"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Went to a wedding yesterday...

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It’s been about two and a half years now since I was unplugged. I haven’t been to any weddings since then, but this one was unavoidable. Everything that I have seen so many times, seems so cringeworthy now. The vows, the tears, the things the guys cater to, and the lame jokes the preacher makes about how the woman is always right. I wanted to walk out, I simply couldn’t believe this nonsense.

I suppose I have no point to all this, it just made me feel sorry for the poor groom. the maid of honor made a good speech, (which shocked me) theirs are usually the worst when it comes to all the BS. She mentioned murder and poison! I was the only one to really lol when she dropped that joke.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe they love each other and will go on to have beautiful children and a great life together, while you're over here grumbling into your microwave ready meal
 

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It’s been about two and a half years now since I was unplugged. I haven’t been to any weddings since then, but this one was unavoidable. Everything that I have seen so many times, seems so cringeworthy now. The vows, the tears, the things the guys cater to, and the lame jokes the preacher makes about how the woman is always right. I wanted to walk out, I simply couldn’t believe this nonsense.
Don't forget the white dress despite skiing down cawk mountain. Cucks lol

I suppose I have no point to all this, it just made me feel sorry for the poor groom. the maid of honor made a good speech, (which shocked me) theirs are usually the worst when it comes to all the BS. She mentioned murder and poison! I was the only one to really lol when she dropped that joke.
You sir are ****ing up.

Its the red pill, seeing female nature as it is, and letting it bleed into other areas of life. Your behavior, your means of articulation, and even choice of words will betray you. Smarten up.

If you cannot stand it,are incapable of at the least masking this, don't go. I attend weddings and I always say the something about "I just haven't met the right girl but one day... "



I then chuckle to myself.

Its similar to pickup, to the red pill or mgtow. I don't make speeches about the divorce stat and women initiating 2/3 divorces. I don't call out the white dresses despite Sloot gonna Sloot. I don't verbalize female nature nor do I do a background check scourging cyberspace for revenge porn of the woman in question (although, I bet I could find it).

Too operate accordingly, its covert. Its like batman and Bruce Wayne. Its the shadow in Jungian psychology. Its to be integrated but, you are to be smart in not bringing it to a wedding or the workplace.


Make rounds at the singles table. Smash skanks. Pursue.

Kero eye on the prize.
 

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Do you guys genuinely believe good women don't exist or it's that you have a lack of faith in your own judgement to find them or skill to keep them?
 

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It has nothing to do with the women. She’s my niece, a good girl. It’s just the gag worthy customs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It has nothing to do with the women. She’s my niece, a good girl. It’s just the gag worthy customs.
Its just a bad contract for men. More and more guys are realizing this now.
 
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