You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
my opinion: I think we're firmly in the angry incel moment.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No, we’re in the time of improperly parented kids without any ingrained moral structure that have the ability to go psycho and have free acess to daddy’s guns…
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How would sosuave help him? Even if you red-pill it there is still "oneitis" and what are you going to really advise him...go and find 10 other women to get laid with to get your mind off *that* girl? (i.e. nobody would advise him to convert a zero or low interest woman right? There isn't anything to work with) Red-pill isn't for everyone since some of the advice is a bit retarded, like that one.
Well, yeah, you can't have a constructive "incel" concept. Imagine if men's rights activists started behaving like that? People look at you like one day you are just going to snap and start going crazy if you don't have a girlfriend in your arms. How are even single straight guys or chronically single straight guys going to feel like that? If you don't have a relationship with a woman, then you are a potential mass shooter or are going to start killing people like that? That would sound even more dangerous than what you just described. I just hope that single men don't start getting profiled on this nonsense.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could not possibly agree MORE with this post.
Potentially. Who knows? At least there's some guidance on here. I do wonder if these hardcore incels are beyond help though.
If he was exposed to red pill thinking he could’ve moved on from the first or second rejection with less pain and without being humiliated. If you are willing to really absorb the info here then yes, it is highly unlikely you develop an obsession with a woman to the point of murdering her.
There are several million high school students, sorry but there is very little law enforcement can do without sweeping violations of civil liberties.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So what’s the point of law enforcement in general then?
You must have a low IQ. It's not illegal to be "racsiss" and define Racist will you? WHITE people only?? Anyway, you can't tell when or if ANYONE will do any killing with car or gun. That's why EVERYONE should be allowed to carry a firearm Anywhere. People would be a lot nicer. Also, bring back insane asylums. They were chock-full of people pre-1980s. They are currently large structures (hotel looking) decaying and falling apart because the "cost" was too much of continuing them. We have old-folk's homes that function kinda the same, yet family usually pays for that. The solution is not apprehending anyone who is not insane just because of what that person Believes. I don't *like* being discriminated against, but I can't Control other people. I could be the purfect whittle WHITE man and trying to do the nazi salute and be ALL that someone thinks I should be and Still not please that person. So if a person is discriminatory against ME, then I just avoid that person and laugh and smile and think how could he just Look at me and know that I'm not the sh!t, a person to be friends with? I currently can count on my hand how many people I've come into contact with in the past idk 2 years that do not like me or act all "exclusive" against me when in my presence, and I know it's THEM cause 95.9999999% of people are open to me. I begin thinking that this person before me is from another state, like possibly a yankee or a state where people are rude (I think Most of the states East and North are like that, even the South has a lot of em). I look for license plates. People who enjoy NATURE generally will not treat you with exclusivity. I like going out and looking at, being in nature. I like dogs. Most people where I live, like it when you like/pet their dog or cat, or give it a treat.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
