"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm on finnasteride/propecia to help prevent hairloss but...

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It may be potentially giving me sexual side effects. I don't know for sure. It hasn't affected my sex drive at all (I can still masturbate 9 times a day and I love women/sex) but I don't get random boners anymore and I don't get morning wood. I have to stroke myself to get hard but if I'm very aroused, I can still get very hard

What would you do if you were me? the last woman I slept with, I was always able to get very very hard but I haven't had sex with anybody since I started using finnasteride 7 months ago so I dunno how I would perform now. I do remember that I was always able to get a quality erection way easier/faster around a real woman than porn

For those who are unaware, finnasteride is the best thing for maintaining hair on the market. My hair transplant surgeon said it would give me about a 60-70% chance of not losing any more hair. I've lost a good amount of hair but I have very thick/wavy hair texture so most people still think I have good hair (when I was a kid, I basically had a giant jewfrow with the thickest hair you've ever seen, I couldn't even comb it). I just got a hair transplant done with about 12K total hairs added so once it grows in (takes 5-7 months), it will look really excellent.

I dunno what to do. Is it normal that i don't get morning wood and random boners anymore? that I have to stroke myself to get hard?

edit: I have good orgasms with thick semen, it's not watery at all

I've missed around with cialis once or twice and it got me very hard very easily but do I want to keep using that forever? I'm afraid of these side effects progressing worse and worse and then I can't get hard at all
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have BPH (enlarged prostate; I've had it since my teens :eek:). I take Terazosin now, and it's great (a bit of an effect like Sildenafil :D), but I've tried Finasteride. The problem with Finasteride is that you could get orgasms that shoot blanks, and which don't relieve the sexual tension. I tried it a few days and came to the conclusion that it was worth it. Terazosin, OTOH, when taken before ejaculation can really draw out the fluids from the prostate, and thus I highly recommend it. :cool:
 

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I have BPH (enlarged prostate; I've had it since my teens :eek:). I take Terazosin now, and it's great (a bit of an effect like Sildenafil :D), but I've tried Finasteride. The problem with Finasteride is that you could get orgasms that shoot blanks, and which don't relieve the sexual tension. I tried it a few days and came to the conclusion that it was worth it. Terazosin, OTOH, when taken before ejaculation can really draw out the fluids from the prostate, and thus I highly recommend it. :cool:
I have good orgasms with thick semen, it's not watery at all

I've missed around with cialis once or twice and it got me very hard very easily but do I want to keep using that forever? I'm afraid of these side effects progressing worse and worse and then I can't get hard at all
 

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It may be potentially giving me sexual side effects. I don't know for sure. It hasn't affected my sex drive at all (I can still masturbate 9 times a day and I love women/sex) but I don't get random boners anymore and I don't get morning wood. I have to stroke myself to get hard but if I'm very aroused, I can still get very hard

What would you do if you were me? the last woman I slept with, I was always able to get very very hard but I haven't had sex with anybody since I started using finnasteride 7 months ago so I dunno how I would perform now. I do remember that I was always able to get a quality erection way easier/faster around a real woman than porn

For those who are unaware, finnasteride is the best thing for maintaining hair on the market. My hair transplant surgeon said it would give me about a 60-70% chance of not losing any more hair. I've lost a good amount of hair but I have very thick/wavy hair texture so most people still think I have good hair (when I was a kid, I basically had a giant jewfrow with the thickest hair you've ever seen, I couldn't even comb it). I just got a hair transplant done with about 12K total hairs added so once it grows in (takes 5-7 months), it will look really excellent.

