Should I even say anything?

[ItsFate451]

Matched with a girl on tinder. Sent messages back and forth for about 10 min before asking her out. Asked her when she was free to get drinks. Below is our exchange.

Me: When are you free to get drinks?
Her: I’ll be there Tuesday.
Me: Great! Let’s meet at Tuesday at 7.
Her: Or Wednesday
Me: lol what day works best for you?
Her: I’ll hit you up

Tuesday goes by and I haven’t heard a word from her. On Wednesday as I was leaving the gym around 930pm she messages me..

Her: Your 1 mile away
Me: yea I just left the gym
Her: oh

At this point I was on already on the train headed home tired. Today I see that we’re not that far away from each other. So I messaged her.

Me: hey! Looks like we are a mile away again. Let’s hangout.

Her: Sorry. Should’ve taken the opportunity yesterday.

What should I say next? I’m thinking of just saying “no worries.” I feel like I did my part got to the point and asked her out originally and she gave me a I’ll let you know response. So it was up to her to initiate meeting up.

 

[MrJack]

Matched with a girl on tinder. Sent messages back and forth for about 10 min before asking her out. Asked her when she was free to get drinks. Below is our exchange.

Me: When are you free to get drinks?
Her: I’ll be there Tuesday.
Me: Great! Let’s meet at Tuesday at 7.
Her: Or Wednesday
Me: lol what day works best for you?
Her: I’ll hit you up

Tuesday goes by and I haven’t heard a word from her. On Wednesday as I was leaving the gym around 930pm she messages me..

Her: Your 1 mile away
Me: yea I just left the gym
Her: oh

At this point I was on already on the train headed home tired. Today I see that we’re not that far away from each other. So I messaged her.

Me: hey! Looks like we are a mile away again. Let’s hangout.

Her: Sorry. Should’ve taken the opportunity yesterday.

What should I say next? I’m thinking of just saying “no worries.” I feel like I did my part got to the point and asked her out originally and she gave me a I’ll let you know response. So it was up to her to initiate meeting up.

I don’t know why you would ask “what day is good for you” after she literally just said Wednesday but either way, in most cases, don’t agree with it. You’re a busy guy. Also when you ask that, especially a tinder girl, they will usually not respond and if they do it’ll never be a straight answer, which is exactly what this one did. You’re expected to lead not her. You say you’re busy that day and pick a new day and time.

I’m surprised she even reached out again but after you said “yea I just left the gym” and she said “oh” that’s where I either delete her as a match or just don’t respond. A chick that boring and full of herself is not worth my time.

And yes she’s full of herself with her “should’ve taken the opportunity yesterday” message. Like b!tch stfu lol.

She’s in the position of power over you so you either have to say something that shifts the power back to you or just Next her.

Or give her a taste of her own medicine and just say “oh”.

I myself, would Next. Shyt she’s exhausting ME just by reading YOUR interaction with her lol.

 

[ohrein]

she’s exhausting ME just by reading YOUR interaction with her

For real. Sorry, you should have taken the opportunity yesterday? Sorry, I don't date narcissists.

In future set concrete plans. If she doesn't accept concrete plans, then you don't move forward. Remember, you are a man worth catching and your time is valuable. A woman should put in the minimum effort of scheduling a fvcking time to meet you. I ignore any woman who doesn't.

 

[ItsFate451]

I don’t know why you would ask “what day is good for you” after she literally just said Wednesday but either way, in most cases, don’t agree with it. You’re a busy guy. Also when you ask that, especially a tinder girl, they will usually not respond and if they do it’ll never be a straight answer, which is exactly what this one did. You’re expected to lead not her. You say you’re busy that day and pick a new day and time.

I’m surprised she even reached out again but after you said “yea I just left the gym” and she said “oh” that’s where I either delete her as a match or just don’t respond. A chick that boring and full of herself is not worth my time.

And yes she’s full of herself with her “should’ve taken the opportunity yesterday” message. Like b!tch stfu lol.

She’s in the position of power over you so you either have to say something that shifts the power back to you or just Next her.

Or give her a taste of her own medicine and just say “oh”.

I myself, would Next. Shyt she’s exhausting ME just by reading YOUR interaction with her lol.

I mean I did lead. If you read at the beginning I asked when she was free to get drinks. And let’s meet at 7. It was low interest on her part.


But yea she does sound exhausting

 

[Mazer]

fack this bish! Tell her you are no longer interested. You found your soul mate yesterday. I tried this line with two chicks On OLD and they responded immediately, told me I was funny then I banged them out on the first date.

 

[MrJack]

I mean I did lead. If you read at the beginning I asked when she was free to get drinks. And let’s meet at 7. It was low interest on her part.


But yea she does sound exhausting

You’re right I read you’re initial exchange in a different way at first. Your messages must have been in very quick succession, I read it as if the messages were sent 10’s of minutes to hours in between but now I see the entire exchange was within 10 minutes.

Everything I said after that still remains true though.

 

[Murk]

"You're a sassy/boring little b!tch aren't you"

She may have taken the bait and you could have tried to smash first date without fear of ruining it, because she's obviously a cun.t and there's nothing to ruin here except her vag.

Don't play nice with wh0res.

 

[marmel75]

Matched with a girl on tinder. Sent messages back and forth for about 10 min before asking her out. Asked her when she was free to get drinks. Below is our exchange.

Me: When are you free to get drinks?
Her: I’ll be there Tuesday.
Me: Great! Let’s meet at Tuesday at 7.
Her: Or Wednesday
Me: lol what day works best for you?
Her: I’ll hit you up

Tuesday goes by and I haven’t heard a word from her. On Wednesday as I was leaving the gym around 930pm she messages me..

Her: Your 1 mile away
Me: yea I just left the gym
Her: oh

At this point I was on already on the train headed home tired. Today I see that we’re not that far away from each other. So I messaged her.

Me: hey! Looks like we are a mile away again. Let’s hangout.

Her: Sorry. Should’ve taken the opportunity yesterday.

What should I say next? I’m thinking of just saying “no worries.” I feel like I did my part got to the point and asked her out originally and she gave me a I’ll let you know response. So it was up to her to initiate meeting up.

Isn't anything to say. Low interest. Prime example of how most guys waste time with low interest women trying to figure out the "perfect thing to say" when they should be spending their time finding women with high interest where no matter what they say it will work.

Nothing you will say will raise her interest level enough to matter

 

[redskinsfan92]

Always make definite dates. She's playing games. Give her a specific date. If she keeps bsing just forget her.