You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Effects of alcohol do this . I laugh every time i remember this thought.
Body wise the first chick. But her face wasn't attractive enough. I have banged a woman like the first picture once and never again.how fat was she OP post a pic
was she like this
or was she like this
I think that's just alcohol doing it's job. Definitely being kind enough adds more into their confidence.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
same here but I learned long ago on this forum if a woman is over a 135 pounds she is considered fat LOL
and went home alone
Lol don't cry bro.
an 8ball you in LA? lol
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Nah bro, 3.5 grams of anything is an 8th of an ounce hence an 8ball. World wide lingo. Was cocaine, I don’t smoke weed, makes you lazy, I had a great time.
I often think that I need to drink more...
Didn’t read a thing didn’t you?
Idgaf to prove to you what i did that night or why what i did is better than yours or not .
I think the same, but i have noticed different amounts do different things
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I do post a lot you're right there, but I do most of it from work, like now.
Your boss must be proud of you when you spend the hours he is paying you to be productive and instead you are here trying to prove to unknown people your worthless lifestyle . You are a joke.
Sorry for the delay in response, I had to quickly service 4 of the harem that were waiting for me in the nearby hotel I sometimes work from. I just showed my boss your post and he laughed while we clinked our champagne glasses and ate grapes. Must dash, I have my private helicopter about to land on the roof.
I thought you said you have put me on ignore. Big words no action . Tiny little beta male .
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.