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with me again. We'd hang out, work on his/my car/truck, go to bluegrass joints to drink and hear music. He's been married since 19, has girls. Every time I went over to his house his wife never said a word to me and was COLD cold cold cold, never smiling. She's a bit chubby, he's thin and strong, VERY hard worker, very smart and practical. He's 2 years older than me, so they've been married 22 years. So today he tells me that he and his wife are going to "marriage counseling." As he is not necessarily "red-pilled" as WE all are and many on youtube ARE, he doesn't realize what "marriage counseling" MEANS, and what it means to ME, a redpill for over a decade is, is Death to his marriage. I say, "I'm sorry," and he says nothing and seems a bit annoyed by my conclusion, that it's pretty much over. He probably still thinks that "marriage counseling" will world or would work. To ME and every other redpiller and youtube content provider MGTOW content or Men's Rights Advocates videos producers, "marriage counseling" means "husband is Wrong, he needs to change or else..." It's usually the death nail. And If I were him I'd be converting my assets to gold and burying them right now and hiring an attorney and proceeding to divorce her when the time comes BEFORE she divorces me and when Her attorney asks for the money, say "I don't know. I have no clue where it went." It's much like Terrence Popp says here,

but I'm sure he'd never watch such a "Pig" video. Poor guy. I can't come over anymore cause marriage counseling says that he is "not spending enough time with his family." 22 YEARS guys. She knows what she's doing. He even got a vasectomy for her a couple of years ago. What a moron.
 

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Weak men deserve to be destroyed. Simple as that. And women are taking care of that perfectly.
 

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Weak men deserve to be destroyed. Simple as that. And women are taking care of that perfectly.
That's a bit harsh, so because someone made a mistake, thought someone was different or had a more noble view of the world, they deserve to be destroyed? Wow, hope you never make a wrong move, hope you stay perfect your entire life because otherwise, you deserve to be destroyed.
 

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You can make one mistake, but marrying the wrong woman and accepting counseling and bla bla bla is a SERIES OF MISTAKES and if you can't stop making mistakes, you deserve to be punished.

Mistake 1: marrying that biatch. Why can't you stop at 1?
 

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I'm in almost the exact same situation. Best friend since 7th grade. He has been married 19 years. A couple years ago he called me crying his nutz off cuz he thought his wife was cheating. I helped him break into her phone and we found evidence that she wasn't cheating but in just a few days she was going to spend the night with a male friend so the writing was on the wall. They had a big fight. Went to counseling. I told him to leave her and not look back. But he did the opposite and got sappy with her.. Now he posts all this stuff on FB about how wonderful she is and I nearly vomit. His wife told him "Lefty is just a jaded man who can't keep a marriage or a woman, you should not be listening to him he will not give you sound advise". Since then, about 2 years ago, I think I have seen my buddy 4 x times and we live 10 miles from each other. We used to live 30 miles apart and hang out AT LEAST 3 times a week. I asked him if the reason he doesn't hang is cuz of the wife, and he says no. But I know better. It makes me sick but nothing I can do. I'll keep my couch open for him when she cheats and/or trades him in at the divorce market and collects his assets.
 

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I'm in almost the exact same situation. Best friend since 7th grade. He has been married 19 years. A couple years ago he called me crying his nutz off cuz he thought his wife was cheating. I helped him break into her phone and we found evidence that she wasn't cheating but in just a few days she was going to spend the night with a male friend so the writing was on the wall. They had a big fight. Went to counseling. I told him to leave her and not look back. But he did the opposite and got sappy with her.. Now he posts all this stuff on FB about how wonderful she is and I nearly vomit. His wife told him "Lefty is just a jaded man who can't keep a marriage or a woman, you should not be listening to him he will not give you sound advise". Since then, about 2 years ago, I think I have seen my buddy 4 x times and we live 10 miles from each other. We used to live 30 miles apart and hang out AT LEAST 3 times a week. I asked him if the reason he doesn't hang is cuz of the wife, and he says no. But I know better. It makes me sick but nothing I can do. I'll keep my couch open for him when she cheats and/or trades him in at the divorce market and collects his assets.
I would have a hard time being friend with someone that is so easily manipulated. It's not a safe practice to hang around people who are so *****-whipped, you could get into all sorts of trouble with this man, but that's just my 2 cents.
 

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I would have a hard time being friend with someone that is so easily manipulated. It's not a safe practice to hang around people who are so *****-whipped, you could get into all sorts of trouble with this man, but that's just my 2 cents.
I agree. Easier said than done with such a close friend but logically you are 100% correct.
 

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Similar thing happened to me. Had a friend, hated his wife from day one and she hated me. She knew I knew what her game was. She was one of those women that was very conscious of her hypergamy and games, a true piece of work. Anyway, I spent years pointing out how she was a terrible wife and didn't love him but it took a year of no sex to kick his butt into gear and they finally split. Called me shortly afterwards and was like, "You were right." One of those times when you're right and you're pretty unhappy about it. But I am glad he got away from that marriage early on and now his life is so much better.

