"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bigdave17

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What do you guys do when you see a super cutie with an amazing body at the gym?


I saw this super cute 22-25 year old Spanish girl (looked maybe Venezuelan or something, god she was pretty) today at the gym and I wanted to talk to her so bad, I just couldn't think of anything to say that wouldn't be horrendously awkward. The fact that she had headphones on didn't make things any easier
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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maxwell0560505

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I'll be squatting incredibly heavy and then look extremely gassed like I'm about to pass out or something after the set, and then she looks my way like are you ok? and we start a conversation. Have met many friends who are girls this way and they are all really bomb.
 

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What's up? High five. Break rapport. If she's hovering near you,assume she's mirrin. Act accordingly. I've handed off equipment once and you pull back as she reaches for it. Its all practice. Every set.every chick is no matter how hot.

A trick I learned, chat up baee the way you would if you already went balls deep.

It doesn't hurt being aesthetic. And deezed.
 

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I'll be squatting incredibly heavy and then look extremely gassed like I'm about to pass out or something after the set, and then she looks my way like are you ok? and we start a conversation. Have met many friends who are girls this way and they are all really bomb.
I once called a girl Arnold and told her to relax. She wrote her number down before leaving.
 

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Yoga and cardio classes are best place. But only step to those who chosen you .

Don't be trying to game women in the weight room . They are trying to lift.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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maxwell0560505

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If you actually look like a bodybuilder and you know what you are doing, it isn't very hard to start a conversation with them. However, if you have garbage game like me, which is why I'm here, you won't get them in the sack with that wide back
 

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If you actually look like a bodybuilder and you know what you are doing, it isn't very hard to start a conversation with them. However, if you have garbage game like me, which is why I'm here, you won't get them in the sack with that wide back
It's just a bad place to convo. Folks trying to get their workout in.

Cardio and yoga classes have the lineup before the class and the let out. You'll talk to folks who are familiar with you .

Invite them for a smoothie or something .
 

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Btw, on your original question . I do NOTHING if she's not giving me eye contact I don't waste energy looking at her.

I think your looking around too much . Fvck some of the better babes currently who want to give it up. Check back in a few weeks to see if the world looking at you different.
 

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You don't talk to her. You go to the gym to work on your body, not to talk to women LOL
 
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