"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For the white men, would you date a single mommy with a mixed-race child?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

https://i.redd.it/8ltsd9eae7711.png

Now of course, most here would say not to date a single mommy to begin with, but let's face the facts that a desperately horny & sexually frustrated man could rationalize his choice to date a single mommy. And with a rugrat of the same race, there is the plausibility that folks looking at his situation could presume that the kid is his; however, with a mixed-race kid, this is impossible.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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Would I date? Prob not, but i would bang if she was hot enough. In this case, based on looks, grammar and profile info this chick is basically white trash.
 

bigdave17

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no I don't date single moms, much less white trash single moms like that
 

R.U.G.

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Bro, 1st, I wouldn't even fvck a single mother. If they made one mistake, then, chances are she'll be open to having another "mistake". Second, this is is U-G-L-Y

WTF. You feeling okay? Raise your standards.

If she's widowed, then I'd make the exception though. I dated a single divorced twice mother from her "accident" child. Like marriage, never again.
 

mrgoodstuff

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If she was attractive, had stuff going for her and treated me good, sure.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DEEZEDBRAH

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I was looking at this, and it got me interested:

https://i.redd.it/8ltsd9eae7711.png

Now of course, most here would say not to date a single mommy to begin with, but let's face the facts that a desperately horny & sexually frustrated man could rationalize his choice to date a single mommy. And with a rugrat of the same race, there is the plausibility that folks looking at his situation could presume that the kid is his; however, with a mixed-race kid, this is impossible.
I don't care what the kid is. I don't play house with cratered SMV ie single moms or nearing expiration.

Cucks do.

Hey little boy. I am your new daddy!



Outside throaters on a dry spell, its hit and run material.

A lot of so called men need to get there test checked.
 

devilkingx2

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I'd prolly smash even though she's almost certainly chubby and has a five-head

I'm pleasantly surprised that nobody has said that the kid not being white is worse, I've spent too much time on /pol/ lol
 

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I could, but the one you linked to in particular I wouldn't touch. Photos scream "I'm messed up", she apparently believes in God (which is an absolute no go for me), she's not pretty and her style looks trashy.
 

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In my apartment complex, there's this white guy and thick white girl and they have three mixed girls. I'm scared to ask if they adopted them or it's her kids, but the dude does seem beta lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dustmuffin

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That woman looks very rough. No ty to white mom with mixed kids.
 

IKO69

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No, because I would not date a single mom.
 
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