Point is though, unplugging beta guys with oneitis is impossible according to what I've observed. I have never heard of it successfully happening until they absolutely know that there is no chance with the woman. If they think there's a chance, they will cling to their beta game for dear life.
 

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Dude's hardly my friend anymore. Not "bros before hoes" apparently. He does/did ALL the housework, ALL the yardwork. It was Never enough. His house/yard/garage All immaculate due solely to him. I borrowed his pruner and broke it and she flipped about it. That was kinda the end of our friendship late last year I think. I paid this bro a bit of cash over the years to fix 2 trucks. He was a former Ford technician and would get the job done quick over at his house. He's no longer gungho to make a side buck and drink beer talk about various work issues on a Saturday. I guess I'm upset a little at not having another friend as good as he is at fixing this stuff I know nothing about or would take days to fix, me personally. I do not want to pay out the nose for a bend-me-over mechanic now either. The whole thing his wife making an issue out of nothing plus I think she's got his own daughters turned against him now so 3v1. He totally castrated now. I see a more tired look on him at work now. Must be miserable working 55-60 hours a week knowing you're not appreciated when you get home. I don't have that problem and that's what makes me give money to people on a whim, or a gift or something spontaneously cause I have no debt. He hordes every penny.
 

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Ok finally talked to this friend of a decade today (yesterday, it's 12 AM). He came out and explained to me (kinda detailed) him and his wife's "sit down" talk (2 hours) a couple of days ago. I don't know why he was spillin all the beans, but I was just tellin him that it took me 3 hours to fix my truck...something that would probably take him 10 minutes :) bought a whole new toolset (just letting him know how miserable/expensive his wife has made my life - cause he has ALL the tools, air compressor, jacks, powerful air drills extra lights and all kinds of little screws and car parts on hand in his garage).

So he tells me that he straight up asked his wife if she "loved" him, to which he says she says Nothing and closed-mouthed emotionless. They've been married for 25 YEARS since teens. He then asks her if she's happy to which she says, "NO." He asks her What she has done or does for him (around the house, yard work or inside doesn't matter or working to bring in money whatever) to which she says nothing. She does NOTHING. His yard is immaculate and he like keeps records of stuff used on the yard very meticulous in maintaining/improving it. He hung ALL the Christmas lights by himself I remember. He of course fixes her car, their daughter's car. Brings in ALL the money. Does ALL the housework (toilets, beds, vacuuming, dishes, trash, ALL of it). He tells her that sex is horrible (on her part) - I'm thinking cold fish "get it over with" here in my mind. He's a fvcking mechanic and a mechanic KNOWS how to manipulate pvssy to maximum orgasm I can guarantee you that. So she says, "She can get (great) sex fine in the bathtub" so masturbation. She's 5 years older than he is so almost 50. He tells me that he can make her life miserable and that no other guy would want a (washed up) woman like that at 49. I'm thinking, "You'd be surprised" and then relaying to him getting an alcoholic anonymous card (he's drank beer moderately for years), a gambling addiction card, etc and go to the casinos and grow a record of his paying for food there spending money there and for the next few months taking just under 10 grand and converting it to gold (I don't think he even has that much in savings - she spends it ALL) just like is said in the video by Terrence Popp posted above. I'm sure he'll never watch that video. He thinks my ideas shared from Popp are insane. He's like, "My credit rating is 850." I'm like I don't CARE, that's an amazing credit rating higher than mine (but I have no debt which probably hurts mine), but tell him that he's gonna get FVCKED so hard in divorce court (which he knows and admits) and that he needs to make it an equal fvck back to her and file Chapter 7 bankruptcy when her lawyers come to take his money. Just say, "I don't have it!" "I got really stressed out by me and my wife's relationship unraveling, that I turned to alcohol and gambling!" He won't fire back. He is INDEED from the old school old way of magnificent SACRIFICE (on all counts) for the female that his is beholden to (his daughters being raised ultra-feminist as well in the school system no doubt to be just like their cold MEAN mom). He is ultra Cuck. And his knowledge of Fixing things (started with working on boats as a kid long ago) is Vast and he has so many skills, it's a total absolute CRIME that his wife of 25 years is just Dead with him (because I imagine she Wants, wants, wants... more more more and he's doing all he can Do to support all 4 of them). He had no father really to be a father to him growing up too, so he's truly self-effacing and self-sacrificial cause he had no father I guess.

