"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have a good problem here. Recently a female bartender has been hooking me up with some of my drinks at this local sports bar. Her and I have made a lot of small talk and one day out of the blue she just started leaving a lot of drinks off my tab, making me shots, etc. I haven't overtipped much either. I mean I've thrown an extra couple of bucks but nothing crazy. She is cute but I don't want to ruin this hookup. I haven't asked her for her number or anything. Just keeping that bartender/patron relationship going. I'm just thinking football season is here and I'd like to continue this. However, what do you guys think? Continue getting the mug or get a plate?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If she's "investing" that means sooner rather then later she'll want "returns" on that investment.

Ask her number or she'll start noticing less then profitable "returns" and then she'll stop "investing".
 
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jaymbrs said:
I have a good problem here. Recently a female bartender has been hooking me up with some of my drinks at this local sports bar. Her and I have made a lot of small talk and one day out of the blue she just started leaving a lot of drinks off my tab, making me shots, etc. I haven't overtipped much either. I mean I've thrown an extra couple of bucks but nothing crazy. She is cute but I don't want to ruin this hookup. I haven't asked her for her number or anything. Just keeping that bartender/patron relationship going. I'm just thinking football season is here and I'd like to continue this. However, what do you guys think? Continue getting the mug or get a plate?
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You don't even know that you could "get a plate" out of this. You're just assuming that.
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
You don't even know that you could "get a plate" out of this. You're just assuming that.
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We all have to assume we can get the girl. Thinking negatively will prevent you from getting any girl. Besides, I have a decent track record of getting female bartenders/servers since I used to be in the service industry. I'm able to relate and that's my ice breaker. It works wonders.
 
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