Rant: This idea of a top 20% male/Chad online is so unbelievably ridiculous

[bigdave17]

I see it everywhere, this mythical top 20% aka Chad who gets all the women. Let's break down what the online community believes are these men


- 6'0+ tall (which narrows it down to around only 30% of men)
- 8/10 facial aesthetics (which narrows it down to maybe 20% men who even have the bone structure to look that good if they do everything perfectly)
- 8-12% body fat (which narrows it down to say 5% of 20% of 30%. Very few guys are truly lean and in shape)
- some guy with a high status job who makes 150-200K a year (which narrows it down to 0.5% of 5% of 20% of 30%)


Seriously guys, if you believe this fukking nonsense, you're just devaluing yourself in the market place. The honest reality of the situation is that, if you're a decent looking guy, you take care of yourself, you dress nice and you're in good shape and you make say 80K a year and you have all your sh*t together and you're genuinely a good person who treats people well...you're in the top 10% of the market place easily and I mean easily


This is the equivalent of women who look at Victoria Secret models and think they have to be that skinny/gorgeous in the face to be attractive. The more we keep telling ourselves that we are doomed unless we are perfect, the more we devalue ourselves and destroy our mindset before we even start

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I see it everywhere, this mythical top 20% aka Chad who gets all the women. Let's break down what the online community believes are these men


- 6'0+ tall (which narrows it down to around only 30% of men)
- 8/10 facial aesthetics (which narrows it down to maybe 20% men who even have the bone structure to look that good if they do everything perfectly)
- 8-12% body fat (which narrows it down to say 5% of 20% of 30%. Very few guys are truly lean and in shape)
- some guy with a high status job who makes 150-200K a year (which narrows it down to 0.5% of 5% of 20% of 30%)


Seriously guys, if you believe this fukking nonsense, you're just devaluing yourself in the market place. The honest reality of the situation is that, if you're a decent looking guy, you take care of yourself, you dress nice and you're in good shape and you make say 80K a year and you have all your sh*t together and you're genuinely a good person who treats people well...you're in the top 10% of the market place easily and I mean easily


This is the equivalent of women who look at Victoria Secret models and think they have to be that skinny/gorgeous in the face to be attractive. The more we keep telling ourselves that we are doomed unless we are perfect, the more we devalue ourselves and destroy our mindset before we even start

"Good person who treats people well".. Not high on the list for sexual attraction. That should be your field of study going forward. Sexual attraction.

 

[ALnotAI]

You have an unrealistically narrow definition of a "chad." Most people's stereotypical image is of a good-looking douchey frat guy. It's not necessarily one of a rich chad.

You're watching way too many LMS videos.

The other good looking guys I knew with the highest numbers were laying mostly 6's and 7's. An occasional 8 here and there. But most of their lays were with average looking girls you might not take a second look at, except that these guys really honed in on them if they showed any interest.

I see it everywhere, this mythical top 20% aka Chad who gets all the women. Let's break down what the online community believes are these men


- 6'0+ tall (which narrows it down to around only 30% of men)
- 8/10 facial aesthetics (which narrows it down to maybe 20% men who even have the bone structure to look that good if they do everything perfectly)
- 8-12% body fat (which narrows it down to say 5% of 20% of 30%. Very few guys are truly lean and in shape)
- some guy with a high status job who makes 150-200K a year (which narrows it down to 0.5% of 5% of 20% of 30%)


Seriously guys, if you believe this fukking nonsense, you're just devaluing yourself in the market place. The honest reality of the situation is that, if you're a decent looking guy, you take care of yourself, you dress nice and you're in good shape and you make say 80K a year and you have all your sh*t together and you're genuinely a good person who treats people well...you're in the top 10% of the market place easily and I mean easily


This is the equivalent of women who look at Victoria Secret models and think they have to be that skinny/gorgeous in the face to be attractive. The more we keep telling ourselves that we are doomed unless we are perfect, the more we devalue ourselves and destroy our mindset before we even start

 

[bigdave17]

You have an unrealistically narrow definition of a "chad." Most people's stereotypical image is of a good-looking douchey frat guy. It's not necessarily one of a rich chad.

this is the online community idea of a chad

take out the money aspect of it, that's still probably top 0.1% of the general public. You'd have to come across maybe 1000 men to find 1 who looks anything like that


So 1 in 1000 men are sleeping with the top 800 women, according to the online community

 

[ALnotAI]

That looks very obviously photoshopped.

Who cares about what the "online community" thinks is a chad? The reality is very different, obviously.

 

[Tilex]

bigdave, that guy has the body frame of a steroid juicer.
That's why it looks so ridiculously disproportionate.
People on TRT or Steroids have to take those drugs for the rest of their lives in order to maintain that look.
How long do you think women will stay with drug abusers like this?

