“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is hypergamy so bad that even p0rn stars are picky?

switch7

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I'm just too dumb to 2 be at nerd level and explain it in a nerd way.

Dumb people r rather long winded to get across what they r trying to convey.

And I do hope by acknowledging u r a smartie 2 shoes boost ur credibility with regards towards ur skills with women.
If someone is intelligent should they act dumb so others don't feel inferior?

If you are an alpha male should you act less alpha so that beta males don't feel inferior?

Complaining about intelligent people, calling them 'nerds' is the same as complaining about alpha males. It is an act of frustration which comes from a place of weakness.

And anyway I'm not that intelligent. My iq last time I checked is around 120 which is only slightly above average.
 

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All these scientific terms is giving me a headache.

I'm a trained engineer, I prefer simple and straight to the point.

Remember, I'm speaking from experiences with women that I had the privilege to cohabit or were in an extended LTR.

To claim that all women r continously seeking out a higher status man is just plain idiotic and a rather convenient excuse men uses to describe their own overall idiotic character + failures. You boys need to buck up and be a fvcking man to admit ur own shortcomings.

Now don't be mad or get emotional, listen 1st and then use ur nerd brain to process it slowlyyyy. I'll use layman terms for easy understanding;

Women r allowed 2 hv standards in dating/marrying and once those standards r met they tend to stick around, often for a very long time - which the bond between them will be so intertwined that it'll be so fvcking hard to uproot.

Does anyone here disagree? I'm sure some of you r gonna google or YouTube some chemical nerd explanation or an even nerd-ier new age ideology, don't waste ur fvcking time, I'm a living prove of never had the experience of being dumped for another supposedly higher status men and there's countless of higher status men being dumped or cheated on by their wife's. So fvck ur noob ideology, you can't sell noob ideology to a man who has lived a life of sin, lies, debauchery etc etc etc...

All of my past relationships ended, every single one of it ended because I allowed it, facilitate it, encouraged it, ignored it, didn't work on it, cheated on it etc etc etc. I found out I either consciously or unconsciously wanted it. Yes I admit it and so should you all who had women leave or have dumped women by the curb.

Is it so hard to take responsibility?

Or do you not find it cowardly to blame women for all ur troubles ?
Fvcking A!
 

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If someone is intelligent should they act dumb so others don't feel inferior?

If you are an alpha male should you act less alpha so that beta males don't feel inferior?

Complaining about intelligent people, calling them 'nerds' is the same as complaining about alpha males. It is an act of frustration which comes from a place of weakness.

And anyway I'm not that intelligent. My iq last time I checked is around 120 which is only slightly above average.
Uh huh. I 100% believe u.

Being magnanimous - I do hope that my stamp of approval will negate ur need 2 further defend/validate ur IQ level and any lingering frustrations u might hv.
 

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I'm in a good mood today.

I'm sure there's many of you out there who r strict believers of hypergamy, come take a shot at Spaz.

And don't worry, I can handle it.

Now don't be shy. I promise to not shame any of you, and I'll even be oh so gentle..and considerate with ur.... gentle feelings.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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All these scientific terms is giving me a headache.

I'm a trained engineer, I prefer simple and straight to the point.

Remember, I'm speaking from experiences with women that I had the privilege to cohabit or were in an extended LTR.

To claim that all women r continously seeking out a higher status man is just plain idiotic and a rather convenient excuse men uses to describe their own overall idiotic character + failures. You boys need to buck up and be a fvcking man to admit ur own shortcomings.

Now don't be mad or get emotional, listen 1st and then use ur nerd brain to process it slowlyyyy. I'll use layman terms for easy understanding;

Women r allowed 2 hv standards in dating/marrying and once those standards r met they tend to stick around, often for a very long time - which the bond between them will be so intertwined that it'll be so fvcking hard to uproot.

Does anyone here disagree? I'm sure some of you r gonna google or YouTube some chemical nerd explanation or an even nerd-ier new age ideology, don't waste ur fvcking time, I'm a living prove of never had the experience of being dumped for another supposedly higher status men and there's countless of higher status men being dumped or cheated on by their wife's. So fvck ur noob ideology, you can't sell noob ideology to a man who has lived a life of sin, lies, debauchery etc etc etc...

All of my past relationships ended, every single one of it ended because I allowed it, facilitate it, encouraged it, ignored it, didn't work on it, cheated on it etc etc etc. I found out I either consciously or unconsciously wanted it. Yes I admit it and so should you all who had women leave or have dumped women by the curb.

Is it so hard to take responsibility?

Or do you not find it cowardly to blame women for all ur troubles ?


thank god


somebody with a reasonable ****ing post
 

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Am I the only guy here on SS who thinks that hypergamy is a load of crap?

