick up her daily calls so she wouldn't get mad and file charges.. because she brought it up to him about what happened that morning that "she saw condom on floor and she was naked" during week 1.

He just paranoid..
 

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But, wouldn't you guys feel paranoid about this sort of thing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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But, wouldn't you guys feel paranoid about this sort of thing?
No, the fact that they f*cked many more times after this would weaken her argument. You wouldn’t continue to have sex with someone who ”raped” you.
 

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Are you still facking her ?....

I mean this sounds like a manageable arrangement.

Keep facking....
 

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i havent had time lately.. Im really too busy trying to cut and work on my income......tomorrow, we just going out for quick lunch. At least she stopped blowing up my phone after she apologized that she "didn't want to lose me" and i told her "I told you ill call u when i have time. My life isnt ABC" and things calmed after
 

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Wtf, ASK a lawyer? Why are you posting this? And in Holland it would be nonsense... shes old enough to be responsible for her OWN actions or she has to proof that it was against her will
True but in the west, women can make **** up and lie. She can file charges or post from social media for victim status.
 
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