 

[bigdave17]

bigdave, that guy has the body frame of a steroid juicer.
That's why it looks so ridiculously disproportionate.
People on TRT or Steroids have to take those drugs for the rest of their lives in order to maintain that look.
How long do you think women will stay with drug abusers like this?

he is not really that big, he just has phenomenal genetics. Super wide shoulders with a very narrow waist. I have a similar look in terms of a very narrow waist with very wide shoulders. Most steroid users don't have a waist anywhere near that narrow

I'm just not quite as big and lean as he is. I need to gain about 20 LBs of muscle and drop 10-15 lbs more bodyfat so I can look like that

 

[Tilex]

he is not really that big, he just has phenomenal genetics. Super wide shoulders with a very narrow waist. I have a similar look in terms of a very narrow waist with very wide shoulders. Most steroid users don't have a waist anywhere near that narrow

Man, you are so naive! You can immediately tell this guy used to be scrawny before just by looking at his neck.
If he wasn't on the juice, his body frame would look more similar to Bruce Lee with proper diet and exercise.
Only juicing gets you that big. Go look at before and after photos of wwe wrestlers.
You'll know for damn sure who's been juicing after that.

 

[ALnotAI]

What are you talking about man? That's a totally natural physique!

But seriously, it looks shooped, or he roids like crazy.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

this is the online community idea of a chad

take out the money aspect of it, that's still probably top 0.1% of the general public. You'd have to come across maybe 1000 men to find 1 who looks anything like that


So 1 in 1000 men are sleeping with the top 800 women, according to the online community

His face looks weird. Diet nutrition and roids. The waist illusion is taken by focusing on the side of the waist and not the front. If you think you need all that to get laid your sick. Plus there's dudes who look like that not getting laid due to lack of game.

 

[ALnotAI]

OP is completely nonsensical.

You have to be a 'roided weird looking Mexican to get laid?

 

[Dingo]

Dude....

Stop obsessing over what some other guy looks like. Stop breaking this **** down like it's some exact mathematical science.

Work with what you got and go out and get the best you can.

 

[Spaz]

I didn't know women in the USA are into gay looking guys...

Is that what you guys call a Chad?

Lmao!

 

[Mike32ct]

I see it everywhere, this mythical top 20% aka Chad who gets all the women. Let's break down what the online community believes are these men


- 6'0+ tall (which narrows it down to around only 30% of men)
- 8/10 facial aesthetics (which narrows it down to maybe 20% men who even have the bone structure to look that good if they do everything perfectly)
- 8-12% body fat (which narrows it down to say 5% of 20% of 30%. Very few guys are truly lean and in shape)
- some guy with a high status job who makes 150-200K a year (which narrows it down to 0.5% of 5% of 20% of 30%)


Seriously guys, if you believe this fukking nonsense, you're just devaluing yourself in the market place. The honest reality of the situation is that, if you're a decent looking guy, you take care of yourself, you dress nice and you're in good shape and you make say 80K a year and you have all your sh*t together and you're genuinely a good person who treats people well...you're in the top 10% of the market place easily and I mean easily


This is the equivalent of women who look at Victoria Secret models and think they have to be that skinny/gorgeous in the face to be attractive. The more we keep telling ourselves that we are doomed unless we are perfect, the more we devalue ourselves and destroy our mindset before we even start

Chad doesn’t need all of those traits simultaneously. Honestly, 8/10 facial aesthetics alone is a home run.

 

[Mike32ct]

But I agree 100 percent about the 80k guy described above.

 

[Alvafe]

why some people have problems in taking everything in the literal term of it.....

the chad term is to say that kind of dude who are used to get girls, but is normally there is nothing else going on with him, its a idea of girls wasting her youth with idiots who have some looks and know how to push her buttons, and then when things don't go right (wonders) complain about all men are pricks

btw you shouldn't take things like this that literal, understand what they are saying, don't take things literal, and see what you can and can't apply who will work for you

 

[mrgoodstuff]

why some people have problems in taking everything in the literal term of it.....

the chad term is to say that kind of dude who are used to get girls, but is normally there is nothing else going on with him, its a idea of girls wasting her youth with idiots who have some looks and know how to push her buttons, and then when things don't go right (wonders) complain about all men are pricks

btw you shouldn't take things like this that literal, understand what they are saying, don't take things literal, and see what you can and can't apply who will work for you

The Chad supposed to have the looks and charm but is a time waster in that he has nothing to offer.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Practice what you preach, Dave.

He hasn't been taking care of his masculinity. Because if he did his cawk would be buried deep in a couple of these "trash" babes who like to submit to him till he gets something better. He'd also start laughing at some of the snobby pretentious babes by now cause he got his balls.

 

[ALnotAI]

"Chad" is synonymous with "frat boy" (college age 18-24) and "douchebag" (post college twenty something).

/thread.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I had a few in-home sales jobs and would occasionally be in the house of a gay couple to sell them something. When it was two dudes, there was almost always several issues of Muscle & Fitness on the coffee table, even if they obviously never worked out.