I dunno what to do. Is it normal that i don't get morning wood and random boners anymore? that I have to stroke myself to get hard?

edit: I have good orgasms with thick semen, it's not watery at all

I've missed around with cialis once or twice and it got me very hard very easily but do I want to keep using that forever? I'm afraid of these side effects progressing worse and worse and then I can't get hard at all
finasteride can infinitely ruin ur **** that u will never get a boner even if u stop the drug
 

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finasteride can infinitely ruin ur **** that u will never get a boner even if u stop the drug
I can get very hard now but it seems like I have to focus harder than I used to...although I'm not really sure

hasn't affected my sex drive or orgasms/ejaculation at all
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can get very hard now but it seems like I have to focus harder than I used to...although I'm not really sure

hasn't affected my sex drive or orgasms/ejaculation at all
there are people who had no boner even 3 yrs after last dose and they sued the company
 

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You jerkoff 9 times a day? You have way too much time on your hands. If you do not want to have the finastride side effects to your pee pee, you should switch to the topical spray and not the pill. In addition, take this supplement and you'll be fine with your current hair and regrow your missing hair. I lost a good amount of hair in my crown and temple areas a few years ago. All has grown back and I have nice thick hair again. No gray either. :)
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You jerkoff 9 times a day? You have way too much time on your hands. If you do not want to have the finastride side effects to your pee pee, you should switch to the topical spray and not the pill. In addition, take this supplement and you'll be fine with your current hair and regrow your missing hair. I lost a good amount of hair in my crown and temple areas a few years ago. All has grown back and I have nice thick hair again. No gray either. :)

topical spray affects the body the same way so it would likely have same effects


again, I really don't know if I'm getting side effects. I really need to have sex with a woman to see how I would perform
 

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Try not jerking off for a while and see if it gets better. You could have a case of prostatitis. Having multiple orgasms like that all the time puts a lot of strain on the prostate
 

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I just masturbated and was able to get very hard...and was still hard even after I finished for a little bit. 2nd time I fapped today


so I wonder if it's all just in my head? but why am I not getting random boners or morning wood anymore? Or is that normal for my age?
 

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If you Google no morning wood, the very next word that comes up is finnasteride...

RIP little dave
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you Google no morning wood, the very next word that comes up is finnasteride...

RIP little dave
my situation is so strange because the majority of guys who say that finnasteride gave them side effects said it massively affected their sex drive

I can't find any stories of anybody who still had a raging sex drive (which I do), no problems ejaculating and normal thick semen but may be struggling more than normal with erections/morning wood

If my sex drive remains very strong, what are the odds that it will get any more difficult to get an erection? Isn't the mechanism for an erection 100% based on your level of sexual arousal?
 

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You jerkoff 9 times a day? You have way too much time on your hands. If you do not want to have the finastride side effects to your pee pee, you should switch to the topical spray and not the pill. In addition, take this supplement and you'll be fine with your current hair and regrow your missing hair. I lost a good amount of hair in my crown and temple areas a few years ago. All has grown back and I have nice thick hair again. No gray either. :)

i also lose hair and been taking 10mg of biotin a day for 2 months, didnt help


this product is mainly biotin
 

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i also lose hair and been taking 10mg of biotin a day for 2 months, didnt help


this product is mainly biotin
My dermatologist recommended this supplement to me along with the Finasteride/Minox spray and it works for me. Nothing is 100% for all. However, others I suggested it to use the same regimen and it works for them.
 

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I just masturbated and was able to get very hard...and was still hard even after I finished for a little bit. 2nd time I fapped today


so I wonder if it's all just in my head? but why am I not getting random boners or morning wood anymore? Or is that normal for my age?
Thanks for sharing this info. Maybe stop doing the knuckle shuffle so much and let a woman play with it for awhile may help. 7 months no pvssy for a 10 out of 10 stud like you? And @ 29? Geez... Lower your standards bro.
 

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topical spray affects the body the same way so it would likely have same effects
Just left my dermatologist's office. He doesn't agree with you on the spray having the same side effects as the pill. I've been on it for 4 years, my sex drive is still very high @ 42 with your "morning wood" as you put it so eloquently. Perhaps you are stressed out or not eating right. Or low on certain vitamins or minerals.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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