He sees me that is At Ease and not worrying a dime about virtually Anything in life and on coast, on cruise control and I hire a maid quarterly to clean my house and do my own yardwork (cause I have no problem with it and outside work in my mind should be the man's work as it was my granddads duties I witnessed while the grandmas were inside cooking and hand-washing dishes, clothes etc). Because I cannot find a woman that does all these traditional inside work or is willing to LONG-TERM like my ancestors did, I have to outsource it. I went a different route than my friend here. It really is the Easy life for me. It's kinda eaten himself up seeing me like this so at ease, just que sera sera life living in the cool breeze, and wonderful smells waving through the air and enjoying rustling trees birds green grass. I have no nagging wh0re.

This is a result in my mind from the cellphone. She and all other women you see today are being swallowed up by social media and the planted Wants of More and more and more and more and insipid IDEAS creep and take root in their minds (like WEEDS I kill via blowtorch - Call the fire department, I don't give a FVCK - every other weekend in my front yard).
 

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I’m so confused. How do these guys marry these girls if they KNOW they don’t love them? Do the guys think these girls are playing hard to get? Aka not interested? It baffles me.

My buddy HATES his fiancée. **** she was on a girls gone wild for ****s sake and yet this dude is marrying her.

I know dudes with girlfriends who say “can’t wait for my girlfriend to leave so I can have fun” ....why are you with her if she brings you down and you don’t have fun together... I’m so mind blown by this. Even in my most beta days I can still see this sh1t
 

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I’m so confused. How do these guys marry these girls if they KNOW they don’t love them? Do the guys think these girls are playing hard to get? Aka not interested? It baffles me.

My buddy HATES his fiancée. **** she was on a girls gone wild for ****s sake and yet this dude is marrying her.

I know dudes with girlfriends who say “can’t wait for my girlfriend to leave so I can have fun” ....why are you with her if she brings you down and you don’t have fun together... I’m so mind blown by this. Even in my most beta days I can still see this sh1t
It’s out of hope that one day things will get better. Taking the red pill is the loss of that hope or finally knowing/understanding it’s futility.
 

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Sounds like supplication to the nth degree. Just more examples of androgynenous men who have lost their manhood, not because of their women, but because of their own fragile psyche.

The worst part is, anyone here could likely fix their problems, but it is incredibly difficult to make them see the light. I tried with my buddy and he practically called me crazy. You have to find a way to connect, have to find a way to get through, especially if this is a friend you care about and feel they are legitimately good for each other.

Ask questions that let them come to their own conclusions, such as...
-How is the sex life? It's likely $hit. Do you think that's okay? How does that make you feel?

-What do you guys fight about? Then lead him down a line of questioning which gives yes answers.

-Ask him about the kids (if any). There is a growing number of women who expect more from a man than a paycheck. I could write a novel on the failings of men in this area because it is enormous. A man needs to be a husband, lover, and father. He does not get to work part time on any of those jobs.

Whatever the case, DO NOT tell him what he should do. You have to guide him along a logical train of thought and let him draw his own conclusions. Have some books ready when he asks.
 

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It’s out of hope that one day things will get better. Taking the red pill is the loss of that hope or finally knowing/understanding it’s futility.
That’s like saying you have one leg and hope the other grows back soon.

I feel like it’s liberation. They come to understand that they don’t have to be treated like garbage and they can have any girl they choose.
 

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You can make one mistake, but marrying the wrong woman and accepting counseling and bla bla bla is a SERIES OF MISTAKES and if you can't stop making mistakes, you deserve to be punished.

Mistake 1: marrying that biatch. Why can't you stop at 1?
It's not that simple, it isn't. Look, you can say whatever you want looking from the outside in. You get married, strike one. You don't have a pre-nup, strike two. You have kids then, definite big whiff and a strike three. People make decisions with rose colored glasses on sometimes and that usually leads to some level of them getting screwed but guys without much training, without much role modeling growing up, many of them are going to make that mistake. It may be stupid, naive and not in true view of the world but I don't think they need to be destroyed, they need to be re-educated.
 

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That’s like saying you have one leg and hope the other grows back soon.

I feel like it’s liberation. They come to understand that they don’t have to be treated like garbage and they can have any girl they choose.
That’s how it was for me. But for most of the guys who find out about it, it’s because they got crushed by some girl. Hence why it’s the loss of hope for most.
 

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Well he seemed upbeat today, more than every other time I'd seen him this year. I just don't see how his relationship with his wife of 25 Years will ever get better. "Counseling" is usually pretty much, "Man bad. Wife good. Do what wife says..." One of his daughters is graduating the other has 8 years until graduation. I couldn't function or work if I had an ice cold wife to come home to. I'd feel like I'm working for nothing.
 

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Well he seemed upbeat today, more than every other time I'd seen him this year. I just don't see how his relationship with his wife of 25 Years will ever get better. "Counseling" is usually pretty much, "Man bad. Wife good. Do what wife says..." One of his daughters is graduating the other has 8 years until graduation. I couldn't function or work if I had an ice cold wife to come home to. I'd feel like I'm working for nothing.
He's not functioning, he' just getting by.
 
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