It can't be true simply because when a woman is in love, hypergamy is dead.
I also think it's a LOAD OF CRAP. And I'm basing it on decades of dating experience. Not that hypergamy doesn't exist, because it does. BUT, it's WAY over blown on this board. It's merely an excuse for guys who don't have game, act beta, or just aren't what a woman is looking for. Women do not intend to play leap frog with men, they have to because so many are poor choices. 80-90% of women don't really like to serial date and would far prefer one good guy. Most women are looking for emotional connection, not the tallest, biggest, richest guy. You keep losing women over and over? Look in the mirror, don't blame hypergamy. Get better and realize you don't and won't win every game. But quit making excuses and blaming hypergamy. Enough.
 

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I also think it's a LOAD OF CRAP. And I'm basing it on decades of dating experience. Not that hypergamy doesn't exist, because it does. BUT, it's WAY over blown on this board. It's merely an excuse for guys who don't have game, act beta, or just aren't what a woman is looking for. Women do not intend to play leap frog with men, they have to because so many are poor choices. 80-90% of women don't really like to serial date and would far prefer one good guy. Most women are looking for emotional connection, not the tallest, biggest, richest guy. You keep losing women over and over? Look in the mirror, don't blame hypergamy. Get better and realize you don't and won't win every game. But quit making excuses and blaming hypergamy. Enough.
But looking yourself in the mirror would require being able to take blame. As I stated previously before, guys on SS can’t do that. They’d rather blame the sl000ts and everything else before realizing that hey maybe I’m the problem.
 

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I'm still waiting...

Where r those prophets of hypergamy blame game?

There's posting upon postings on hypergamy, it's almost a religious edict in SS forum.

Don't be shy.

Come teach Spaz a thing or 2.
 

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Uh huh. I 100% believe u.

Being magnanimous - I do hope that my stamp of approval will negate ur need 2 further defend/validate ur IQ level and any lingering frustrations u might hv.
Thanks cupcake xx
 

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If the guy had no anger issues and was half-way decent morally, he may not look so repulsive, but he just looks, "covetous, envious, possessive, greedy, selfish" etc. so your outer looks will reflect your inner self more. If you well up with love and can tear up at idk seeing a mural or you know like those crosses with a jersey hanging from it cause that was the site of someone's son or daughter who was killed either riding his/her bike or a car accident whatever. I can tear up seeing those roadside vigils cause I know that someone's child was taken from them at that spot in some accident I never heard of or knew about. All it is is a cross, a jersey, and flowers, but I'll react cause it's so sad but at the same time you see the love from the family placing those things there on the side of the road.

So trying to make porn or fvck any woman without a heart or decent morals in front of a lot of people, sure she'll get creeped out.
 

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Wut?! I thought there was a market in porn for guys like that? The slim geeky looking type that a lot of porn watchers probably would identify with.

Btw, the word "porn" isn't censored.
Lol i know right. If I were to watch porn, which I don’t, I’d rather watch this guy getting a piece of ass than Fabio
 

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Uh, she wasn't a porn star. She was a chick on a reality porn show who simply wasn't really wanting to do it. She got kicked off...
 

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I also think it's a LOAD OF CRAP. And I'm basing it on decades of dating experience. Not that hypergamy doesn't exist, because it does. BUT, it's WAY over blown on this board. It's merely an excuse for guys who don't have game, act beta, or just aren't what a woman is looking for. Women do not intend to play leap frog with men, they have to because so many are poor choices. 80-90% of women don't really like to serial date and would far prefer one good guy. Most women are looking for emotional connection, not the tallest, biggest, richest guy. You keep losing women over and over? Look in the mirror, don't blame hypergamy. Get better and realize you don't and won't win every game. But quit making excuses and blaming hypergamy. Enough.
I think what people forget is that women are individuals and everything is on a spectrum

There are just as many women who would stay with you to the end even if you aren't the hottest guy on earth as there are women who would immediately leave you if you lost your job.

Most people fall in the middle on the hypergamy scale, she isn't going to dump you every time you lose a race or push up contest or a coworker gets promoted over you but she isn't going to bang homer simpson or peter griffin either.

Although i will say to be very careful when believing things like "emotional connection" depending on the woman it comes from. Plenty of women really do need to be intellectually stimulated or connect with a compatible personality or something like that, but there's plenty of women who will date a handsome wealthy thug for his "sensitive side" or a dumb jock who sets school records on the field because they "have a lot in common"
 

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Horse cawk ftw. Likely she's crazy.
It's possible that she's realistic, how many non-porn chads out there want to marry a porn star?
 

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It's possible that she's realistic, how many non-porn chads out there want to marry a porn star?
when you look like this as a woman






you can murder somebody and find a good looking, rich husband to marry...
 
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